Meaning is typically driven by preconception.
We see what we are looking for.
I heartily disagree with you on this point. Some are that way, yes. And there are many who have taken up the mantle to teach, who are not gifted from the Holy Spirit to do so.
I think it's the wrong question to ask, what doctrines can we ignore for the sake of camaraderie, but how can we all attain to unity in both our faith and our knowledge of the Son of God?
I fully believe the Bible says a certain thing. And while God has His marvelous way of using this part and that part, fully apart from any context, or fully within it, to speak personally to our hearts, I hope we all have that testimony, even still, the Bible says a certain thing, gives us a certain message.
The same thing applies, I think, in our pursuit of unity of the faith AND knowledge, as towards our service to each other. And really I think these are one and the same.
Ephesians 4:1-3 KJV
1) I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called,
2) With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;
3) Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
And then He goes right on to say there is one faith, one baptism, and so on, One. I think this passage above should be all of our daily meditation if we aspire towards serving others. Not just tossing out stuff from ourselves,
I'll show you how stupid you are to think that way with all my superior knowledge, but to truly provide spiritual nourishment, a grace from God that is able to be received with thanksgiving.
If we don't have lowliness and meekness (power under control), with longsuffering and forebearance, well, the forum abounds in examples of this.
I think we can with humility and meekness point to the truth we believe, being patient with all, forgiving any offenses, showing our love for each other by trying to give to others a gift, and that a gift from God Himself.
Love covers a multitude of sins. If we have true Christian love for each other, and we treat each other according to the Scriptures, we will see the love I have for you, and I will see the love you have for me. And in that context, our differences over interpretations don't divide us, we are united in His Spirit, in His love.
Much love!