Gossip...what purpose does have?

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Rita

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Wise words indeed, I find it hard in my work environment.
I believe there are different levels to gossip , obviously the one that is mentioned. However often what is being talked about is true……so it would pass one of the sieve tests. Yet it is still gossip.
Then there is the kind that is true and helpful , the kind that dispels the false gossip and gives you the facts, yet it is still gossip ……….it’s still talking about other people behind their backs !
It gets tricky sometimes !!
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Wise words indeed, I find it hard in my work environment.
I believe there are different levels to gossip , obviously the one that is mentioned. However often what is being talked about is true……so it would pass one of the sieve tests. Yet it is still gossip.
Then there is the kind that is true and helpful , the kind that dispels the false gossip and gives you the facts, yet it is still gossip ……….it’s still talking about other people behind their backs !
It gets tricky sometimes !!
Rita
The term gossip originated hundreds of years ago before they had cell phones, a compound of god - sipp ie siblings, kindred etc. , and actually god-sipp is “god-father”.

It was the way people kept informed of the welfare of other members of the family they cared about; and especially those who were about to give birth. It was considered a holy activity.

I gossip with my family on a daily basis on our message service where it is not unusual for the family to share 50 messages daily along with photos and videos. Being unable to join the family on a recent weekend event, I received photos and videos of their activities throughout their stay.

I love God-sipp!
 
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I ran across this on Facebook....it says it all very well...

Gossip is one of those things that people "mean for evil that God has meant for good."

Part of the reason that God created the world dividing the light from the darkness (evil), is that "the man of sin is revealed" in us all. Which by gossip a man of sin does to himself.

The KJV translates Strong's G444 in the following manner: man (552x), not translated (4x), miscellaneous (3x).​
  1. a human being, whether male or female
    1. generically, to include all human individuals
 
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The term gossip originated hundreds of years ago before they had cell phones, a compound of god - sipp ie siblings, kindred etc. , and actually god-sipp is “god-father”.

It was the way people kept informed of the welfare of other members of the family they cared about; and especially those who were about to give birth. It was considered a holy activity.

I gossip with my family on a daily basis on our message service where it is not unusual for the family to share 50 messages daily along with photos and videos. Being unable to join the family on a recent weekend event, I received photos and videos of their activities throughout their stay.

I love God-sipp!
Interesting history--thanks!

I suppose the Original Post should have perhaps used the term "perverse" which many translations have replaced with "gossip."

The KJV translates Strong's H8419 in the following manner: froward (4x), frowardness (3x), froward things (2x), perverse things (1x).​
Outline of Biblical Usage [?]​
  1. perversity, perverse thing
Strong’s Definitions​
תַּהְפֻּכָה tahpukâh, tah-poo-kaw'; from H2015; a perversity or fraud:—(very) froward(-ness, thing), perverse thing.​
 

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The term gossip originated hundreds of years ago before they had cell phones, a compound of god - sipp ie siblings, kindred etc. , and actually god-sipp is “god-father”.

It was the way people kept informed of the welfare of other members of the family they cared about; and especially those who were about to give birth. It was considered a holy activity.

I gossip with my family on a daily basis on our message service where it is not unusual for the family to share 50 messages daily along with photos and videos. Being unable to join the family on a recent weekend event, I received photos and videos of their activities throughout their stay.

I love God-sipp!
The meaning of words/language changes over time. We can see this with the word 'gay'. As you know it was once used for one with a happy disposition. It is hardly used for this today; in fact it is used for something entirely different....which I'm sure you understand. Therefore, in the light of this, let us not interpret the word 'gossip' to mean what it did at an earlier time....an interpretation which few if anybody understands today. Let us not live in a reality of distortion.
 

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Wise words indeed, I find it hard in my work environment.
I believe there are different levels to gossip , obviously the one that is mentioned. However often what is being talked about is true……so it would pass one of the sieve tests. Yet it is still gossip.
Then there is the kind that is true and helpful , the kind that dispels the false gossip and gives you the facts, yet it is still gossip ……….it’s still talking about other people behind their backs !
It gets tricky sometimes !!
Rita
Most of the gossip I have ever had the unpleasant encounter of hearing was negative or malicious about someone....I would find it very difficult to run across the person being spoken about without turning red-faced and cringing from sheer guilt for even hearing it and not stopping it.
Nowadays I put my hand up and say stop....I don't want to hear it.
I can conclude things on my own...thank you.
 

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The meaning of words/language changes over time. We can see this with the word 'gay'. As you know it was once used for one with a happy disposition. It is hardly used for this today; in fact it is used for something entirely different....which I'm sure you understand. Therefore, in the light of this, let us not interpret the word 'gossip' to mean what it did at an earlier time....an interpretation which few if anybody understands today. Let us not live in a reality of distortion.
I agree. The original God-sipp, family interaction has been be the word iPhone!
 
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I am one of the victim of a gossip
I was telling my story since no one knows after telling my story a few mins someone asked me about my story but the story has changed completely it became more realistic so they all believed those lies more than the truth that came directly from me and I almost went berserk because of it
it was a very annoying experience
they were the ones who lied and changed the story because they do not trust you but most people believe the lies then made you the liar
 
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In Australia, we had an incident where two police officers and an innocent neighbour were ambushed and shot dead, because of "gossip," which are also called conspiracy theories. The conspiracy theories are just fiction which is dressed up to appear true to the gullible.

The two brothers had been brought up in a Christian home, but the devastated father now acknowledges that they became lost and had turned away from God and committed crimes against society, based on their misconstrued understanding of reality.

Lies, at the best of time are not good.
 
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To diminish or destroy the credibility of another. It's the bedfellow of character assassination
Yet to expose a false teacher or leader for what they are IS A GOOD THING .
Gossip is dung . But looking out for the lambs IS GOOD . correct all error and do so quickly .
And if one errs against you , WELL TAKE IT TO THEM IN PRIVATE FIRST , dont gossip .
DO as JESUS taught , do as the aposetls taught us , DO as GOD said to do , as JESUS said to do . AND DO IT WITH ALL YOUR HEART .
 
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Yet to expose a false teacher or leader for what they are IS A GOOD THING .
Gossip is dung . But looking out for the lambs IS GOOD . correct all error and do so quickly .
And if one errs against you , WELL TAKE IT TO THEM IN PRIVATE FIRST , dont gossip .
DO as JESUS taught , do as the aposetls taught us , DO as GOD said to do , as JESUS said to do . AND DO IT WITH ALL YOUR HEART .
You can be assured that most here who rail, feel they are exposing a false teacher or leader.
The tune is, look how wrong they are and how right I am.
 
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Many years ago, 2012. I came close to losing my job and sanity. I stood up against wicked people. And they resented me for it. I was planting seeds at this place. They some how caught on I was Christian. I aslo rebuked a false brethren. That didn't go well with the wicked. The wicked started sowing the, and slander against me. Eventually, I left the workplace on my own. Its unbelievable how evil and depraved some people can be. Thier hatred towards God and Christian people. Their hatred is insanity. Psalm 109:6. Set thou a wicked man over him : and let satan stand at his right hand. 109:7. When he shall be judged, let him be condemned: and let his prayer become sin.
 
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Gossip is bad yes. It only promotes people to not change. Re-enforcing to them their failures, as Gossip is usually about failures. What I've found is that even if the gossip is true, we should want people to be at their best and doing well. That is the love of God. So I try and choose not to perpetuate someones faults.
 

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Yes, Gossip will keep you out of the Kingdom of God. Gossip comes from an impure heart, and love does not gossip.

Matthew 12
[35] A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things.
[36] But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
[37] For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.
 

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Yes, Gossip will keep you out of the Kingdom of God. Gossip comes from an impure heart, and love does not gossip.

Matthew 12
[35] A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things.
[36] But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
[37] For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.
Yep . and not only that
but murderers , fornicators , homosexuals . OH yes that TOO , liars and etc will not inherit the KINGDOM of GOD .
 
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