Is homosexuality right or wrong? A closer look...

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It is a sin to act on same sex urges.
Says that "homosexuals are seen as lustful sexual beings." He also says that heterosexual people fall in love, get married, and have children while homosexuals just "have sex." He argues that homosexuality "is not just about sex" and that "having a sexual orientation allows one to fall in love with someone and have a long committed relationship with them and to form a family."
Says the quality of homosexual love is equal to the quality of heterosexual love.

Matthew 7:17-18 (KJV)- "Even so every good tree brings forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree brings forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit."

Argues that, according to Jesus, all good teaches have good consequences and all bad teachings have bad consequences. Says that "Even difficult teachings are not destructive to human dignity." Says that teaching that homosexuality is wrong results in low self-esteem, emotional and spiritual devastation, and low self-worth for those that are homosexual. He says that these are the consequences of being homosexual. Says that this teaching has not born good fruit in the lives of homosexuals and has only caused pain and suffering for them. He says if we take Jesus' teaching seriously then we would question the traditional teachings that homosexuality is wrong.

Genesis 2:18 (KJV)-"And The Lord God said, It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him."

Argues that woman is a suitable partner for most men, but that is not the case for gay men. The suitable partner for gay men is another gay man. Says that by the traditional teaching they must live alone their whole lives even if they have a "suitable partner." He is saying that God said it is not good for man to be alone when this teaching makes homosexual men alone. He says that by holding to the traditional interpretation that we are contradicting the Bible's own teachings.
Genesis 19:4-8 (KJV)-"But before they lay down, the men of the city, even the men of Sodom, compassed the house round, both old and young, all the people from every quarter: And they called unto Lot, and said unto him, Where are the men who came in to you this night? bring them out unto us, that we may know them. And Lot went out at the door unto them, and shut the door after him, And said, I pray you, brethren, do not so wickedly. Behold now, I have two daughters which have not known man; let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do you to them as is good in your eyes: only unto these Men do nothing; for therefore came They under the shadow of my roof."

Argues that Sodom and Gomorrah originally had nothing to do with sexuality at all. He says that in the Middle Ages it began to be believed that the sin that caused Sodom and Gomorrah to be destroyed was homosexuality. (sodomy: any non procreative sexual behavior) He says that the men calling to Lot to have sex with the men with him (Lot) is the only connection that homosexuality has to this passage. He says that gang rape and homosexuality are different. He says that "gang rape of men by men was used as a common tactic of humiliation and aggression in warfare and other hostile contexts in ancient times. It had nothing to do with sexual orientation and attraction. The point was to shame and to conquer. That is the appropriate background for reading this in Genesis 19." Says that the Bible never links what they did to homosexuality.

Ezekiel 16:49 (KJV)-"Behold, this was the iniquity of your sister Sodom, pride, fullness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy."
Says only 1 of those 20 verses related to Sodom and Gomorrah throughout the Bible is about sexuality.

Jude 7 (KJV)-"Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire."

I am not sure if it is because he uses a different translation of the Bible, but when he speaks of Jude 7 he does not speak of the part that says "and going after strange flesh, are set forth an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire" he stops at fornication and says that whatever fornication that was committed could be any form, not just homosexuality. This I find odd.

Leviticus 18 contains a list of sexual prohibitions and chapter 20 contains the list of punishments. "In these chapters male same sex intercourse is prohibited and the punishment for violators is death." (Leviticus 18:22; 20:13 (KJV)- "You shall not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination; If a man also lie with mankind, as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."

Says that since it is Old Testament law that it is not meant for Christians. As Gentiles were being including for the very first time in the New Testament it was argued if Gentile converts should have to follow the law. In Acts chapter 15 it was decided that Gentiles were still saved without all the laws of the Jews (some in verses 8 through 9). He brings up circumcision being one of the laws in Leviticus and that Paul says in Galatians 6:15 "For in Christ Jesus neither Circumcision avail etch any thing, nor un circumcision, but a new creature."

Colossians 2:13-14 (KJV)- "And you, behind dead in your sins and uncircumcision of your flesh, has He quickened together with Him, having forgiven you all trespasses; Blotting out the handwriting of Ordinances that was against us, which was contrary to us, and took it out of the way, nailing it to His Cross."

Romans 10:4 (KJV)- "For Christ is the end of the Law for Righteousness to everyone who believes."

Hebrews 8:13 (KJV)- "In that He said, A New Covenant, He has made the first old. Now that which decays and waxes old is ready to vanish away."

These verses free Christians of the old law that was at first for the Israelites. He says that some Christians don't apply the laws of Leviticus to their lives at all because of this. His example is in Leviticus 11 when it speaks of eating pork, shrimp, and lobster being an abomination, Leviticus 19 forbids planting 2 kinds of seed in the same field, wearing clothing woven of 2 different kinds of material, and cutting hair on the sides of one's head. Leviticus 19 also speaks of not approaching a woman during the unclean news or her monthly period which is also called an abomination.
Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13 speaks against homosexuality and 18 and 20 prohibit adultery incest and beastiality also. These things are still seen as sinful, but Leviticus 19 is not seen as sinful when it was also called an abomination. He says anything called an abomination then can't be any better now. That includes everything that was called an abomination, even homosexuality. He defines "abomination" as something that is foreign to the Israelites. Something that the others may do, but they do not do the same such as these two verses:Genesis 43:32 (KJV)- "And they set on for himself by himself, and for them by themselves and for the Egyptians, which did eat with him, by themselves: because the Egyptian might not eat bread with the Hebrews; for that is an abomination unto the Egyptians" and Exodus 8:26 (KJV)- "And Moses said, It is not meet to do so; for we shall sacrifice the abomination of the Egyptians before their eyes, and will they not stone us?" He says that abomination does not have to do with what is good or bad, but those things that the Israelites do not do that are foreign. Things such as disobeying your parents and the priests daughter being a prostitute results in death. Working on the Sabbath was also a capital offense. He follows up by saying that just because something in the Bible results in the death penalty doesn't mean it is sinful.


This is just a thorough review of HALF of his message. It took a rather long time to write and hopefully this is enough for you to get a better idea of his thinking because I'm going tell the truth, I got tired of typing and just this chunk took me HOURS and this is just half. Multiply that time times two and I will be up forever typing it, but if you wish to get a summary of the second half I am willing to do so. I also apologize for any typos or spelling errors that occur.

Also my friend is Christian, but her family is not as strict about some things like mine is.
 

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BOTTOMLINE= GOD makes the rules not little man and GOD SAYS HOMESEXUALS WILL NOT inherit the kingdom of GOD. 1 CORINTHIANS 6:9-10

GOD says HE loves all sinners and sinners that confess their sins and repent GOD is faithfuland just to forgive the sinner and cleanse him from his sin but if you claim your sin of sexual perversion is not sin then how can you be forgiven? If we say we are not sinners we make GOD a liar=not a smart thing to try!!!
 

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But still none of you have the right to judge anhman, you do not know why they are the way they are, you seek not the answers from Christ, but who cares what God thinks it only matters what the bible says, doesnt it ??? And so you all condemn yourselves for judgeing by the flesh, Who will do what Christ did and stand up for the ill, and teh maimed and the sick and teh impoverished, not the christians lest they be found to be sinners too. Its easy to pick on the homosexuals because they stand out liek a sore thumb, but there sin is no worse than yours, and for those who are born that way, well you where born a sinner too, get over it, but as it is written in REv.

Rev 3:17 Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked:

Or again as written in the bible,

Joh 9:39 And Jesus said, For judgment I am come into this world, that they which see not might see; and that they which see might be made blind.
Joh 9:40 And some of the Pharisees which were with him heard these words, and said unto him, Are we blind also?
Joh 9:41 Jesus said unto them, If ye were blind, ye should have no sin: but now ye say, We see; therefore your sin remaineth.

Becareful that you are not judged as you judge, thats God department not your, you have one thing to do while upon the God forsaken earth. LOVE evertyone.

In All His Love
 

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Lilly Campton said:
Matthew 7:17-18 (KJV)- "Even so every good tree brings forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree brings forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit."

Argues that, according to Jesus, all good teaches have good consequences and all bad teachings have bad consequences. Says that "Even difficult teachings are not destructive to human dignity." Says that teaching that homosexuality is wrong results in low self-esteem, emotional and spiritual devastation, and low self-worth for those that are homosexual. He says that these are the consequences of being homosexual. Says that this teaching has not born good fruit in the lives of homosexuals and has only caused pain and suffering for them. He says if we take Jesus' teaching seriously then we would question the traditional teachings that homosexuality is wrong.
If we keep with the context of this scripture it doesn't refer to the teachings themselves as bearing fruits but of the fruits of false prophets. Matthew 7:15-16.

This argument doesn't make since either, as the same thing could be said for the Law of Moses which leads to death, However it was declared good. 1 Timothy 1:8. God's ways are higher than ours, and he has proven his intentions good, so believe what he says.
 

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1Co_6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
1Co_6:10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1Co_15:50 Now this I say, brethren, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God; neither doth corruption inherit incorruption.
Gal_5:21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

Thas all sinners. the pharisees though they where righteous because they kept the law, yet did not do as Christ did. What did He say to them.

Joh_8:44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.

Again you choose the old ways, judgment instead of forgivenss, yet you cant see because you have being blinded by you own sin, but you sin is teh greater for you have made Christ to be something He is not.

In all His Love
 

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We are seeing the results of those that say sexual perversion is not sin,they deny the truth of God's inspired(God breathed) Word which is even a worse sin. THINK.
 

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lforrest said:
If we keep with the context of this scripture it doesn't refer to the teachings themselves as bearing fruits but of the fruits of false prophets. Matthew 7:15-16.

This argument doesn't make since either, as the same thing could be said for the Law of Moses which leads to death, However it was declared good. 1 Timothy 1:8. God's ways are higher than ours, and he has proven his intentions good, so believe what he says.
He also argues that the Law of Moses should not apply to us in the area of homosexuality because some of the other abominations then that we don't see as sins now. What is your take on that? Paul tells us that we, the Gentiles, are not under the authority of this law, yet we still choose which laws we want to follow. Is this identical to how we try to see what sin is bigger than other sin when all sin is equal? Should we really be following ALL of the Law of Moses since we have only adopted parts and called them sin even though we are not under the authority of these laws? I am going to admit this argument is starting to cause some confusion in my mind...
I have gone from neutrality to complete and utter confusion...
 

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GISMYS said:
What is hard to understand when you read Romans 1:21-32?? OR 1st Corinthians 6:9-10??
GISMYS said:
What is hard to understand when you read Romans 1:21-32?? OR 1st Corinthians 6:9-10??
I guess I'm just stuck on the fact that the decision was made to not bind the Gentiles by the Laws of Moses. I don't want to sound stupid, but should I completely ignore that fact regardless of what was said about the Gentiles not being under the authority of the Law of Moses? I feel as if I should...
 

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Lily Confused,

Homsexuality in its right is a sin, just as is,
lying,
cheating,
stealing,
murder,
couveting,
envy,
jealousy,

and so on and so forth

THE WAGES OF ALL SIN IS DEATH,

but like the muslems who force their women to cover themselves because the men cant control their lust, chritians need to look down on someone so they dont feel so bat about their sin.for the log in their eyes are so huge they cant see.

Again will you do what Christ would do and love her no matter what or would you do as the self righteous pharisses do and reject her as if her sins are worse than theirs.

Mar 2:15 And it came to pass, that, as Jesus sat at meat in his house, many publicans and sinners sat also together with Jesus and his disciples: for there were many, and they followed him.
Mar 2:16 And when the scribes and Pharisees saw him eat with publicans and sinners, they said unto his disciples, How is it that he eateth and drinketh with publicans and sinners?
Mar 2:17 When Jesus heard it, he saith unto them, They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.

Are you without sin ??? If you are than start casting stones with the rest of them while Jesus weeps for your souls.

In all His Love
 

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ROMANS 1
;27=Men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire towards one another,men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. WHO DOES NOT UNDERSTAND THIS SCRIPTURE?

JESUS TOLD THE SINNER, YOU ARE FORGIVEN NOW GO AND SIN NO MORE.JOHN 8:11

YES!! JESUS LOVES THE SINNER BUT HATES HIS SIN. JOHN 8:11 JESUS TOLD THE SINNER,I FORGIVE YOU NOW GO AND SIN NO MORE.
 
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And yet you stil stand there stone in hand ready to throw....

and He hates your sin too, so stop sinning, but again do you know why she is the way she is or why any homosexaul or sinner is the way they are, are you going to be the one who judges men, are you without sin, what makes this any worse than any other sin, or should we get down to the sins of the church,

Rev 18:4 And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues.
Rev 18:5 For her sins have reached unto heaven, and God hath remembered her iniquities.
Rev 18:6 Reward her even as she rewarded you, and double unto her double according to her works: in the cup which she hath filled fill to her double.
Rev 18:7 How much she hath glorified herself, and lived deliciously, so much torment and sorrow give her: for she saith in her heart, I sit a queen, and am no widow, and shall see no sorrow.
Rev 18:8 Therefore shall her plagues come in one day, death, and mourning, and famine; and she shall be utterly burned with fire: for strong is the Lord God who judgeth her.


Why not start a topic on is stealing a sin, or lying or lust, or cheating, I guess it is too close toi the heart.

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THE ""HUGE"" DIFFERANCE IS I CONFESS AND REPENT OF MY SIN AND GOD FORGIVES AND CLEANESES ME BUT THE SEXUAL PERVERT SAYS HIS ACTS OF PERVERSION IS ""NOT"" SIN AND THUS COMPOUNDS HIS SIN BY TRYING TO REJECT THE TRUTH OF GOD'S WORD AND INCOURAGE OTHERS TO DO THE SAME!!!!
 
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GISMYS said:
ROMANS 1
;27=Men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire towards one another,men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. WHO DOES NOT UNDERSTAND THIS SCRIPTURE?
JESUS TOLD THE SINNER, YOU ARE FORGIVEN NOW GO AND SIN NO MORE.JOHN 8:11
YES!! JESUS LOVES THE SINNER BUT HATES HIS SIN. JOHN 8:11 JESUS TOLD THE SINNER,I FORGIVE YOU NOW GO AND SIN NO MORE.
Should I ignore what was said about the Law of Moses not being for us or not (all of the Law of Moses not just parts)? I understand all of that, but you didn't answer my question. I believe I am very close to a decision, but if you answer that question I will have one. I don't mean to come off rude. I'm just soooo close to making a decision on this subject that I can almost taste it. Though I am now feeling a little bullheaded...
 

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YES!!! BELIEVERS ARE NOT UNDER MUCH OF THE LAWS GOD GAVE THE ""JEWISH"" PEOPLE. SUCH AS LAWS ON FOOD,CLOTHING, AND THINGS LIKE A BROTHER MUST MARRY THE WIFE OF HIS BROTHER IF HE DIES AND SUCH!!! WHEN WE READ GOD'S WORD WE MUST PRAY FOR WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING.
 

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Lilly Campton said:
He also argues that the Law of Moses should not apply to us in the area of homosexuality because some of the other abominations then that we don't see as sins now. What is your take on that? Paul tells us that we, the Gentiles, are not under the authority of this law, yet we still choose which laws we want to follow. Is this identical to how we try to see what sin is bigger than other sin when all sin is equal? Should we really be following ALL of the Law of Moses since we have only adopted parts and called them sin even though we are not under the authority of these laws? I am going to admit this argument is starting to cause some confusion in my mind...
I have gone from neutrality to complete and utter confusion...
The OT laws and precepts I consider to be like a shadow of the will of God. From these it may be possible to get Idea of God's reasons, sometimes those reasons may be too obscure. However, I trust that every law had or still has a good reason behind it. This includes Leviticus 18:22

Sins aren't necessarily equal, but they can all be covered by the Blood of Jesus. For example 1 Corinthians 6:18

As Christians we should not be following the law of Moses purposefully, and we are not under their authority. But we should be obeying the will of God, which is for our own good. Matthew 7:21
Being that the commandments reveal the will of God you will find the Christian keeping many of these even though they don't have to. 1 Corinthians 10:23

Regarding your friend, I wouldn't rush into this discussion. There is no point even bringing it up if they aren't christian.
 

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Lilly, the Apostle Paul was addressing all believers in Messiah Jesus, not just Jews. What Paul says about homosexual behavior applies to Gentiles who worship Messiah Jesus.

As I said before, if a person isn't worshiping Messiah Jesus as Savior and LORD, then that person's sexual behavior is a secondary issue.
The person's need for the Savior is the primary issue.

Meanwhile, we who worship Messiah Jesus as Savior and LORD can see from the Apostle Paul's writings that God condemns sexual activity between two people of the same gender. There is no logical way around Paul's statements in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and Romans 1:18-31.
 

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NEVER!!! NEVER!!! FOLLOW THE IDEAS AND OPINIONS OF MAN OVER GOD!!! Man is wrong on so many things GOD AND GOD'S WORD IS ETERNAL TRUTH!

AS GOD'S WORD says in Galations 1:8 even if a angel of light appear to you with another "word" other than you find in GOD'S WORD LET HIM BE ACCURSED.
 

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Any louder my ears will fall of,

Of so the bible is greater than God ????

Or does the opinion of the bible replace God ???

Or is the bible your God???

We are not under the law, to live by the law is to tread the grace of God underfoot,

We have but one law, the greatest of all. " LOVE".

Loud enough for you gismys

In all His Love

The OT was about the flesh, it showed that man was incapable of saving himself though his deads.
Jesus came to tell of and show a better way,

But christians still prefer the old way still live under the law still prefer the old wine to teh new,

Christ is the only way. One sinner is no worse than another untill someone makes a point of It like homosexuality which is all christians write about as if it is worse than any sin of theirs.

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YOU CANNOT SEPERATE THE WORD OF GOD FROM GOD!!! JOHN 1:1-6 THE WORD OF GOD IS NOT JUST ANOTHER BOOK,THE WORD OF GOD IS ETERNAL LIVING TRUTH=GOD!!!

SEXUAL PERVERSION IS NOT JUST "ANOTHER SIN" IT IS A COMPOUND SIN THAT TAKES OTHERS DOWN WITH THE SEXUAL PERVERT AND TO LIVE IN SEXUAL PERVERSION AS IF IT WAS NOT SIN IS TO DENY THE VERY WORD OF GOD=ANOTHER FAR WORSE SIN.

WOULD YOU TELL A THIEF OR MURDERER THAT HIS SIN IS NO LONGER SIN????WHY NOW TRY TO SAY SEXUAL PERVERSION IS NO LONGER SIN??? THE COMPOUND SIN OF SEXUAL PERVERSION IS WORSE BECAUSE THEY TRY TO DENY THE TRUTH OF GOD'S WORD AND THEN INCOURAGE OTHERS TO DO THE SAME!!! RE-READ ROMANS 1:18-32

ROMANS 1:21-32 IS NOT "OLD TESTMENT" NEITHER IS 1 CORINTHIANS 6:9-10 ====READ AND BE WARNED AND BELIEVE!!!