BornAgain said:
I have trouble with this scripture and not to doubt God's Word would like some insight into why this scripture was written and if God truly does hate, prior to one even being born. Does He hate all sinners that He does not approve or disapprove prior to conception or birth?
Romans 9:13 (KJV)
13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.
Yes, God hates that which is bad, for Psalms 97 says: "O you who love Jehovah, hate what is bad." How can our Maker, Jehovah God, be righteous and not hate what is bad ? Good and bad are two opposing sides. The apostle Paul wrote: "For what fellowship do righteousness and lawlessness have ? Or what sharing does light have with darkness ?"(2 Cor 6:14)
Lawlessness and righteousness are
diametrically opposed to each other. Of Jesus, as one who mirrors God perfectly, Paul wrote that Jesus "is the reflection of God’s glory and the exact representation of his very being", in which it was said of him that "you loved righteousness, and you hated lawlessness.
That is why God, your God, anointed you with the oil of exultation more than your companions.”(Heb 1:3, 9)
Esau came to be hated by God for his lack of love and spirituality; his detesting anything righteous. He was willing to sell his birthright for a bowl of stew.(Gen 25-27-34) Afterward, when Isaac blessed Jacob who rightly held the right as firstborn, and then upon Esau finding out, threatened to kill Jacob after their father died, showing his
true colors.(Gen 27:41) Isaac foretold that Esau would be a violent man, telling him that "by your sword you will live."(Gen 27:40)
In addition, Esau rejected the sound counsel to marry only those who loved Jehovah (see 1 Cor 7:39, whereby Paul said that a loyal Christian is to 'marry only in the Lord' ), as his grandfather, Abraham had done for Isaac his son.(Gen 24:3, 4)
Esau therefore chose two wives from among the Canaanites, a nation that was morally filthy and extremely bloodguilty and of which his mother Rebekah therefore said: "I am disgusted with my life because of the daughters of Heth (that Esau married from among the Canaanites). If Jacob ever takes a wife from the daughters of Heth, like these daughters of the land, what good is my life ?”(Gen 27:46)
Hence, the apostle Paul said to avoid "anyone who does
not appreciate sacred things, like Esau, who gave up his rights as firstborn in exchange for one meal. For you know that afterward when he wanted to inherit the blessing, he was rejected; for although he earnestly tried to bring about a change of mind with tears, it was to no avail."(Heb 12:16, 17) Esau proved to be unteachable by God, whereas Jacob deeply appreciated spiritual things. Two brothers, but going in opposite directions. Jacob will be resurrected whereas Esau has no such hope, but remaining permanently dead.
At Malachi 1, it says: "Was not E′sau the brother of Jacob ?” declares Jehovah. “But I loved Jacob, and E′sau I hated; and I made his mountains desolate and left his inheritance for the jackals of the wilderness.”(Mal 1:2, 3) All who are like Esau (who hated Jehovah God), devoid of agape love and any spirituality, who think only of themselves, fleshly, are headed for the same destiny, of being wiped off the face of the earth in the near future, at Armageddon.(Rev 16:14, 16)
However, now is the time to do as Isaiah 55 says: "Search for Jehovah while he may be found. Call to him while he is near."(Isa 55:6) The apostle Paul wrote to the Roman Christians, quoting from Joel 2:32: "For “everyone who calls on the name of Jehovah will be saved.”(Rom 10:13)
So in contrasting "children in the flesh" (like Esau) with "children of God" (those who are teachable, willing to adhere to all of God's moral laws and guidelines as found in the Bible, Rom 9:8), Paul wrote: "Just as it is written (at Mal 1:2, 3): “I loved Jacob, but E′sau I hated.”(Rom 9:13)