Sex and Christian Marriage

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jshiii

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Can someone advise some links or scripture about what is permitted in the intimate relationship between a Christian husband and wife. Specifically, oral sex, positions besides missionary...etc. ThanksIs oral sex ok in the christian marriage?
 

jshiii

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Yea...I thought this would be a tough question to answer
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Maybe to each his own between 2 consulting adults. One Pastor once told me, "well the bible doesn't say in it anywhere that oral sex is wrong."
 

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God created Man and Woman to procreate,He also says a man and wife are to become one spirtually as well as physicallyHe gives us rules for Marriage, He tells us what we should not do. Man shall not lay with Man ect. He doesn't give detailed sex advise on specifics of what goes on between a Man and his wife. One can only ask themselves Does my behavior in sex acts acomplish what God has said they should.
 

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I agree with Christina here. The idea is to procreate and make more like Himself. So if you stick this in there, does it help make a baby?
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If not, then it probably is not what God intended.As for my mouth, I use it for eating food. Period. My mouth seems to think that a juicy Burger King Hamburger is truly heaven. Nothing else.
 

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Can someone advise some links or scripture about what is permitted in the intimate relationship between a Christian husband and wife. Specifically, oral sex, positions besides missionary...etc. ThanksIs oral sex ok in the christian marriage?
The Bible does not specify. The Song of Solomon evidences the fact that marriage sex is for more than pure procreative purposes. It's part of the fun of marriage.Whatever a couple does, however, must be consensual.
 

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Hi jshiiiThe Bible does give us one clue to the answer to your question:But first let me address another answer you received.-------------------------------------------------- Hi ChristinaYou said.......
“God created Man and Woman to procreate”
Although this is technically correct, it is not the purpose for marriage.Here is what the New Testament says, is the reason for marriage......
1 Corinthians 7:1-5V.1 ¶ Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: [It is] good for a man not to touch a woman. V.2 Nevertheless, [to avoid] fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. V.3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. V.4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. V.5 Defraud ye not one the other, except [it be] with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
A Christian marriage, is for sexual pleasure.-------------------------------------------------- Now jshiii, the Scripture that I talked about before is........
Hebrews 13:4“Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”
As long as the marriage bed only has one man and one woman, than anything goes.“the bed undefiled”