I don't know the bible well at all but when I open it, I see stuff like:"Women are not to wear men's clothing, and men are not to wear women's clothing; the Lord your God hates people who do such things."..but I though God loves everyone?"No one born out of wedlock or any descendant of such a person, even in the tenth generation, may be included among the Lord's people"..so basically I won't go to heaven just because my mum's mum's mum had her when she wasn't married?I've always been taught that God is all loving and forgiving and perfect but some thing I see int he bible make him seem really scary and unforgiving. There's more of them as well not just the 2 I wrote. I mean I want to take the bible seriously but I find it hard when it says things like this?