Did God determine that Adam was to eat the fruit?
Yep. That's what God does. He determines the course of all things; Time and Space were His creation; all that would ever happen in time happened because He ordained it.
Does God have to determine everything that happens because He's so afraid of free will?
No. God determines everything because He is God and time is His creation. He is the KING; all things that happen in His kingdom happen because He allows them.
Would YOU want YOUR wife to love you because you forced her to?
Or your friend, or sibling, or anyone you love.
You clearly don't understand the meaning of fallen will. Man doesn't WANT to know God; he HATES God, and always will until God changes His heart and gives man a new one. Man is sinful, not neutral. You present man as neutral; not good but not bad and waiting to make a decision. The Scriptures present man in a very different light.
And you know what real love is, right? Perfect love? The kind of love God has for His people, you understand that? Nope.
You understand fallen love; love that cannot be complete and whole without the work of the Holy Spirit. Even if man DID love God in and of himself, this love would be disgusting to God; we are SINNERS! Even our good deeds are filthy rags! God doesn't want our fallen love; not apart from the Holy Spirit and the work of Christ. Your love is abhorrent to Him! It is incomplete and tainted by sin after sin; and to the Holy God, it is abominable.
And, it looks to me like YOU are backed into the corner...
Where's my verse stating Jesus died for only a select few?
Where's my verse stating that God removed free will from our make up?
Verses on Christ Dying for a Specific People:
~ Matthew 1:21 -- Died for ALL men? Nope. He died for
HIS PEOPLE
~ Matthew 20:28 -- A ransom for ALL? Nope. A randsom for
MANY
~ John 10:11 -- Died for ALL? Nope. For
HIS SHEEP.
~ John 11:50-53 -- Died for ALL? Nope. Died for the
PEOPLE OF GOD
~ Acts of the Apostles 20:28 -- Died for ALL? Nope. Died for
THE CHURCH
~ Ephesians 5:25-27 -- Died for ALL? Nope. Died for
THE CHURCH
~ Hebrews 9:15 -- Died for ALL? Nope. Died for
THOSE WHO ARE THE CALLED.
~ John 6:35-40 -- Died for ALL? Nope. Died for
ALL THOSE WHOM THE FATHER WOULD GIVE
~ John 10:14-18 -- Died for ALL? Nope. Died for
THE SHEEP
~ John 10: 24-29 -- Died for ALL? Nope. Died for
THE FLOCK
Verses about the Elect:
~ Matthew 22:14 -- Few are chosen.
~ Matthew 24:22 -- The days were cut short for everyone? Nope. For the
ELECT
~ Matthew 24:24 -- Lead astray everyone? Nope. Not the
ELECT
~ Matthew 24:31 -- The angels will gather everyone? Nope. They gather the
ELECT
~ Luke 18:7 -- God will give justice to everyone? Nope. To His
ELECT
~ Romans 8:28-30 -- All are called, justified and glorified? Nope. The
ELECT are predestined [God ordained it] , called, justified and glorified.
~ Romans 8:33 -- God's
ELECT
~ Romans 11:28 -- Here we see that the
ELECT, though they may be enemies at the time, are DESTINED to be brought into the church as brothers
~ Colossians 3:12 -- God's
CHOSEN
~ 1 Thessalonians 5:9 -- God has
DESTINED us to obtain salvation?!?
But how could He know before we use our "free will" ?!?
~ 1 Peter 2:8-9 -- Wait,
men are DESTINED to fall when they do?!? But... "free will" ?!?
Before I begin with the verses against free will, firstly I would like to ask the same of you that you ask of me; show me the verse where free will is expressly talked about [mentioned 0 times in the Scriptures]
Verses Against "Free Will"
1.) Our wills cannot be free;
Jesus himself said we cannot serve 2 masters; and the
Scriptures say our will's master is Satan.
~ John 8:44 -- What is our will?
To do the work of Satan
~ Ephesians 2:1-2 -- Who do we follow?
Satan
~ 2 Timothy 2:25-26 -- Whose will do we do?
Satan's
~ 1 John 3:10 -- Who are we children of?
The Devil
~ John 8:34 -- How can our will be free when we are the
SLAVES OF SIN?
~ Romans 6:20 --
SLAVES OF SIN
~ Titus 3:3 --
SLAVES OF SIN
2.) We cannot change this state!
~ Job 14:4 -- Can our wills bring out good when they are naturally evil? Nope.
~ Jeremiah 13:23 -- Can we do good when we are Slaves to sin and evil? Nope.
~ Matthew 7:16-18 -- Can we, who are slaves to sin, bear any good fruit? Nope.
~ Matthew 12:33 -- No good fruit from the wicked
~ John 6:65 -- Can we, who are dead in sins, go to the Father? Not unless it is granted by Christ through the Spirit
~ 2 Corinthians 3:5 -- Do we have anything in ourselves that is sufficient? Nope.
My views are not based on tradition. They are not based on feelings or my own petty view of what's "fair". My views are based on the teachings of Scriptures; nothing more, nothing less.