Billy, if you preach that only God can choose whom is saved and no man can come to Him unless God forces it, then your are simultaneously preaching that God also predestined and created tons of people to force to damnation.
If you want to say that a person has no more free agency than a falling stone: guess what, it’s not the stone’s fault it’s falling.
It ought to be obvious to everyone that anybody who is saved is saved by God's will and choosing. It was Jesus who said "no man can come to Me unless the Father draw him" can you say amen to that?
There is no scripture in the whole bible which says God predestined anybody to damnation, not one.
There is a golden rule among Protestants and it is this, when the bible is silent, we are silent.
Calvin fell into a trap, he was asked the very question you ask by one of his students, history records that he hesitated a long while before reluctantly admitting that this was the logical conclusion.
Arminians slam baste Calvin but then show that they have fallen into the very same trap. They ALSO believe that predestination means God must have predestined some, nay, the most of mankind to hell.
So Arminians do something more stupid than Calvin they throw out the bible which does teach predestination and election and invent a new doctrine of freewill to take it's place.
THE ANSWER IS
The answer is to read the bible doctrine a little more carefully. Predestination [Paul says] is to be conformed to the image of God's Son. Don't YOU want to be like Jesus, hallelujah! so do I, that's what we are predestinated for.
Election [says Paul] we were Chosen in Christ before the world began to be a people for the glorious praise of God's grace, isn't that what YOU want? I do well praise God He has chosen us for that. We are predestined and chosen to be the church.
Other people can still be and will be saved.