Thank you for the comments.
The necessity of salvation stems from our inherently “flawed” nature. That we are born ”flawed” can be readily seen by spending time with toddlers. They are self-centered, full of selfish desires, and execute behaviors that will yield those desires. In particular, at that age they want ALL of what they desire (e.g., toys) and will use force as necessary to gather all they desire to themselves.
So: should Christian parents be explaining faith and salvation to their toddlers? Is that what God expects?
Caring parents will teach them the basics of Love Your Neighbor: sharing with others and being gentle with them. As children grow older, parents can add other characteristics of Love Your Neighbor, such as humility, thankfulness, forgiveness. . . . Children should learn to be actively in the world, but never of the world. And somewhere along the way, they should be taught that it is no accident that the best foundation for a community is the nuclear family: life-long, faithful, monogamous couples and their children.
Understanding what it means to love God takes years and maturity. Concepts like justification by faith and salvation possibly even more.
But as adult Christians we should never assume that a focus on faith and salvation can replace the fundamentals underpinning God’s expectations: loving Him and our neighbors.
Blessings.
I agree that Christians are commanded to love God and love their neighbors. Jesus made that very clear in Matthew 22:37-40. And I certainly agree that parents should teach their children to love others, share, forgive, and treat people with kindness.
But I think we need to be careful not to confuse teaching children good behavior with teaching them the gospel.
You asked whether Christian parents should explain faith and salvation to their toddlers. Why wouldn't we begin teaching our children about Jesus as soon as they are able to understand? They may not understand everything at an early age, but that doesn't mean we should wait years before introducing them to the Savior.
Paul reminded Timothy that "from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus" (2 Timothy 3:15).
And Proverbs 22:6 tells us to "Train up a child in the way he should go."
Now, concerning loving God and our neighbors, I don't disagree with you. But here's the important distinction I was making in my original response.
We are not saved because we love God and our neighbors perfectly. We are saved by God's grace through faith in Jesus Christ.
Ephesians 2:8-9 says, "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast."
But notice what the very next verse says:
"For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them" (Ephesians 2:10).
Do you see the difference? Good works are what God has called those who belong to Christ to walk in. They are not what purchases our salvation.
And I would never suggest that someone can claim to love God while having no concern for how they treat others. First John 4:20 directly confronts that kind of hypocrisy.
My concern in this discussion is not that Christians are being encouraged to love God and their neighbors. My concern is when people begin teaching that our own righteousness or some higher level of holiness is what makes us acceptable to God.
We must never confuse the evidence of genuine faith with the basis of our salvation.
Both are important, but they are not the same thing.