I've struggled with this area of forgiveness. When all passages that speak of forgiveness, forgive and forgiven are brought together and divided accordingly a picture begins to emerge. In the Lord's prayer Yeshua said "And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors." OK fair enough. The question that came to mind was "How does God forgive us our sins?". Well, because we ASK for forgiveness. So in like manner, one who has transgressed against us cannot be forgiven their sins unless they asks for forgiveness. In Luke 17:3 it says: "Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke (correct) him; and if he repent, forgive him." This adds more to the equation, before they even asks for forgiveness, we must correct them. If they repent (ask for forgiveness) we are to forgive in return. We are to forgive them 70 x 7, meaning always if they ask. Notice who it is we are to forgive, our brethren. Who are our brethren? Those who do the will of God. I assume this to mean that forgiveness does not extend to those outside the church, but I may be wrong. I also noticed that everyone who came to Yeshua in faith he healed and forgave them. I would assume their faith was an act of admission of their sin and were seeking out Yeshua for forgiveness. There was the parable of the unjust steward who sought out forgiveness from the king. The king was moved with compassion and forgave him his debt. This forgiven steward, when asked for forgiveness by a fellow servant, would not grant him the same forgiveness that the king extended to him. Then the king handed him over to the tormentors. So the way I see it, at least for now, is we cannot forgive someone unless they asks and when they do we must forgive them. I saw you cited the passage about Yeshua when he said "forgive then Father, for they know not what they do." This passage from my understanding was not in any of the oldest manuscripts and was most likely added at some later point, probably to claim a false doctrine as being true. I personally believe this is the case, because it contradicts all the passages that say the transgressor must asks for forgiveness.