MorningDance13
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No one who is a victim of an assault is to blame for what happened.
Why would her mother be angry at you and your daughter because she was molested?
How did she "fall" if she was molested?I believe that as well. I'll advise where appropriate, but will not force a position .....I was at a baseball practice when a kid came up and told me about my daughter. I never expected her to fall victim ....She had been sexually molested by a neighbor. I didn't expect her to ever fall. I supported her all the way through the trial. She knew I could be trusted. All her girlfriends were having sex .....she fell off the cliff. It just happened to be Daughter and Dad's night out. We went to eat where she chose to go. I asked "So what happened today?" "Nothing much." We could read each other like a book. "Who told you?" "Does that matter or does my approach matter?" "Your approach." "You realize, mom is going to throw things, yell and scream and beat her head against the wall? I'll take care of all that. She'll mad at us both."
'but now you have a dilemma to address. I would break things off with the bragging rights of the immature. I's the future you have to deal with now. Each boy you meet, somehow will see you as an easy mark. You have to address that and keep in mind ......your Father supports you ....send them to me ....."
No one who is a victim of an assault is to blame for what happened.
Why would her mother be angry at you and your daughter because she was molested?