No, I'm far from confused...the chicken reference came from following your reasoning to it's conclusive end.
You say that because the bible uses the word 'father', 'son', 'begot', 'bride'...and so on, that we must take those words exactly in the connotation that we use them today. This is simply not so. Words have symbolic weight. My point was that if we were to follow your belief system, we must then also acknowledge that God was a hen, or eagle....
How precious is your steadfast love, O God!
The children of mankind take refuge in the shadow of your wings. (Psalm 36:7)
Be merciful to me, O God, be merciful to me,
for in you my soul takes refuge;
in the shadow of your wings I will take refuge,
till the storms of destruction pass by. (Psalm 57:1)
Like an eagle that stirs up its nest,
that flutters over its young,
spreading out its wings, catching them,
bearing them on its pinions,
the LORD alone guided him,
no foreign god was with him. (Deuteronomy 32:11-12)
“O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to it! How often would I have gathered your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing! (Matthew 23:37)
So either we follow your hermeneutics, which leads to faulty understanding of scripture, or we allow that God uses symbolic language to describe His relationship with His people and within the Godhead. You cannot have it both ways, and you cannot accuse me of being arrogant for saying so. It is simple truth and reason, nothing more.
Sigh. Okay. When a man gets married to a woman, they leave their parents and live together. Hence the term man and father and mother, son, etc. Pretty simple and straight forth.
When we come to the church being Christ's bride, we come to that symbolism. Jesus, as always, and in all things, is our example. In a human marriage, we look to him for how to live. Husbands are to be the head, as Christ is the head of the church. This doesn't mean that men are literally the head and have no body...without symbolism involved, you cannot make these scriptures work, they become ridiculous, so you push them in ways that make them heretical...as you have done.
We also need to look at the whole passage. It's clear that Paul is talking about how in a marriage we model the sacrificial behaviour of Christ...
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body.
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. (Ephesians 5:22-33)
The covenant of marriage is an echo of the covenant between God and His people. This passage outlines the ultimate responsibilities of both husband and wife within this covenant, and also highlights what Jesus has already done for the Church.
I must confess to being profoundly disturbed by what you are proposing by this text. You are holding so tightly to reading this so literally, I'm afraid you are actually suggesting that once Jesus has his 'marriage supper of the Lamb'...marries his 'bride', that the marriage will then be consummated, just as human marriage is. After all, you are claiming that Jesus will actually marry us all...a human marriage, rather than the covenant the bible is talking about. How on earth do you honestly manage to pull that intent from scripture? You do realise that to follow that logically to the end, for this to end up one big happy family, with God the Father, the Spirit, who is mother, the son happily married to the 4th member of the godhead...the church...that you are allowing for the kind of relationship that directly violates Gods edicts? I'm not going to say it outright...I cannot bring myself. But earlier you said you didn't care if male Christians were disturbed by the prospect of 'marrying' Christ (post #23).
Not only are your conclusions and logic faulty and irrational, but they boarder on the worst kind of heresy I've ever come across.