If it takes an act of God to come to repentance...
why did the jailer say:
BELIEVE AND YOU WILL BE SAVED
According to you he should have said
BE SAVED AND THEN YOU WILL BELIEVE.
Nope. He said believe and you will be saved because Paul [not the jailer] knew that if a man does believe it is only because God has given him this faith. He said "Believe"; this does not instantly mean that the faith required to believe is of him. This is your premise:
1.) Paul told the jailer to believe
2.) All faith must come only from the individual commanded to have faith
3.) Therefore all men must have the ability to be saved.
The problem is #2; this is only implied by you; that all faith can only come from within the individual commanded to have it, when in fact this faith, this belief, comes only from God. If the jailer believed, Paul knew it was only because God had given him the faith necessary.
If GOD CHOOSES US
why did Jesus tell us NOT TO LOOK BACK IF we wish to follow Him.
Why did He say that we should COUNT THE COST?
Simple. To weed out those who the Father had given faith from the people who claimed to have faith but didn't. The Faith given by the Father could stand up to the tests of Christ; the "faith" produced by men could not. So when He tells them to "count the cost", Christ knows that when they do those whose faith is not of the Father will be weeded out and exposed. When Christ said not to look back, He knew that only those with the divine Faith given by the Father would actually be able to live out this command; those who did not have the heavenly faith would inevitably fall away.
What's the use of counting the cost if God chooses us?
Common sense would suffice...but you have learned to follow MEN
instead of listening to Jesus and following what Jesus taught.
NO MAN COMES TO THE FATHER EXCEPT THROUGH ME.
Exactly. Yet you quote this verse and then turn around and say the opposite; That man can only go to the Father of himself, which is exactly contradictory to the verse you just quoted. Common sense also suffices to see this contradiction with Scripture.
Does that sound to you like JESUS PICKED YOU?
IF you go through JESUS...you will get to the Father.
On the surface, taking only that one verse into account, no. But let's look at the whole of Scripture, and see what it says about being chosen:
Verses on God's Chosen People:
~ Psalm 33:12
~ Psalm 65:4
~ Haggai 2:23
~ Matthew 11:27
~ Matthew 24:22
~ Matthew 24:24
~ Matthew 24:31
~ Luke 18:7
~ Romans 8:28-30
~ Romans 8:33
~ Romans 11:28
~ Colossians 3:12
~ 1 Peter 2:8-9
~ 1 Thessalonians 5:9
Now, having taken into consideration the rest of Scripture, let's look at the verse again:
"No man cometh unto the Father, but by Me." No man can go to the Father, except that Christ gives them the ability, the Faith. So yes; that verse not only Sounds like it is saying Jesus picked me; it is saying that Jesus chose me, and every other believer.
And the Father DRAWS everyone to His son.
As He has from the beginning of the creation.
Romans 1:19-20 should suffice to convince anyone with common sense.
And Romans 1:21, which was so conveniently left out, answers your question:
Romans 1:21-25:
21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
Men did not want this knowledge and rejected it. This is why only Christ can give faith; left to themselves, men will reject the very wisdom of God, refusing to believe.
Friend, all that has been shown is a lack of care for the Scriptures, and a total obsession with man's own ability. These kinds of arguments have been used for centuries, and been decimated for centuries.