It doesn’t really matter what the English words mean because Paul did not write in English. I showed you the definition of the Greek word translated avenge that Paul used.
-- "It doesn't matter what the English word means..." Your very words...yet your reply was an English translation of what Paul said.
What is good for thee is not for me?
You translated what Paul was talking about: "avenge, vengeance, revenger" (these are the very words you used).
I simply (correctly) pointed out that defending someone from a person meaning to kill them is not vengeance. It really is that simple.
The words that describe that action - if you are honest - are "defend, save, protect."
If you go after someone who has already killed your wife with an ax in order to teach them a lesson, THEN you are in the realm of "avenge, vengeance, revenger."
Again, simple stuff.
"Are you suggesting that killing them is showing love and mercy?"
-- Yes....to the innocent people that are going to be murdered if you don't stop the ax murder.
You imply that it is more important to show mercy by not stopping the ax murderer and let him kill your family (and possibly several others later on).
Scripture doesn't support that.
You are showing love and mercy by not killing them. However, it is not your place to kill. I’ll go back to the question you won’t answer.
Does God need you help to protect your family?
From your statements it seems to me that you either don’t believe that God will protect them or you don’t think He is capable of doing so.
I’ll ask again, is praying doing nothing?
-- First off, thank you for admitting that by killing the ax murder before he can murder them you are showing "love and mercy."
I am sorry that you do not understand that God sometimes uses us mere mortals to fulfill His promises here on earth.
Until you realize that, you will continue to be wrong in your thinking.
If that scenario happened, is that what you would say to Jesus when you faced Him? Remember, God showed mercy when His Son was murdered.
-- As far as what I would say to Jesus when I faced Him, I would be wholeheartedly thanking Him for giving me the ability to save my wife and child from senseless slaughter.
If it applied to you, you would of course thank God for the mercy and love of letting your wife and child be slaughtered and not stopping the person, thus allowing him to possibly kill more later.
God let Jesus die because Jesus was SUPPOSED to die.
Jesus said to His disciples ‘when they persecute you flee’. Paul did nothing but follow what Jesus said.
-- That runs completely contrary to the scripture you quoted: "And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other;"
Fleeing to keep from being smited....
Care to share the scripture where Jesus said, "when they persecute you, you flee?"
My friend, these kinds of statements show a lack of faith in God. Is He able to protect His own or not? You statements seem to indicate to me that you don’t think He is able.
-- Actually what is show is not a lack of faith on my part but a lack of understanding on yours. You can quote scripture, but you don't seem to realize it doesn't apply the way you think.
And again, you faith to comprehend that sometimes Jesus carries out His will via us mere mortals. Do you really not understand that?
"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life." - John 3:16
-- According to the black-and-white way you look at scripture, that means that every single person that believes in Jesus will be saved, no matter what.
Yet demons believe in Jesus. Will they be saved?
I know people who believe in Jesus but are living lives of sin. What's more, they don't feel that they are sinning and will likely die in their sin. Will their belief in Jesus blot out the fact that they did not turn away from sin at all?
According to the way you read scripture, both those groups will be saved simply because they believe.
"That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." - Rom. 10:9
-- Reading this scripture the way you read scripture this means all you have to do is believe that Jesus was raised from the dead.
I have met Satanists that believe that Jesus rose from the dead. They believe that the Anti-Christ will negate His work.
I also know people who are hurting who acknowledge that Jesus has risen from the grave but have rejected Him nontheless.
Using your standard of looking at scriture, since both of those groups believe He was raised from the dead, they are saved and going to heaven.
Again, according to your standard, since I do not feel any of those will be saved, I am unwilling to believe or lack faith in God's scripture. Ridiculous.
No one is suggesting that you present you family to the ax wielding murderer, only that you not use force against him. You’ve already given the answer, flee.
-- That shows the limits of how you process. An ax murderer breaking into your home and cornering your wife and child doesn't leave the opportunity to "flee."
You can't simply say, "Excuse us while we run for our lives."
No my friend, God does not use the Christian to exact vengeance. You won’t find an example or command to that effect in the New Covenant.
-- Again, simple lack of understanding on your part. Having to kill someone to keep them from murdering your wife and child is not - repeat NOT - vengeance.
That doesn't fit the definition of vengeance in any language. It is called protecting...or defending...or saving.
NONE of those are synonyms for vengeance in any way, shape, form, or style.
Vengeance implies a motive of inflicting pain or damage for the sole purpose of inflicting pain or damage. This is done out of anger or hurt or a corrupted sense of administering justice...not the proactive protection of the innocent.
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