Indeed the debate is not over someone else stronger than Christ ripping the saints out of God's hands. We see no "two sides debating" that one.
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As we saw "in scripture" -- Calvinism does not survive these texts .
Rom 11
19 You will say then, “Branches were broken off that I might be grafted in.” 20 Well
said. Because of unbelief they were broken off, and
you stand only by faith. Do not be haughty, but
fear. 21 For
if God did not spare the natural branches, He may not spare you either. 22 Therefore consider the goodness and severity of God: on those who fell, severity; but toward you,
goodness, if you continue in His goodness. Otherwise you also will be cut off. 23 And they also, if they do not continue in unbelief, will be grafted in, for God is able to graft them in again.
-- forgiveness revoked --
Matthew 18
32 Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, ‘You wicked servant!
I forgave you all that debt because you begged me. 33 Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?’ 34 And his master was angry, and
delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.
35 “
So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses.”
Or these texts
1 Cor 6
7 Now therefore,
it is already an utter failure for you that you go to law against one another. Why do you not rather accept wrong? Why do you not rather
let yourselves be cheated? 8 No,
you yourselves do wrong and cheat, and
you do these things
to your brethren! 9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God?
Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers,
nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.
As we all know - You cannot fall away from something such that you cannot be "renewed again" to it -- if you never had it to start with.
Heb 6
4 For
it is impossible for those who were
once enlightened, and have tasted the heavenly gift, and have become partakers of the Holy Spirit, 5 and have tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come,
(Which is the saved condition -- not the state of the lost)
6
if they fall away, to renew them again to repentance, since they crucify again for themselves the Son of God, and put
Him to an open shame.
Just when Calvinism imagines "arbitrary selection" we find --
Rom 2:11 For there is
no partiality with God.
Gal 6: 7
Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. 8 For he who
sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life.
1 John 3: 7 Little children,
let no one deceive you. He who practices righteousness is righteous, just as He is righteous. 8 He who sins is of the devil, for the devil has sinned from the beginning
Rom 6: 15 What then? Shall we sin because we are not under law but under grace? Certainly not! 16
Do you not know that to whom you present yourselves slaves to obey, you are that one’s slaves whom you obey, whether of sin leading to death, or of obedience
leading to righteousness? 17 But God be thanked that
though you were slaves of sin, yet you obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine to which you were delivered.
1 Cor 9
23 Now this I
do for the gospel’s sake, that I may be partaker of it with
you.
24 Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain
it. 25 And everyone who competes
for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they
do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we
for an imperishable
crown. 26 Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as
one who beats the air. 27
But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached the gospel to others, I myself should become disqualified.