Struggling to believe God has a spouse for me

[chrisscan87]

I am 27 years old and still single. I very rarely find a woman who is willing to give me a chance. When I do find one who gives me a chance, it never goes anywhere. It has been this way most of my life. I have only had a couple of relationships. I signed up for online dating two years ago because no girls in the outside world were giving me a chance. So far no real luck. I have only met 4 girls and it has gone nowhere every time. To describe myself, I am 27, work full-time at a gas station, getting my bachelor's in business, and live in a house with three friends. I am a little on the short side (5'9) and am rather scrawny. I work out three or four days a week. I only work at a gas station, but I am financially responsible. I pay my bills on time and I am not living paycheck to paycheck. I am funny, loyal, dependable, caring, smart, and attractive. All of those are good qualities. I know what it means to be a Godly husband. I know I can lead her and guide her if God ever brings her to me. The luck I have had in the past inclines me to believe that she is not out there. I know God calls some people to singleness and I am worried that could be me. I strongly desire a wife and family that I can one day love with all my heart and lead them spiritually.

 

[RANDOR]

Hold on there dude :)
God has a woman in the makin for ya....heck I didn't get married until I was 35 years of age. Dated plenty of women and actually knew my wife when she was a kid.
She is a God fearing woman...and if I stopped typing to you and went to check on her she would probably be praying. :)

Trust me....get off your timing :) God's timing is ALWAYS ON TIME....And maybe just maybe...he's making sure you can handle the woman He has planned for you. Wait it out.........she is coming off the assembly line ;)

 

[clark thompson]

IF the Lord does not have a wife for your He still is Lord and you need to trust His plan this is a lot easier than said. I am also 27 an do not think the Lord has a wife for me and would be surprised if He did, I have accepted that His plan may not involve me getting married.

 

[Arnie Manitoba]

I am 27 years old and still single. I very rarely find a woman who is willing to give me a chance. When I do find one who gives me a chance, it never goes anywhere. It has been this way most of my life. I have only had a couple of relationships. I signed up for online dating two years ago because no girls in the outside world were giving me a chance. So far no real luck. I have only met 4 girls and it has gone nowhere every time. To describe myself, I am 27, work full-time at a gas station, getting my bachelor's in business, and live in a house with three friends. I am a little on the short side (5'9) and am rather scrawny. I work out three or four days a week. I only work at a gas station, but I am financially responsible. I pay my bills on time and I am not living paycheck to paycheck. I am funny, loyal, dependable, caring, smart, and attractive. All of those are good qualities. I know what it means to be a Godly husband. I know I can lead her and guide her if God ever brings her to me. The luck I have had in the past inclines me to believe that she is not out there. I know God calls some people to singleness and I am worried that could be me. I strongly desire a wife and family that I can one day love with all my heart and lead them spiritually.

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Try looking at it this way ......

Somewhere out there is that perfect girl who has been looking and praying for someone just like you

You should pray that her prayers are answered

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Then hang around at a variety of christian functions in order for her to spot you in the crowd.

Best wishes
Arnie

 

[laid renard]

The few (and I mean few :lol:) relationships I have been in, always always always (did I mention always ?) occurred when I was least expecting it. In fact, when I wasn't even expecting it. Total surprise. I always had my mind busy on something else. Every time.

My advice to you : Pray for a wife. A Godly wife. But not too often. And don't dwell on it.

She WILL pop up.

Trust me. ;)

Ps

Make sure you're ready for her.....