Assuming you already have the Spirit,You should change your ways. Be one with God.First of all, God is humble, honest,able to live just on water (Fasting), has self-control,not easily angered, merciful, gentle, joyful, He enduressufferings, not selfish, selfless and loving."And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption."(Ephesians 4:30)We should know what it means to be Holy for God is Holy."For I am the Lord who brought you up out of the land of Egypt to be your God. You shall therefore be holy, for I am holy.”(Leviticus 11:45)"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends."(1 Corinthians 13:1-8)"Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love."(1 John 4:8)"There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love."(1 John 4:18)