I have struggled with understanding when is it gossip and when is it just discussing something that happened to you.
I remember when I was young I never discussed what others said or did to me because I didn't want to be a gossip or tattle-tail.
I know this isn't healthy because it builds up over time and becomes a root of bitterness in my heart. Also being young I just didn't have the knowledge of how to handle the situation in a way that would bring a positive outcome.
I still find myself holding things in at times because I don't want to be a gossip.
This past two weeks certain individuals I am acquainted with has said and done very hurtful things about me and to me.
In my time of hurting I shared with my friends (all 2 of them) the situation.
Then I would agonize about gossiping about someone....but it felt good to let it out and get some feedback...good and bad.
So when is it sharing an experience and when is it gossip?
All input is welcome
(I already did some web searching on it but wanted other perspectives as well)
I remember when I was young I never discussed what others said or did to me because I didn't want to be a gossip or tattle-tail.
I know this isn't healthy because it builds up over time and becomes a root of bitterness in my heart. Also being young I just didn't have the knowledge of how to handle the situation in a way that would bring a positive outcome.
I still find myself holding things in at times because I don't want to be a gossip.
This past two weeks certain individuals I am acquainted with has said and done very hurtful things about me and to me.
In my time of hurting I shared with my friends (all 2 of them) the situation.
Then I would agonize about gossiping about someone....but it felt good to let it out and get some feedback...good and bad.
So when is it sharing an experience and when is it gossip?
All input is welcome
(I already did some web searching on it but wanted other perspectives as well)