Okay, I am stumped. I have been speaking with this gentlemen for about 18 months. I mentioned this in passing on this board a little over a year ago.
He states he is open minded (and I truly believe him) but he cannot reconcile the "God is love thing" with the observations he has made.
These observations are not to "stir the pot" but genuine questions he has that I am simply unable to answer.
I am more than willing to accept that being unable to address these concerns it is a shortcoming in me, but I do not know how to refute the direct statements he is making.
It came to a head yesterday when I shared with someone: "Being a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable, because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you."
He saw it and, as he said, "finally had enough of this type of mentality."
He asked "How is your behavior 'inexcusable' if you do not know who God is? If god allowed you to be born this way, with this nature, why then can he criticize you for it? You are basically being told that you have to see forgiveness for being the person that you were born as."
He wrote me a 3-4 page email and what is listed below is roughly the last page and a half.
I simply do not know how to answer his statements.
I would appreciate any CONSTRUCTIVE input that anyone here may have.
Thank you.
[SIZE=medium]"Look, it all comes down to this; god knew EVEN AS HE CREATED THE EARTH and blew life into Adam that he and Eve were going to fail and that the result would be pain and suffering and damnation of billions of people over the coming millennia. God knew, even as he created the world that billions would be born destined for hell because they would never learn who he is. Billions. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]These are people that are brought into existence by his hand and doomed for all eternity because they didn’t know him. Yes many will actively reject him, but the vast, vast majority will simply never learn who he is or learn incorrectly who he is. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]So the question still stands: Why? Why would he do this knowing the result was going to be billions spending eternity in hell? [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]That means that BEFORE HE EVEN STARTED he knew that the death/lost/damnation toll would be in the billions. That he would be watching those that you tell me he loves with his whole heart be born already sealed for damnation. Man, that’s cold. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]It means that even as he was creating the earth he knew he was going to, in the very near future, be destroying 99.99% of all mankind in Noah’s flood. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]It means that as he was creating the earth he ALREADY KNEW that he would regret making man and his heart would be grieved (Genesis, chaper six, verse six) and thus he was going to wipe them off the face of the earth via flood. In the next verse he says he “regretted” even making man. So he created man in his image knowing even as he ‘blew the breath of life’ into them that he would later regret it and ultimately kill more than 99.9% of them. Are you serious?[/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]It also means that even as he created earth, he knew he would have to send his son to be tortured and die on the cross because Adam and Eve would fail. And again, he knew that his son’s death would still not prevent billions from dying and going to hell. Yes, I get the whole ‘free will’ thing, but if you don’t know what the truth is, you are still going to be punished for not accepting it. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]And who set these rules? Who decided that the death of god’s son would pay the price for all sin. Pay the price TO WHOM? Who holds that ticket? Don’t say god. God didn’t allow his son to be killed to pay a price to himself. And don’t say the devil. As god’s creation, god owes him no payments. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]Satan was god’s creation (albeit in a different form, I get that). So why does god allow him to do what he does? And yes, dammit, I do understand that he can’t have any impact that god doesn’t allow. But why is he in the mix at all? [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]And if you tell me again that it is because god ‘gave dominion’ of the earth to the devil one more time, we’re done talking. That means god knew that he was going to create two humans who, by their actions alone, were going to doom all mankind who are, through no choice of their own living in the devils ‘domain.’ [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]So if the bible is correct and god is who you say he is, it was a willful choice of god to create a world where he already knew AS HE WAS CREATING IT that the vast, vast majority of those he said he loved would be doomed to eternal damnation and a minority will love him and be with him in paradise. (The whole ‘wide is the path,’ ‘but narrow is the path’ thing, remember?)[/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]Look, I agree with you. There is a ‘creator.’ Even Einstein knew that and was disturbed by it. But I am in no way assured that this creator, based on what I know to be black and white facts about what he had to know was going to go horrible wrong even as he “separated the light from the darkness,” is benevolent except in select situations. Either that or he locked himself into rules which prevent him from being able to save everyone he ‘loves’ because his own rules prevent it. How exactly is that then ‘all powerful?’"[/SIZE]
He states he is open minded (and I truly believe him) but he cannot reconcile the "God is love thing" with the observations he has made.
These observations are not to "stir the pot" but genuine questions he has that I am simply unable to answer.
I am more than willing to accept that being unable to address these concerns it is a shortcoming in me, but I do not know how to refute the direct statements he is making.
It came to a head yesterday when I shared with someone: "Being a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable, because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you."
He saw it and, as he said, "finally had enough of this type of mentality."
He asked "How is your behavior 'inexcusable' if you do not know who God is? If god allowed you to be born this way, with this nature, why then can he criticize you for it? You are basically being told that you have to see forgiveness for being the person that you were born as."
He wrote me a 3-4 page email and what is listed below is roughly the last page and a half.
I simply do not know how to answer his statements.
I would appreciate any CONSTRUCTIVE input that anyone here may have.
Thank you.
[SIZE=medium]"Look, it all comes down to this; god knew EVEN AS HE CREATED THE EARTH and blew life into Adam that he and Eve were going to fail and that the result would be pain and suffering and damnation of billions of people over the coming millennia. God knew, even as he created the world that billions would be born destined for hell because they would never learn who he is. Billions. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]These are people that are brought into existence by his hand and doomed for all eternity because they didn’t know him. Yes many will actively reject him, but the vast, vast majority will simply never learn who he is or learn incorrectly who he is. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]So the question still stands: Why? Why would he do this knowing the result was going to be billions spending eternity in hell? [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]That means that BEFORE HE EVEN STARTED he knew that the death/lost/damnation toll would be in the billions. That he would be watching those that you tell me he loves with his whole heart be born already sealed for damnation. Man, that’s cold. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]It means that even as he was creating the earth he knew he was going to, in the very near future, be destroying 99.99% of all mankind in Noah’s flood. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]It means that as he was creating the earth he ALREADY KNEW that he would regret making man and his heart would be grieved (Genesis, chaper six, verse six) and thus he was going to wipe them off the face of the earth via flood. In the next verse he says he “regretted” even making man. So he created man in his image knowing even as he ‘blew the breath of life’ into them that he would later regret it and ultimately kill more than 99.9% of them. Are you serious?[/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]It also means that even as he created earth, he knew he would have to send his son to be tortured and die on the cross because Adam and Eve would fail. And again, he knew that his son’s death would still not prevent billions from dying and going to hell. Yes, I get the whole ‘free will’ thing, but if you don’t know what the truth is, you are still going to be punished for not accepting it. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]And who set these rules? Who decided that the death of god’s son would pay the price for all sin. Pay the price TO WHOM? Who holds that ticket? Don’t say god. God didn’t allow his son to be killed to pay a price to himself. And don’t say the devil. As god’s creation, god owes him no payments. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]Satan was god’s creation (albeit in a different form, I get that). So why does god allow him to do what he does? And yes, dammit, I do understand that he can’t have any impact that god doesn’t allow. But why is he in the mix at all? [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]And if you tell me again that it is because god ‘gave dominion’ of the earth to the devil one more time, we’re done talking. That means god knew that he was going to create two humans who, by their actions alone, were going to doom all mankind who are, through no choice of their own living in the devils ‘domain.’ [/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]So if the bible is correct and god is who you say he is, it was a willful choice of god to create a world where he already knew AS HE WAS CREATING IT that the vast, vast majority of those he said he loved would be doomed to eternal damnation and a minority will love him and be with him in paradise. (The whole ‘wide is the path,’ ‘but narrow is the path’ thing, remember?)[/SIZE]
[SIZE=medium]Look, I agree with you. There is a ‘creator.’ Even Einstein knew that and was disturbed by it. But I am in no way assured that this creator, based on what I know to be black and white facts about what he had to know was going to go horrible wrong even as he “separated the light from the darkness,” is benevolent except in select situations. Either that or he locked himself into rules which prevent him from being able to save everyone he ‘loves’ because his own rules prevent it. How exactly is that then ‘all powerful?’"[/SIZE]