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Wormwood

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Because I know only too well that those so-called teachings are wrong when applied to same-sex oriented people. They Are Not speaking to homosexuality being wrong though you choose to believe that it does. But even at that that does not make it so.

Biblical Scholars have spoken to each of those Scriptures that are frequently brought up that you are so convinced speak against homosexuality. They have all concluded that they do not speak to that but to something else such as temple prostitution, etc.
I have read quite extensively on this issue and am familiar with the word studies and cultural backgrounds that are referenced. For 1900 years the church has been in universal agreement on the explicit condemnation of homosexuality in the Scriptures. I find it curious that as our culture accept this behavior, there are suddenly "studies" that show its now okay. The reality is that these studies are very biased and the word studies are deeply flawed. For 6000 years, Jewish and Christian communities have universally condemned any form of homosexuality. That is a historical fact. You are deceiving yourself with your agenda. People will hear what their itching ears want to hear, and these new "studies" are a prime example.
 

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First, there is a difference between baking a cake for a wedding that "involves" other sins and baking a cake for a wedding that is itself a sin. There is no way for a baker to know if a wedding will "involve" people getting drunk. He would be arrogant and judgmental if he assumed someone was going to get drunk or overeat at a wedding by merely looking at the person. Surely you would recognize the silliness of such a thought. These responses are puzzling.
As if drunkenness is the only other sin? Come on WW, think a bit here. You don't think Christian bakers ever get asked to provide cakes for extremely opulent weddings? To bake cakes for obvious gluttons? For a guy or woman who's on their fifth marriage? For a bride who's clearly pregnant?

Yet somehow it's only gay weddings where the line on "can't support sin" is drawn.

Im interested in what is right and fair for both Christians to adhere to their faith and to protect various people groups from being mistreated. Telling me what a judge decided does not end the discussion. You seem to think that a judge's opinion resolves the issue completely as if the person in the black robe is the Almighty.
That's just bizarre. If you're interested in resolving the conflict between religious beliefs and public accommodation, what means other than the court system do you propose we use?

No, only when Christians use court rulings to define good and bad rather than logic that coincides with the teaching of the Scriptures.
Then you need to pay closer attention to what I've been posting. I've told you before that when I reference court rulings, that's in the context of answering the legal questions involved.

You essentially said the judge's ruling defined my argument as stupid. I don't know how else to take that.
Yes, the court did basically say your argument is stupid. But that's different than what my comment ("I never made any argument like that at all") was about. You said, "By your rationale, we shouldn't even discuss these matters because what the court says should silence any and all discussion. The courts are not God." I never said the courts are God or that there can be no further discussion.

I assure you I am not emotional in this dialogue. If you think my argument is "stupid" I would encourage you to explain why...rather than knocking down the bigotry strawmen and saying, "Because the judge says so."
I have explained why your argument (that the Colorado baker's refusal to sell a cake for a gay wedding is based on the event, not the sexual orientation of the couple) is stupid several times in this thread. Perhaps you should go back and re-read.

God says its sinful to act in conflict with one's faith. I think I'll go with God on this one rather than your judge who thinks I'm stupid.
Yet it's only this one sin that seems to register. Funny how that works. And please understand the difference between a stupid argument and a stupid person.

It looks to me like only you and LightMessenger are on the same page here. And LightMessenger rejects the teaching of the Scriptures that homosexuality is wrong. So, you have that going for you...
I've seen Aspen and pom say express attitudes similar to mine. Again, perhaps you should go back and re-read this thread.
 

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River, just so you know the classical form of gluttony, which is the form that God calls a sin, is not over eating like the pale modern version thinks.

Gluttony is when you, then regurgitate it and then eat more. This was done on feasts that would last days to a week or even a fortnight. This heretics did.

It wastes the food that God gave them. And that is the sin, not that you consume 4000 calories and go back for seconds.
 

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Because I know only too well that those so-called teachings are wrong when applied to same-sex oriented people. They Are Not speaking to homosexuality being wrong though you choose to believe that it does. But even at that that does not make it so.

Biblical Scholars have spoken to each of those Scriptures that are frequently brought up that you are so convinced speak against homosexuality. They have all concluded that they do not speak to that but to something else such as temple prostitution, etc.

http://www.gaychristian101.com/Sodom.html

http://www.gaychristian101.com/how-do-you-interpret-leviticus-1822-and-2013-man-should-not-lay-with-man.html

http://www.gaychristian101.com/Shrine-Prostitutes.html

http://www.gaychristian101.com/what-does-you-shall-not-lie-with-a-man-as-with-a-woman-mean.html

You only THINK you know LM, but you can't even defend your own POV without going to a false teachers website.
The following are responses that refute Rick Brentlinger and his biased views. BTW, what are his creds, as I could find NONE?

http://hipandthigh.blogspot.ca/2008/06/debunking-gay-christian-apologetics-pt.html

http://apprising.org/2010/05/14/ken-silva-responds-to-rick-bretlinger-of-gay-christian-101-part-two/

http://answersfromthebook.org/2010/01/21/does-the-bible-say-that-homosexuality-is-sin/

https://gcmwatch.wordpress.com/2008/04/12/gay-christian-101-still-equals-zero/

http://peacebyjesus.witnesstoday.org/Homosex_versus_the_Bible.html
 

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As if drunkenness is the only other sin? Come on WW, think a bit here. You don't think Christian bakers ever get asked to provide cakes for extremely opulent weddings? To bake cakes for obvious gluttons? For a guy or woman who's on their fifth marriage? For a bride who's clearly pregnant?
Your examples are quite poor and reflect a very flawed logic. First, bakers generally aren't aware of what is being spent on or is taking place during a wedding ceremony when they are baking a cake. I am sure if the gay couple had not mentioned the two of them were getting married, there would have been no conflict of conscience for the baker. Its not like the baker investigates the wedding details of every wedding. Moreover, the cake is for the wedding party, not generally for the married couple. There is no way to gauge if people are "gluttons." If they are overweight, it may be because of a bad thyroid, or perhaps they are on a diet and don't plan on eating any of the cake. Maybe a guy is on his fifth marriage (not that the baker would know) and all his previous wives were unfaithful. So what if a bride is pregnant? Maybe they had a moment of weakness and are making their relationship right by exchanging vows. If anything, marriage is the proper response to such a circumstance rather than not committing to one another.

The point is, there are sins that occur during a wedding or prior to a wedding....and a baker has no control over that. He is not a participant in those sins because he cannot control them and is not actively engaged in them by supplying materials that aid in the sinful acts. He has no control over whether people will eat or drink too much and he has no control, and likely no knowledge over what is spent. He can bake a cake in good conscience because his role in the event itself is not sinful. He is not aiding in any sinful act by providing a cake. The sinful acts people do at a wedding have nothing to do with what the baker is doing. The wedding for a gay couple is sinful in the very event itself. It's like letting someone borrow your car for the purpose of robbing a bank. You are participating in the sin because you are providing something that is aiding in the committing of a sinful act. He can bake a cake for gay people (as he was willing to do) even through they are sinners. His cake does not promote their sin. It has nothing to do with their sin. A wedding cake does promote and participate in the sinful act of a gay wedding. That is the difference....once again.

Also, your logic is flawed because you are trying to defend one sin by claiming another is excused. Saying that other people sin is no excuse to participate in another known sin. I can just see that conversation before the Lord. "Why did you participate in this activity you know I abhor?" "Oh, well I baked a cake for a wedding once where people ate too much, so I didn't think you would mind." Come on now.

Finally, your logic is flawed because the issue is the conscience of the baker. Maybe the baker did refuse to make a cake for an overly extravagant wedding once. I doubt he would have been sued or made national news. Either way, the baker has a conscience issue in participating in a gay wedding. It is sin for him to participate in it, even it God were to deem it acceptable (which I highly doubt). People should have the freedom to follow their conscience, especially on an issue that has been viewed to be an abomination by pretty much every major religion in the world for thousands of years.

That's just bizarre. If you're interested in resolving the conflict between religious beliefs and public accommodation, what means other than the court system do you propose we use?
Im really amazed this is so difficult for you to follow. I am not surprised that a secular culture would embrace homosexuality, legalize gay marriage and force business people to participate in these events with their buisnesses. Really, I am not surprised at all. I think its wrong and it flies in the face of our forefathers intent for religious liberty. Personally, I think they are rolling in their graves. My point is that we should be allowed to follow the Scriptures and our consciences and there are legal means to allow people to follow their consciences and not discriminate. Your argument seems to be that we can only have one or the other in the public business realm, which I think is a silly view, especially for a Christian. I am not surprised a judge would rule against a man striving to be faithful to his God in our culture. I think there are rational legal ways to avert these problems, but our culture is not really interested in a business person's faith. What surprises me is how many Christians have become so calloused and numb to the evil around them that not only do they defend it, but they demand Christians participate in it.

You said, "By your rationale, we shouldn't even discuss these matters because what the court says should silence any and all discussion. The courts are not God." I never said the courts are God or that there can be no further discussion.
Your implication was that the courts already decided my view was stupid so therefore the issue is settled.

I have explained why your argument (that the Colorado baker's refusal to sell a cake for a gay wedding is based on the event, not the sexual orientation of the couple) is stupid several times in this thread. Perhaps you should go back and re-read.
Yes, I have seen your arguments amount to: its bigotry, bigotry, bigotry...I think you've said this about 5x (to which I answered the issue is not the person but the event. A heterosexual would have been denied wanting a cake for a gay wedding), other people sin in their wedding so why not participate in this sin (which I have shown is pure nonsense), and the courts think you are stupid. Did I miss one?

Yet it's only this one sin that seems to register. Funny how that works.
Well, its a sin that people are trying to demand others participate in, accept and celebrate. There is a reason it is a hot-button issue. If there were spouse abuse parades going on and courts were legalizing this activity, it would likely be something that would become a national focus. I dont think its funny that people are trying to legitimize homosexuality and that Christians are being sued, maligned, and accused of hate-speech for resisting to embrace this lifestyle as normative, acceptable to God and something they should promote and participate in with their buisnesses.
 

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Interesting discussion.

I must agree with a point made earlier. If these Christian bakers are going to say no to a wedding cake for a gay couple, they would then - if their motive is truly wanting to avoid the impression that they do not support that type of activity - have to say no to a cake congratulating someone for their divorce or a cake celebrating or confirming a decision that an abortion was the right thing to do.

Still, I have never heard of those events so it is all conjecture right now.

What may or may not have been in the hearts of the Christian bakers aside, I do not think they should have been punished at all. Just as I do not think a gay baker should be punished for refusing to make a cake that says "Marriage = One Man + One Woman" on it.

If this is indeed free country, let the free market decide. Don't like their policy? Don't buy there. Form a boycott. Encourage your friends and families not to go. Let the business stand or fall based on whether individuals who believe as they do (or don't see the big deal either way) still want to do business with them.
 

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Your examples are quite poor and reflect a very flawed logic. First, bakers generally aren't aware of what is being spent on or is taking place during a wedding ceremony when they are baking a cake. I am sure if the gay couple had not mentioned the two of them were getting married, there would have been no conflict of conscience for the baker. Its not like the baker investigates the wedding details of every wedding. Moreover, the cake is for the wedding party, not generally for the married couple. There is no way to gauge if people are "gluttons." If they are overweight, it may be because of a bad thyroid, or perhaps they are on a diet and don't plan on eating any of the cake. Maybe a guy is on his fifth marriage (not that the baker would know) and all his previous wives were unfaithful. So what if a bride is pregnant? Maybe they had a moment of weakness and are making their relationship right by exchanging vows. If anything, marriage is the proper response to such a circumstance rather than not committing to one another.
This is what gives a lot of people the impression that the real issue here is, some Christians just don't like gays. When it comes to other sins, you go all apologetic and accommodationist, but for whatever reason homosexuality gets the hard line treatment.

The point is, there are sins that occur during a wedding or prior to a wedding....and a baker has no control over that. He is not a participant in those sins because he cannot control them and is not actively engaged in them by supplying materials that aid in the sinful acts. He has no control over whether people will eat or drink too much and he has no control, and likely no knowledge over what is spent. He can bake a cake in good conscience because his role in the event itself is not sinful. He is not aiding in any sinful act by providing a cake. The sinful acts people do at a wedding have nothing to do with what the baker is doing.
He's "participating" in their sin in the same way he's "participating" in the sin of a gay couple. With a couple that has an extreme love of money, you could even argue that by baking an extremely extravagant cake, the baker is actively sinning himself.

And again, this same argument can be made by a Christian banker or landlord as justification for denying gay couples housing. By giving them a loan or renting them a house, he is facilitating their sin, is he not?

Also, your logic is flawed because you are trying to defend one sin by claiming another is excused.
No, you've missed the point entirely. I'm not excusing anything; I'm noting the hypocrisy of elevating one sin over others.

Finally, your logic is flawed because the issue is the conscience of the baker.
Funny how you only can see that side of this issue. Apparently the civil rights of gays don't even register with you. Do you think gays have a right to walk into public businesses and purchase products just like everyone else?

Im really amazed this is so difficult for you to follow. I am not surprised that a secular culture would embrace homosexuality, legalize gay marriage and force business people to participate in these events with their buisnesses. Really, I am not surprised at all. I think its wrong and it flies in the face of our forefathers intent for religious liberty. Personally, I think they are rolling in their graves. My point is that we should be allowed to follow the Scriptures and our consciences and there are legal means to allow people to follow their consciences and not discriminate. Your argument seems to be that we can only have one or the other in the public business realm, which I think is a silly view, especially for a Christian. I am not surprised a judge would rule against a man striving to be faithful to his God in our culture. I think there are rational legal ways to avert these problems, but our culture is not really interested in a business person's faith. What surprises me is how many Christians have become so calloused and numb to the evil around them that not only do they defend it, but they demand Christians participate in it.
All that and you didn't even answer the question. Again, what means other than the court system do you propose we use to resolve these sorts of issues?

Your implication was that the courts already decided my view was stupid so therefore the issue is settled.
Obviously the issue is far from settled (it's still working its way through the system), but yeah....your argument is pretty bad.

Yes, I have seen your arguments amount to: its bigotry, bigotry, bigotry...I think you've said this about 5x (to which I answered the issue is not the person but the event.
I don't know what thread you've been following, but it's become pretty obvious that it isn't this one. The only time I've even used that word here was in post #98, where I said, "Is he a bigot? I don't think so. I think the term "bigot" is a bit strong in that instance."

Well, its a sin that people are trying to demand others participate in, accept and celebrate. There is a reason it is a hot-button issue. If there were spouse abuse parades going on and courts were legalizing this activity, it would likely be something that would become a national focus. I dont think its funny that people are trying to legitimize homosexuality and that Christians are being sued, maligned, and accused of hate-speech for resisting to embrace this lifestyle as normative, acceptable to God and something they should promote and participate in with their buisnesses.
So do you think gays should be treated as second-class citizens? They have no right to public accommodation, housing, employment, etc.? That if Christians don't want to sell them things, rent to them, or hire them, they shouldn't have to?
 

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People should have a choice who they associate with, or have dealings with...if I have a business and I do not want to sell to a felon..I will not..if I have a business and an abortionist wants to buy something..I do not sell to them, etc,,neither would I sell or do business with a homosexual/sodomizer (gay?). It is a matter of principle...you get that? A matter of principle...you either take a stand against evil or you embrace it and condone it...isn't free will great!!!!!..
 

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heretoeternity said:
People should have a choice who they associate with, or have dealings with...if I have a business and I do not want to sell to a felon..I will not..if I have a business and an abortionist wants to buy something..I do not sell to them, etc,,neither would I sell or do business with a homosexual/sodomizer (gay?). It is a matter of principle...you get that? A matter of principle...you either take a stand against evil or you embrace it and condone it...isn't free will great!!!!!..
So you're against equal rights laws?
 

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heretoeternity said:
People should have a choice who they associate with, or have dealings with...if I have a business and I do not want to sell to a felon..I will not..if I have a business and an abortionist wants to buy something..I do not sell to them, etc,,neither would I sell or do business with a homosexual/sodomizer (gay?). It is a matter of principle...you get that? A matter of principle...you either take a stand against evil or you embrace it and condone it...isn't free will great!!!!!..
Are you still married or ever been married?