BARNEY BRIGHT
Well-Known Member
Grailhunter says:
They are not married in the eyes of God if they do not stay together.
If they stay together, they are married in the eyes of God.
How do you think people got married in the OT???[/Quote\]
First of all the first two sentences above in your post is gibberish it's only what a man thinks, it has nothing to do with God. Then the question concerning how they were married in the OT you leave way too much out.
First of all there was a process which when a hebrew mans father would asked the womans fathers for permission for his son to marry his daughter and if the daughter was in agreement then a bride price was paid to the father of the bride. At that point she is betrothed to that man. There is a scheduled time that they would bring the betrothed woman to the man's house or tent and if she has sex with any man before she was brought to the man's tent or home she is betrothed to, she would be guilty of adultery even though she has not had sex with the man she's betrothed to. You see they are considered husband and wife even though they haven't had sex with each other yet.
Plus when it came to hebrew women they had to be virgins and on the night they did have sex to the men they were betrothed to, they had to prove their virginity. All this is proof that God didn't condone single men having sex with single women until they were man and wife which as I said once betrothed they are considered man and wife before they have sex
They are not married in the eyes of God if they do not stay together.
If they stay together, they are married in the eyes of God.
How do you think people got married in the OT???[/Quote\]
First of all the first two sentences above in your post is gibberish it's only what a man thinks, it has nothing to do with God. Then the question concerning how they were married in the OT you leave way too much out.
First of all there was a process which when a hebrew mans father would asked the womans fathers for permission for his son to marry his daughter and if the daughter was in agreement then a bride price was paid to the father of the bride. At that point she is betrothed to that man. There is a scheduled time that they would bring the betrothed woman to the man's house or tent and if she has sex with any man before she was brought to the man's tent or home she is betrothed to, she would be guilty of adultery even though she has not had sex with the man she's betrothed to. You see they are considered husband and wife even though they haven't had sex with each other yet.
Plus when it came to hebrew women they had to be virgins and on the night they did have sex to the men they were betrothed to, they had to prove their virginity. All this is proof that God didn't condone single men having sex with single women until they were man and wife which as I said once betrothed they are considered man and wife before they have sex