Thanks
@amadeus for the tag.
I Confess that I have only read two posts in the thread , post #1 and the quote that
@amadeus podted above.
He and I are old friends .... in all senses , 1) we’ve been on many Christian forums now together for 20 years .
2) we are both old in years pushing 80 , and 3) old in Christian years too. So we know each other’s history .
the tag is because my hubby and I have lived in community living from 1975 to 1993 ...close to 20 years ...
Both on community ‘farms ’ ...of 100 people or so, way out in th3 British Columbian bush .....and also in big houses of anything from 25 to 35 people...closer in to the cities...
Been there done that and our life has been colourful and richer for it.
The “problems “ which arose were mostly the heavy hand of those who felt that they should dictate to other , by pulling leadership rank. I ( not so much my husband , it’s me with the big mouth...) was it seemed , always the one fighting and arguing the point for the ‘underdog’ ... ..we were invited over here ( from England) by the apostle who started the movement , so we bore some clout ourselves ..
I have an aversion to church politics and saw enough of it , in all shapes and colours in those years to last me until kingdom come.!!
We still believe strongly in a plural balanced leadership...I find nowhere in scripture for the ‘one man band pastor ‘.
Love always wins the day. And wonderful solid love bonds were made over those many years.
Other than the weakness of ‘the heavy hand’ ...I have nothing negative to say about community living.
We are the richer for it.
As for the heading of this thread ...and the mention of a ‘safe haven’. There is no such thing.
It’s impossible to escape the system .
The ONLY Safe Haven is Psalm 91 “ He that dwelleth in the Secret Place Of The Most High shall Abide under the shadow of the Almighty .....’
There is our rest , our Safe Haven, our God , our Hope , our Victory , and our ONLY Safe Haven.....
There is no other safe place on earth.
He has always promised that He will be WITH US in trouble , not zap us out of trouble...
We are to be salt and light while on this earth....not hiding in a corner ...
my two cents ...