Enoch: "Those who speak in tongues will insist that they are genuine. But we can see that the gift of modern tongues has been a divisive issue, whereas the Holy Spirit in truth wishes to unite believers."
"Do you think I have come to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but rather division (Luke 12:51)!" The division is created by Christians who blaspheme against the Spirit by rejecting His precious charisms like speaking in tongues.
Dave L: "If you can show another way of distributing the gifts besides the two outpourings or through an apostle's hands, you can prove you are not wrong in this."
Many of us (like Nancy and myself on this site) receive the gift of tongues through seeking in private with no laying on of hands. Dave, Paul refutes your assumption that Acts 2:17 and 10:44-46 are the only 2 NT "outpourings of the Holy Spirit."
(1) "This Spirit He has poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by grace, we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life (Titus 3:6-7)."
Notice that the experience of the Spirit's outpouring is a standard expectation with no mention of laying on hands here.
(2) "My speech and my proclamation were not with plausible words of wisdom, but with a demonstration of the Spirit and of power, so that your faith might not rest on the human wisdom, but on the power of God (1 Corinthians 2:4-5)."
Just as the Spirit is poured out on Cornelius' household as Peter preaches, so God's power manifests through the ecstatic gifts of the Spirit during Paul's preaching at Corinth, so that he can summarize the result thus: "The testimony of Christ has been strengthened among you, so that you are not lacking in any spiritual gift (1:6-7)."
(3) Evangelical tongues haters are clueless about how important the power and demonstration of the Spirit through His charismata are for the life of faith:
"I will come to you soon, if the Lord wills, and I will find out not the [God] talk of these arrogant people, but their power. For the kingdom of God depends not on talk, but on power (4:19-20)."
(4) Paul witnesses the outpouring of the Spirit during his initial preaching at Corinth. But as that church grows, the new tongues speakers create confusion by disrupting services without interpretations. Paul hears about this from their letter (7:1) and therefore has NOT imparted the gift of tongues to them himself through the laying on of hands! The believer's reception of the Spirit is associated with baptism (either before or after it), but at Corinth Paul has only baptized Crispus, Gaius, and the household of Stephanus (1:14-16).
(5) Paul would chastise evangelical tongues haters for making the initial reception of the Spirit simply a matter of faith with no verifying power or miracles from the gifts of the Spirit:
"Are you so foolish? Having started with the Spirit, are you now ending with the flesh? Did you experience so much for nothing...? Well then, does God supply you with the Spirit and work miracles among you by your doing the works of the Law or by your believing what you heard (Galatians 3:3-5)?"