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puntorojo

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Dear brethren,

My name is Cody Ripley, I am 20 years old, and saved by the grace of God.

I was 10 when I met a man named Ben Anglea (pronounced angel ironically), and was invited to Sunday school at an independent Baptiast church. I was filled with a desire to learn the Bible, and Bro. Ben decided he wanted to pay for me to go to Windsor Hills Baptist Schools. I attended WHBS from grades 5-8. I learned a lot about how I should live, however at this time I started to struggle spiritually. I got expelled from WHBS, for striking the principal, because he was condemning my family. I then switched churches, and continued my attendance until I was 16, however it was only for self-righteousness, and I did not grow spiritually. I continued through high school, and met a teacher who showed special interest in me. This teacher is likely the only reason I made the good decisions I made through high school, and I continued to graduate rank 4 of 360.

Instead of going to college, I decided to join the Navy. I began my career as an interior communications specialist, and kept a motivation for success. I married my high school sweetheart, who at the time did not believe in Christ. I was a valued member of my team, on board the USS George HW Bush, however I still was lacking the Holy Spirit. Finally one day, I believe God decided to turn off the blessings, and teach me a lesson. I got so far lost in sin, I started drinking, which led to more sin, and a decline in my marital relationship. I would go out to sea, come home, and drink alcohol. This pattern lasted 6 months, until it inevitably led to me getting booted from the military.

When I got booted from the military, I was lost - with no idea why. I kept thinking why did this happen to me? I kept thinking how did I let everything I worked for get destroyed? Then something happened. My wife, out of the blue, came to me with a Bible. She told me a friend of hers has been trying to get her to come to church, and she finally went. This is the first time I saw happiness in my wife's eyes since I got assigned to that ship. Almost instantly, upon seeing my wife's face, and the Bible in her hand, I recognized that joy. I became speechless, and instantly wept and prayed for God's forgiveness. This was December of 2013.

My wife and I decided not to go to church, and started having a Bible study every morning and night, and prayed together before bed every night. We have missed a few sessions, however we have done our best to continue this effort.

In conclusion, I can see clearly how God has worked in my life. Even though I did not serve him, he blessed me, by introducing good people into my life. Now that I have been living each day with his Word in my mind, and Christ in my heart, I have happiness and joy in my life. Moreover, when I make a mistake, I see that the punishment is no longer easy, and I am reminded to live like a Christian. Christ has saved me!

Now, I am a life support system technician, my family does not go without, and I have been receiving many opportunities that others do not. I thank the Lord for all he has done for me, and for delivering me from the wicked sin that I lived by.

I have joined this forum, after months of reading it, to further my understanding of the Word. Thank you for the opportunity!
 

This Vale Of Tears

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Welcome, Cody.

That's a touching testimony and thank you for sharing it. I hope you and your wife decide that it's best to go to church and there's a reason that Hebrews 10:25 exhorts us to never neglect this. There's nothing that causes us to grow in the Lord than to humbly submit to human authority as He commands. Such submission is indeed submission to Christ and will not go unrewarded and will build the Christian character we need to endure through the valleys and mountains. There's nothing like an imperfect pastor and a church full of imperfect people to refine us like gold!

I hope you have a lot of fun here and I hope you can learn from us. If my suspicions are correct, I think there's a lot we can learn from you too.

Pax Christi.
 

puntorojo

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My friend, the only reason we have not decided to go to church, is because I do not feel there is a righteous church in our area (Bible based), and due to complications we are unable to travel greater distances on the weekend. This is why we have church at home, but we do not neglect our need for Christian fellowship. For example, we often include Christian friends in our Bible studies, and we collaborate via the Internet with our old pastor from Virginia.

I know we need to attend church, however we do not want to be misled, like we have been many times.

I just cannot sit in a theater and watch a "man of God" instruct others on how to live, while providing minimal scriptural snippets.
 

Madad21

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Welcome brother Cody!!!

Brother can i just pick ya up on one small thing, where you said you felt God stop the blessing for a while.
Mate can I just say to you that it is actually quite the opposite, this is a time where blessings have increased, and I will explain why.

Brother take it from a Christian who still struggles to this very day with habitual sin, God does not stop blessings. We can sometimes hold back all that God has for us by our own actions, but God does not stop blessings as punishment or for any other reason.

The reason I say this Cody is because its not us who God blesses. every Christian is born again in to the image of Jesus Christ our Lord. God loves His Son so its His Son He blesses.

However we will go through trials, this is a time for maturing a time for placing your faith fully in God. For example I myself have times where I can be amazingly weak in my sin as a mature Christian, I find myself unable to walk upright because I am so ashamed of myself. So I continue to pray and cry out in my sin. Its during such times Christ is doing the walking for us, we are humbled each time by our predicaments as fallen people. even the most self righteous among us go through this experience several times in a life time. Only God is good and this is how we know it, because during times of great burden we can count on Jesus to get us through without condemnation. do you remember "There is now, no condemnation for those who trust in Jesus?" (Rom 8:1)
This is the Grace you speak of. There is nothing you can do Cody that will snatch you from Gods hands, but trials will continue to come and this is where blessings are increased through Christ who loves you and keeps you.

Blessings are increased in our time of weakness, and we grow in faith because of our weaknesses and Gods continues to forgive and bless our socks off.

Rebuke is a completely different matter and one we can get in to at a later time if you wish brother.

Much love to you and your family bro, awesome testimony heres the link to all ours we would love to add yours too it.http://www.christianityboard.com/topic/20294-whats-your-testimony/

Welcome!!
 

puntorojo

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This Vale Of Tears said:
That's what I meant by an imperfect church, Cody.

Pax Christi
All churches are imperfect. Many do not believe so. I choose to stay away from those churches, because I feel I am not wise enough to know every time I am being instructed falsely. I guess what I am saying is if I do not feel the Holy Spirit while at church, then I am there for self-righteousness. I find it very easy for myself to fall into self-righteousness. It is easy to go to church every Sunday, and be involved, and be viewed as a man of God, while still serving the devil. Because of my weakness, and mine own self-control issues, I believe for now it is best to study away from biased congregations.

- I do not question your logic on this, I just fail to see your reasoning behind it.


@Madad21

Thank you for your reply, it has given me a lot to think on. I believe you are correct, God has blessed me by his divine intervention. I was already saved at this point - so I believe he did not rebuke me, because he would not rebuke his own son.