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Willie T

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It's ok I am learning that I may very well been an autistic child myself as if I'm just finding out I might have been but never noticed as a child... autistic or not..there's no gray area we are all unique in our own way but I know people say things about me to make me mad for whatever reason that is I don't care..they did the same thing to Jesus..so it's nothing new..it just goes to show you nothing really changed in history....
You haven't read either of those two article I recently posted, have you?
 

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You haven't read either of those two article I recently posted, have you?
Not really..lol but do I really read anything at all..lol like I said it's hard for me to understand things I read so I have to usually go over the sentences go remember what I read..but I did skin over your posts...so I read a bit...
 
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I think he is saying it is only your feelings and your pride that you allowed to be hurt.

No one hurt you.... you chose to decide you were "hurt."
But I was hurt..isn't that the goal though...to make me feel bad about myself...people do it cause they think I think I'm better then them when the truth its the way they feel because they are jealous so they look at me as if I think I'm special or something when in reality they are the one envious and look at me that way cause that's the way they probably feel about themselves..like I think I'm special or something cause they are jealous etc.
 
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But I was hurt..isn't that the goal though...to make me feel bad about myself...
No one can make anyone else feel anything. They, themselves, CHOOSE how they are going to feel about anything and everything that happens. (Read — really read and absorb — the short little REBT article I posted.)
 
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Not really..lol but do I really read anything at all..lol like I said it's hard for me to understand things I read so I have to usually go over the sentences go remember what I read..but I did skin over your posts...so I read a bit...
I am not especially bright, but I also am not dumb.

Right now, I am about halfway through rereading, FOR THE FOURTH TIME, a 1,200+ page book that I am determined to finally understand.
 

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We can all choose to be "victims" all our lives. Someone that other people always control. Or, we can decide to be who we want to be. It is OUR choice, NOT theirs. (Unless, of course our minds are so weak that we WANT to be "victims" controlled by someone else.)

Admittedly, it is a bit tough, because independence takes Personal RESPONSIBILITY. And some of us don't want to have to be responsible for our own thinking and feelings. We would rather just blame others for everything. (Ya know, the way children do.)
 

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I find it hard to forgive others who keep hurting me over and over.
What gets hurt?
Ok. I don't understand this. What?
I don't know what hurts you, that is why I am asking you. It is you that said you get hurt over and over.
So, what gets hurt? Or, what part of you gets hurt? Or, what hurts?
 
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No one can make anyone else feel anything. They, themselves, CHOOSE how they are going to feel about anything and everything that happens. (Read — really read and absorb — the short little REBT article I posted.)
Sticks and stones can break a bone and words really do hurt but Jesus said let him who is without sin to first cast a stone at her lol
 

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Why, Jennifer, can someone call me any name they choose, and I just laugh about it, but you want to announce to the world that you "have been hurt" if someone does exactly the same thing to you? I really want to know why you choose to do that. (No condemnation.... just explain to me why you do that.)
You can do it in private mail if you want to.
 

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Why, Jennifer, can someone call me any name they choose, and I just laugh about it, but you want to announce to the world that you "have been hurt" if someone does exactly the same thing to you? I really want to know why you choose to do that. (No condemnation.... just explain to me why you do that.)
You can do it in private mail if you want to.
Not to mention, why is it then ok for @Jennifer to call people vulgar names on this forum?
 
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Not to mention, why is it then ok for @Jennifer to call people vulgar names on this forum?

True indeed...the two vulgar words she has used thus far ...a third anyone else but us may hit the report button.

bbyrd009 didn't get away with his ...he got suspended for 6 weeks!!
 

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Not to mention, why is it then ok for @Jennifer to call people vulgar names on this forum?
She shouldn't. And I think we would all prefer she didn't. But, I think most of us are big enough to take a little of that until she picks herself up to the point that she no longer feels compelled to resort to that.
 
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And, Jen, some anger and animosity is understood.... BUT the plain-out vulgarity has got to be OUT OF THE PICTURE from now on. It needs to stop..... as of five minutes ago.

Right this minute, how about you make yourself a list of all the nasty names you would prefer to call people, and SUBSTITUTE alternate (neutral) words for each one of those names, and use THAT word instead? Try it, OK?
 
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