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Romans 8:23,

And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.

You grow from suffering, why? Because suffering teaches you obedience. Jesus learned obedience from suffering why would we to be any different. Do you know how suffering lets up, you learn obedience. I'm sure there are other ways to learn but suffering will bring obedience. Have you ever been around those that have suffered and the humility they have and humbleness, you can feel it.

When I was in prison ministry I was impressed by this, it was my first experience in seeing how suffering had it's effects on us. Obedience may still be coming with some but they were well on there way. You need to know something about the prison system and it's effects on inmates before you judge the whole lot. We are quick to say throw the key away, but we don't know What the father is doing.

Alot of what we call God's judgement is nothing more than suffering that is built into creation, such as; a storm brewing or an earthquake or some tradgic event. They are all part of creation, does God use such events in the lives of people, sure he does. But he does not cause them, not since the cross, he uses the schoolhouse now, the world as a teacher.

The difference between the world and the believer when they suffer; the believer has the shed blood of Jesus and is a bonified offspring of God the father. The world does not have the blood and the suffering will continue. Why suffering in the world, to bring the non-believer to Christ. Why does a believer suffer, to teach them obedience. If you look at the prodigal son passage you will see it starts out with a certain man having two son's, Luke 15:11-12,

11 And he said, A certain man had two sons:

12 And the younger of them said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living

Now the real word's here you should fix your mind on are "two son's and the younger of them." Real word's because there we're two son's, not a saint and sinner as supposed by some. "The younger of them" because there is something in the father to where he always chooses the younger. Think of the choosing of others like Joseph or the son of Jesse are some that come to mind. The youngest and least expected in a large family. Mary, I dont know where she was in her family line but look at her age.

The podical just thought he was living it up, but in reality the father had a plan.
 
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What was the father of the prodigal son planning?
The prodigal son decided to leave and he also decided to go back.
Did his father make him poor?
Did his father make him take a job as a pig feeder and tender?

As to suffering....
I refer to Romans 8:28

However, I'd also like to say that I don't need to suffer to learn obedience...
I don't think God, our creator, wants us to suffer.

I don't understand people who teach what you are saying...
and I mean priests and preachers.

Do YOU want YOUR children to suffer so they could learn something?
I mean SUFFER,
not discomfort.

No. Because you love them...
I have to also believe this about God.

Psalm 23
 

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The difference between the world and the believer when they suffer; the believer has the shed blood of Jesus and is a bonified offspring of God the father.
i used to believe this, but i have come to believe that Christians are actually in the worse shape of all, and the most deceived. ...even the elect, if it were possible
few there are who find it
The world does not have the blood
wadr i think they do, and not only ours, but the sins of the whole world

fwiw i would seriously abandon this errant belief that God respects anyone for their professions of faith or their "beliefs" that will not even be judged
 

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i used to believe this, but i have come to believe that Christians are actually in the worse shape of all, and the most deceived. ...even the elect, if it were possible
few there are who find it

wadr i think they do, and not only ours, but the sins of the whole world

fwiw i would seriously abandon this errant belief that God respects anyone for their professions of faith or their "beliefs" that will not even be judged
Many Christians question why God made this or that happen to them.
I, personally, find comfort in knowing God...but not all of us do.

And as to your last paragraph,,,we will be judged by our works/deed.
I don't understand how but Jesus Himself said so more than once.
John 5:28
 

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ah. I'm now comfortable with the truth that i am as evil as any Apostle, and that satan appears as an angel of light, and even that if He speaks to us again, we will die
When we were slaves to satan we were evil.
Don't call yourself evil now....
call yourself a child of God that sins.
And don't listen to satan.
 
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Romans 8:23,

And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.

You grow from suffering, why? Because suffering teaches you obedience. Jesus learned obedience from suffering why would we to be any different. Do you know how suffering lets up, you learn obedience. I'm sure there are other ways to learn but suffering will bring obedience. Have you ever been around those that have suffered and the humility they have and humbleness, you can feel it.

When I was in prison ministry I was impressed by this, it was my first experience in seeing how suffering had it's effects on us. Obedience may still be coming with some but they were well on there way. You need to know something about the prison system and it's effects on inmates before you judge the whole lot. We are quick to say throw the key away, but we don't know What the father is doing.

Alot of what we call God's judgement is nothing more than suffering that is built into creation, such as; a storm brewing or an earthquake or some tradgic event. They are all part of creation, does God use such events in the lives of people, sure he does. But he does not cause them, not since the cross, he uses the schoolhouse now, the world as a teacher.

The difference between the world and the believer when they suffer; the believer has the shed blood of Jesus and is a bonified offspring of God the father. The world does not have the blood and the suffering will continue. Why suffering in the world, to bring the non-believer to Christ. Why does a believer suffer, to teach them obedience. If you look at the prodigal son passage you will see it starts out with a certain man having two son's, Luke 15:11-12,

11 And he said, A certain man had two sons:

12 And the younger of them said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living

Now the real word's here you should fix your mind on are "two son's and the younger of them." Real word's because there we're two son's, not a saint and sinner as supposed by some. "The younger of them" because there is something in the father to where he always chooses the younger. Think of the choosing of others like Joseph or the son of Jesse are some that come to mind. The youngest and least expected in a large family. Mary, I dont know where she was in her family line but look at her age.

The podical just thought he was living it up, but in reality the father had a plan.

Amen.
The father knew that one day he would see his son return. Once he had been through 'the refining of a son.'

Jesus leaned by what he suffered- "Though He were a Son, yet learned He obedience by the things which He suffered..."

The trial of our faith equipping us to fight the enemy of our souls. all

Yes, suffering will continue until the new kingdom is ushered in...it is all part of the fall.

Some overcome, so find it over comes them. Too often I have been in the latter group. But that is the test.

It is us who choose to go under, or it is us who choses to be an overcomer...which is what it is all really about!!

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Amen.
The father knew that one day he would see his son return. Once he had been through 'the refining of a son.'

Jesus leaned by what he suffered- "Though He were a Son, yet learned He obedience by the things which He suffered..."

The trial of our faith equipping us to fight the enemy of our souls. all

Yes, suffering will continue until the new kingdom is ushered in...it is all part of the fall.

Some overcome, so find it over comes them. Too often I have been in the latter group. But that is the test.

It is us who choose to go under, or it is us who choses to be an overcomer...which is what it is all really about!!

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Yes Hebrews 5:8 I think :) suffering comes in all kinds of packages such as someone cut you off on the highway, very easy to loose your religion in a moment. Suffering is not always a physical pain, or mental anguish or whatever, it is life in general. All of creation groans for deliverance.
 
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However, I'd also like to say that I don't need to suffer to learn obedience...
I don't think God, our creator, wants us to suffer.

“I’d say that I don’t need to suffer to learn obedience...” if that were true you may be the first. But you are not alone in this as I’ve said the same. It hurts and I don’t know how many times I’ve ask God why it has to be so. The creator of all things...couldn’t He create in us instantly a built in obedience without pain. I’m sure but this is the way He has chosen and maybe our opportunity to see Him create New creatures bearing the image of the heavenly... Was going to quote as Bygrace, Hebrews 5:8-9 Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered; [9] And being made perfect, he became the author of eternal salvation unto all them that obey him;

I don't understand people who teach what you are saying...
and I mean priests and preachers.

Do YOU want YOUR children to suffer so they could learn something?
I mean SUFFER,
not discomfort.

Hebrews 12:9-11
[9] Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? [10] For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. [11] Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

Ecclesiastes 1:13
[13] And I gave my heart to seek and search out by wisdom concerning all things that are done under heaven: this sore travail hath God given to the sons of man to be exercised therewith.

Ecclesiastes 3:10
[10] I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it.

Acts 14:22
[22] Confirming the souls of the disciples, and exhorting them to continue in the faith, and that we must through much tribulation enter into the kingdom of God.
^easier to fit a camel through the eye of a needle, may apply to us all.

No. Because you love them...
I have to also believe this about God.

I would say I haven’t even come close to loving my children they way He loves His. I’m too selfish.
 
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“I’d say that I don’t need to suffer to learn obedience...” if that were true you may be the first. But you are not alone in this as I’ve said the same. It hurts and I don’t know how many times I’ve ask God why it has to be so. The creator of all things...couldn’t He create in us instantly a built in obedience without pain. I’m sure but this is the way He has chosen and maybe our opportunity to see Him create New creatures bearing the image of the heavenly... Was going to quote as Bygrace, Hebrews 5:8-9 Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered; [9] And being made perfect, he became the author of eternal salvation unto all them that obey him;



Hebrews 12:9-11
[9] Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? [10] For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. [11] Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

Ecclesiastes 1:13
[13] And I gave my heart to seek and search out by wisdom concerning all things that are done under heaven: this sore travail hath God given to the sons of man to be exercised therewith.

Ecclesiastes 3:10
[10] I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it.

Acts 14:22
[22] Confirming the souls of the disciples, and exhorting them to continue in the faith, and that we must through much tribulation enter into the kingdom of God.
^easier to fit a camel through the eye of a needle, may apply to us all.



I would say I haven’t even come close to loving my children they way He loves His. I’m too selfish.

Amen...good post.

The Children of Israel ‘could have done their trip to the promised land in a number of weeks, not years... yet they were not mature, seasoned or ready with the right attitude, so God made them take 40 years. “To test them to see what was in their hearts “
We may “think” that we don’t need the tests and trials under the Lords hand....but it is for our own good...to mature us , and see how true our hearts really are.
 
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“I’d say that I don’t need to suffer to learn obedience...” if that were true you may be the first. But you are not alone in this as I’ve said the same. It hurts and I don’t know how many times I’ve ask God why it has to be so. The creator of all things...couldn’t He create in us instantly a built in obedience without pain. I’m sure but this is the way He has chosen and maybe our opportunity to see Him create New creatures bearing the image of the heavenly... Was going to quote as Bygrace, Hebrews 5:8-9 Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered; [9] And being made perfect, he became the author of eternal salvation unto all them that obey him;



Hebrews 12:9-11
[9] Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? [10] For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. [11] Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

Ecclesiastes 1:13
[13] And I gave my heart to seek and search out by wisdom concerning all things that are done under heaven: this sore travail hath God given to the sons of man to be exercised therewith.

Ecclesiastes 3:10
[10] I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it.

Acts 14:22
[22] Confirming the souls of the disciples, and exhorting them to continue in the faith, and that we must through much tribulation enter into the kingdom of God.
^easier to fit a camel through the eye of a needle, may apply to us all.



I would say I haven’t even come close to loving my children they way He loves His. I’m too selfish.
You didn't answer me.
Do YOU want your children to SUFFER?

So if God loves us MORE than you love your children...
why would He want us to suffer?

Hebrews was written to Jews that WERE suffering and the writer was trying to give them some kind of comfort.

I don't need to suffer to be obedient.

I was obedient to my parents without having to suffer first.
I was obedient to my husband without having to suffer first.
and I was obedient to God without having to suffer first.

And I don't think I'm the first.
Most persons who love God will obey Him whether they suffer or not.

Next time you have a tummy ache,,,don't take anything for it.
The suffering will teach you to be obedient.
 

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.....OUCH!!!...
Was that for moi?

Word of Faith teaches that God will make us well and will do anything we ask for.
The Big Santa in the Sky.

Some tell me I must suffer to learn how to love God.

I refuse both.

If I can figure out a way to teach my kids without making them suffer I'm certainly sure GOD can.

Now...if you want to tell me I can take my suffering and learn something from it...then I did post Romans 8:28 and I DO agree with that.

That's not what I'm hearing.
 

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In that Jesus learned obedience by what He suffered, is this to mean that Jesus learned How to Obey by enduring suffering? Did Jesus not already know how to obey? Did He not at all times obey perfectly?

But in sharing the human experience, He learned the experience of obeying even when that obedience brought horrific suffering.

So that He would have experienced what we experience. Because we endure pain and suffering as a part of our life, and now we can know that He knows what it's like. He was there. A man of sorrows, aquainted with grief, to qualify Him as our High Priest.

And we suffer for a variety of reasons. And I've seen in things I've suffered incredible gifts that I don't see how they could have come in other ways. Of course that's just me.

Disciplining and purging already mentioned.

Then there's just getting us from point A to point B. Frankie has MS and almost dies over the course of the next 5 years, but she's a talker, and and in all the hospitals and doctors offices, she's sharing the Gospel. God crafted her for this, and used the disease to deliver her to His intended audience.

And the trickle down effect. Also already mentioned, travail is built into this world.

God broke creation so that no one would find any fulfillment in any done ever under the sun. It's a fallen world, and the sinful and depraved suffer the results of their lives, and we reach out to them having suffered the same things, or things that have cause us to understand.

Much love!
 

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So, why do you think that God wrote this if there was no need for any uncomfortable things in our maturing as a son of God?
:-
" My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations;
Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience./endurance
But let patience/endurance have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing
."

And Paul knew what he was talking about...
2 Cor 11:25 "Thrice was I beaten with rods, once was I stoned, thrice I suffered shipwreck, a night and a day I have been in the deep;
.... in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils by mine own countrymen, in perils by the heathen, in perils in the city, in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among false brethren;
In weariness and painfulness, in watchings often, in hunger and thirst, in fastings often, in cold and nakedness..
.."

It doesn't sound much as if he learned obedience and maturity as a son..on a bed of roses.

1 Peter 1-7 " That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire.."

Blessings...Helen
 

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If I can figure out a way to teach my kids without making them suffer I'm certainly sure GOD can.


Well my parents didn't give us a suffer free childhood..
Neither did I with mine...thankfully mine were born in early 1960's when the biblical discipline of 'the rod of correction' was still in vogue.

Glad your kids didn't need it and just did what they were told.

I don't think any kid choses obedience if it can get away with doing his own thing. :)
 

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So, why do you think that God wrote this if there was no need for any uncomfortable things in our maturing as a son of God?
:-
" My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations;
Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience./endurance
But let patience/endurance have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing
."

And Paul knew what he was talking about...
2 Cor 11:25 "Thrice was I beaten with rods, once was I stoned, thrice I suffered shipwreck, a night and a day I have been in the deep;
.... in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils by mine own countrymen, in perils by the heathen, in perils in the city, in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among false brethren;
In weariness and painfulness, in watchings often, in hunger and thirst, in fastings often, in cold and nakedness..
.."

It doesn't sound much as if he learned obedience and maturity as a son..on a bed of roses.

1 Peter 1-7 " That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire.."

Blessings...Helen
I agree with post no. 54 by @marks ....

Paul, as Jesus, always obeyed....
as marks said...they didn't have to wait to suffer.

The gospel tells us what happens as a result of suffering..what we can learn.
Does it say we NEED TO SUFFER to learn obedience?
I don't see this.
 
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Well my parents didn't give us a suffer free childhood..
Neither did I with mine...thankfully mine were born in early 1960's when the biblical discipline of 'the rod of correction' was still in vogue.

Glad your kids didn't need it and just did what they were told.

I don't think any kid choses obedience if it can get away with doing his own thing. :)
I didn't say anything about my kids except that they didn't need to SUFFER to be obedient.

How you translate SUFFER, I guess, is up to you.
 
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I agree with post no. 54 by @marks ....

Paul, as Jesus, always obeyed....
as marks said...they didn't have to wait to suffer.

The gospel tells us what happens as a result of suffering..what we can learn.
Does it say we NEED TO SUFFER to learn obedience?
I don't see this.

Perhaps I've been misunderstood.

I'm only saying that I don't think Jesus had to learn how to obey by suffering, but that doesn't mean we are the same.

I think when we talk about this we need to include an extra level.

We suffer, and God brings us through, and this increases our trust in God. As we trust God more, we do more what He says.

The worst pain I've ever felt, and it seemed unendurable while I was going through it, (damaged nerve), yet in the midst that's what happened, faith was increased, and then I found I understood God's love for just even me so much more deeply than I had before.

My sister told me the same thing, that as she was dying from cancer was when she learned how much God loves her.

Much love!
 

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The gospel tells us what happens as a result of suffering..what we can learn.
Does it say we NEED TO SUFFER to learn obedience?
I don't see this.

Good point...touché
Now I get where you are coming from.
I guess if I put 'the fear of God' into my kids when very young...they could be controlled by the sternness of my mouth, rather than 'the rod of correction'. ( which was never a rod, but my hand )

So..."The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom."

I believe it starts as a young christian by having fear of God and/or losing Him...then grows into obedience because of love.
 
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