We Need Wise Company

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hldude33

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“We Need Wise Company”
Proverbs 13:20 NLT
Walk with the wise and become wise; associate with fools and get into trouble.

I remember numerous times while growing up how my parents warned me about not hanging out with people who would influence me in wrong ways. As a kid, you often want to be accepted and noticed by others so badly and are willing to go to great lengths to be liked.

I am very grateful for my parent’s advice and guidance to help me through choosing good friends that would encourage me rather than get me into trouble. That didn’t always keep me from trying to make friends with people who were troublemakers, but I learned through the years that I needed to be wise in who I hung out with.

Wanting to be accepted and liked isn’t just for kids or teens, it’s for adults as well. We so often want to surround ourselves with people who will accept us and like us. There’s nothing at all wrong with wanting to be accepted and liked. Who wouldn’t want that, right?? However, we have to be very careful in what company we surround ourselves with. This proverb is very clear that if we walk with the wise and surround ourselves with wise people, then we ourselves will become wiser and learn great things. However, if we associate with fools who are troublemakers, we will be influenced and find ourselves falling into temptations to be troublemakers as well.

Just as our parents warned us to not get into trouble by hanging out with people of bad influence, God wants us to be wise in who we surround ourselves with. We definitely need to make choices to be around those people who will mentor, encourage and help us become better people. Through experiences and connections, we can learn better to surround ourselves with people who truly care about us and want us to become better people. We definitely don’t want to surround ourselves with people who just like us when we do want they want us to do.

Walk with the wise and become wiser, but walk with fools and we get into trouble. Trouble can bring some nasty consequences that could last a lifetime. But, walking with wise people will bring great experiences to last a lifetime.

We all need wise company. Question is do we seek wise company out?
 

Dropship

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..We all need wise company. Question is do we seek wise company out?

You're already among wise company in this Christian forum..:)
However there are some supposedly "christian" forums out there that are real stinkers, i've lost count of the number i've walked out of over the years.
“Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for ‘tis better to be alone than in bad company.”
― George Washington
 
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Thanks for the video. I think it was TobyMac who said, "You are the people you hang around."

I took this to heart and prayed for Godly friends and have recieved them in spades. It's often pride that says we can influence people with bad character by being their close friends when the Lord says come out from among them and be ye separate. Sure, we can witness to the lost but our source of fellowship should be likeminded believers and wise ones at that.
 

farouk

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Thanks for the video. I think it was TobyMac who said, "You are the people you hang around."

I took this to heart and prayed for Godly friends and have recieved them in spades. It's often pride that says we can influence people with bad character by being their close friends when the Lord says come out from among them and be ye separate. Sure, we can witness to the lost but our source of fellowship should be likeminded believers and wise ones at that.
@Wynona Part of the message of Acts 2.42, really: the collective activities of Christians.