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The polygamous relationships....multiple wives and concubines....Christians want to look back and judge it wrong or a sin. Sorry but it is just a poor understanding the scriptures. Christians want to look back at the OT and Christianize it. The Mosaic Law regulated these relationships at several levels....God would not regulate wrong or sinful acts. That thinking....God regulated sinful acts????....How many levels of wrong is that? Many wives and many sons was part of the Jewish culture that the Mosaic Law did not speak against and regulated these relationships. And to have many wives and many sons was considered a blessing of God....an indication of favor....not sin. And God took credit for King David's wives.Below is a single post of mine from December of 2020 based a previous discussion concerning questions by @Grailhunter about repentance :
ON THE FENCE ABOUT REPENTANCE?
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This is an opinion…discussion…comment thread…about repentance concepts and how it all fits into salvation and our Christian life….have a blast. Starting with some basic questions….
1. Define repentance?
Turn around
Mark 9 needed more than one touch from Jesus. My vision has moved away from blindness... but still for some things, I believe, I am seeing as through a glass darkly.
4. Do we repent first before asking Christ to forgive our sins?
When we are drawn by the Father do we have to analyze and understand our situation like a well trained and experienced Psychologist before we step out in faith toward Him? Consider the situation of Lot and his wife leaving Sodom. What did they do?
"And delivered just Lot, vexed with the filthy conversation of the wicked:" I Peter 2:7
"But his wife looked back from behind him, and she became a pillar of salt." Gen 19:26
They both seemingly stepped out in faith, but apparently his wife had faith to follow her husband but no real faith in what God was offering and on the very verge of victory, she remembered something from before and looked back. Repentance first or faith first or asking of God first? God knows!
5. Do we need to ask Christ to forgive our sins? Is forgiveness automatic for Christians?
What is a Christian? People use the word all of the time, but without a definition how can anyone even begin to define it. With a proper definition [if there is such a thing understandable to all] then the question may be like the previous one [#4] asking for an analysis an unlearned or unstudied person may not be able to give. Is a proper Bible education necessary prior to beginning to serve God?
6. Can you repent a habitual sin? In other words can an alcoholic or drug user become a Christian in good standing while he or she fights the addiction, desire, or lifestyle? Or does he or she have to wait until they have entirely kicked the habit or activity? If so, how long?
Can the heart of a person be changed while the body continues to walk in many of the ways it has always walked? Why did King David have several wives when in Genesis and the words of Jesus in the gospels and the words of Paul in his epistles it seems clear to many [most?] people that marriage is a two person thing? Several wives, yet called the "apple of His eye" and a "man after God's own heart"?
God did not change, but perhaps King David was growing toward God, but just did not make it that far in his walk before his walk was finished. He had finished his course. For David there was no more time, but certainly he had been elevated during his time! Where will each of us believers be at the end of our course? Will we all be the same? Will we all be perfect? Will we all be overcomers? Who among us will come up short in the eyes of God because we ran out of time before we have overcome it all? How long? How high? Etc.?
Does not all of that help us to understand why Jesus said this?
"Judge not, that ye be not judged.
For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye" Matt 7:1-3
Who is a qualified judge for each and everyone of us?
What does God expect from us to be good and do good.
To paraphrase Spurgeon—“ Being ‘good’ will keep you out of jail, but only the Blood Of Christ will keep you out if Hell”......
OF COURSE God wants us to be good....being good is it’s own reward .....it beats the hell out of being bad.....one should strive to be as good as he can possibly be .....just realize that it is not the Formula for Salvation.Turning to God with Faith in Jesus Christ to Save you from your Sins? THAT is the Formula for Salvation ......don’t get confused about this as some in here are .....Simply Believe 1Cor15:1-4 and you will be “ good to go”.......God Bless...
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So the question becomes, “ what is the best way to ‘ master’ Sin?” How do we become Obedient?
You try to convince people that all ya have to do is believe and you can sin all you want and some how some way Christ is stupid enough to reward you with Heaven. Faith in Christ is the path to salvation....but if you want to go to heaven....be good and do good. Any thing else and it is a lie and a deception. Heaven will not be full of evil.
Those are God's words.
Do good and be good...the best ya can.
Pleasing to the Lord.
Rest in the Gospel....do you think it a a biblical phrase. Not!
Work out your salvation with fear and trembling.....is!
Evil forgiven does not change its character.“FORGIVEN Evil”
There is no wisdom in sinning.Thinking Cap” and try to understand the Wisdom Of this
The #1 Commandment is to Love God.....there is a reason for that— if you TRULY “ LOVE GOD” you can live as you please because you will live in a manner that pleases God .....you will do it because you WANT to.....as I have said—- “ LOVE is the ENGINE that drives Obedience” ...LOVE is what Christianity is ALL ABOUT .....if it is not Impetus and the Basis for your “ right living” ....You are Simply a “ Religionist”....and you just might be as Lost as a Muslim or a Buddhist...... Anybody can “ be good” and there are plenty of “ good” but Lost Muslims, Buddhists and even Atheists out there....along with so-called “ christians” out there......are you among them?
The polygamous relationships....multiple wives and concubines....Christians want to look back and judge it wrong or a sin. Sorry but it is just a poor understanding the scriptures. Christians want to look back at the OT and Christianize it. The Mosaic Law regulated these relationships at several levels....God would not regulate wrong or sinful acts. That thinking....God regulated sinful acts????....How many levels of wrong is that? Many wives and many sons was part of the Jewish culture that the Mosaic Law did not speak against and regulated these relationships. And to have many wives and many sons was considered a blessing of God....an indication of favor....not sin. And God took credit for King David's wives.
The Jews continued to have polygamous marriages for a thousand years after Christ ministry. And for those that converted to Christianity??? We do not have any indication that those that had multiply wives were turned away or required to divorce their wives to become Christians. And Paul addressed part of this when he said that to be leader in the church, you had to be the husband of only one wife. Worded like this...A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; .... So this also begs the question if it was a requirement to be married to be a bishop or overseer.
Of course as it is now....I do not agree with polygamy or concubinage.
I do not pretend to understand all of the things happening to the people who dwelt on planet Earth after the initial disobedience. I do believe that they were all born dead in the eyes of God. [You and me too!] God works with and in and blesses people who work with and yield themselves to Him...
God only removed a single part or rib from Adam with which He made Eve. He did not make other helpmeets or wives or concubines for each man as it is written in Genesis and as Jesus quoted it. Men developed a whole lot of things on their own that were not pleasing to God. A few individuals [groups?] throughout the OT somehow encountered God and strived to move back toward Him...
Evil forgiven does not change its character.
There is no wisdom in sinning.
Exactly...If you love God you will obey then you will be good and do good and all is good.