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If God offered to sort out one everyday hassle for you, like keeping your car running forever, moving next door to your favorite restaurant, or paying off that overdue stubborn bill, what would you choose? It could be anything :clmSmlx
 
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If God offered to sort out one everyday hassle for you, like keeping your car running forever, moving next door to your favorite restaurant, or paying off that overdue stubborn bill, what would you choose? It could be anything :clmSmlx
An overdue bill. That would be nice.
 
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Wouldn't it just?

I think I would like to move closer to an on-fire Pentecostal church. That would be kind of cool. :clmSmlx
I would take the winning lottery numbers. They say money can't buy happiness. I would prove them wrong. :gd
 
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I would take the winning lottery numbers. They say money can't buy happiness. I would prove them wrong. :gd
Yes, for a short time. You can eat and drink lots, have lots of other pleasures,, buy lots of things that eventually own you, and even buy `friendship` for a time. However, your deepest need will not be fulfilled and you will still be `empty.`

You live in a lovely part of a great country, and yet you desire more and more. You carry a heavy burden of guilt, regret, anger, pain and suffering. All the make-up and bravo can`t hide that. Get real to yourself as that is the first step to healing.
 
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Yes, for a short time. You can eat and drink lots, have lots of other pleasures,, buy lots of things that eventually own you, and even buy `friendship` for a time. However, your deepest need will not be fulfilled and you will still be `empty.`
Yeah, maybe. But I wouldn't have to worry about the bottom line anymore. Peace of mind is it's own reward.
 
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Yeah, maybe. But I wouldn't have to worry about the bottom line anymore. Peace of mind is it's own reward.

The `bottom line.` Yes, there is so much to worry about and be anxious for in this world system.

And there is no Peace in this world. Can you tame your mind or your tongue?
 

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The `bottom line.` Yes, there is so much to worry about and be anxious for in this world system.

And there is no Peace in this world. Can you tame your mind or your tongue?
My mind, perhaps. But not my tongue. :p
 

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My mind, perhaps. But not my tongue. :p
Mmmm partly honest I think.

OK if you see a pretty girl can you stop lusting after her?
If you see a great car, can you stop lusting after it?
When you hear of others getting promotions etc, can you stop lusting after that?
 

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Mmmm partly honest I think.

OK if you see a pretty girl can you stop lusting after her?
Sure. I can easily lust after another. :funlaugh2

If you see a great car, can you stop lusting after it?
I'm not into cars in that way. They're tools to me and nothing more.

When you hear of others getting promotions etc, can you stop lusting after that?
I don't lust after promotions. I ask for more money or go elsewhere.
 

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Sure. I can easily lust after another. :funlaugh2


I'm not into cars in that way. They're tools to me and nothing more.


I don't lust after promotions. I ask for more money or go elsewhere.
Thanks for your honest reply. So my illustrations didn`t fit you. So how about forgiving others who hurt you some way. Can you do that? Is your heart (which affects your mind) free of guilt, unforgiveness, hurt, rejection, anger, bitterness etc?
 

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Off for the evening. Have a good night and hope to continue tomorrow our good discussion.

Marilyn.
 
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Thanks for your honest reply. So my illustrations didn`t fit you. So how about forgiving others who hurt you some way. Can you do that?
It depends if they're sorry or not. If they aren't sorry, I won't forgive them.

Is your heart (which affects your mind) free of guilt, unforgiveness, hurt, rejection, anger, bitterness etc?
No.
 
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It depends if they're sorry or not. If they aren't sorry, I won't forgive them.


No.
Well said Riven.

Everyone, but just everyone has the same burden in their hearts. It is just how they try to deal with that that is different. Some try to be very good, others, drugs, alcohol, riches, positions, material things, etc.

Do you know what you do to try and dull the effect of carrying all that load?
 

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Well said Riven.

Everyone, but just everyone has the same burden in their hearts. It is just how they try to deal with that that is different. Some try to be very good, others, drugs, alcohol, riches, positions, material things, etc.

Do you know what you do to try and dull the effect of carrying all that load?
Distractions. Some people go to church. Some read the bible. I usually go for the alcohol. When I don't want to do that, I go for a night drive. It's particularly nice this time of year with all the Christmas lights and decorations.
 

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Distractions. Some people go to church. Some read the bible. I usually go for the alcohol. When I don't want to do that, I go for a night drive. It's particularly nice this time of year with all the Christmas lights and decorations.
It`s good that you realize this. Many don`t want to admit it. That`s good you go for a drive to see the Christmas lights etc. At other times do you like to look at nature? Have you any hobbies. I like to play music and also write on the forums.
 

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It`s good that you realize this. Many don`t want to admit it. That`s good you go for a drive to see the Christmas lights etc. At other times do you like to look at nature? Have you any hobbies. I like to play music and also write on the forums.
Yeah, I love nature. There isn't enough of it where I live. I enjoy writing short stories from time to time. Simulation video games are fun. The kind that allow me to build things from scratch. And I play my electric guitar from time to time.
 

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Yeah, I love nature. There isn't enough of it where I live. I enjoy writing short stories from time to time. Simulation video games are fun. The kind that allow me to build things from scratch. And I play my electric guitar from time to time.
Great, you have productive things to do and quite creative.

I would love to hear you play guitar. Do you just play the chords or the melody as well?
 
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Great, you have productive things to do and quite creative.

I would love to hear you play guitar. Do you just play the chords or the melody as well?
I play chords and the melody. Sometimes just a solo when I'm feeling extra creative. :funlaugh2

I want to learn the piano someday as well.
 
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I play chords and the melody. Sometimes just a solo when I'm feeling extra creative. :funlaugh2

I want to learn the piano someday as well.

You can have my piano, @Riven. We don't play it much. Sometimes I forget it's even there. I use it sometimes to tune the guitars. :clmSmlx
 
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