Trying to get rid of a spirit spouse, but don't know how I'm supposed to fast.

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I think I have a spirit spouse attached to me as I'm having s*xual dreams despite not being that way in real life. I know I need to fast. The problem is I have to eat with my meds in the morning or I get sick. I might have to eat at night as well because I take them then too. Does anyone know how to get rid of these types of spirits? I'm really bad at coming up with prayers. I keep getting signs and thinking that this spirit is talking to me in waking life or i'm just crazy idk.
 

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Why are you referring to this entity as a "spirit spouse"? I've never heard of such, and you cannot have a spouse that you didn't marry. Is there any occult involvement in your history, or your family's history?
 

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Why are you referring to this entity as a "spirit spouse"? I've never heard of such, and you cannot have a spouse that you didn't marry. Is there any occult involvement in your history, or your family's history?
I remember being into new age and watching tarot readings. Trying to do thos readings on my own as well, but I don't ever remember having a dream about getting married so I might be wrong about this.
 
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I remember being into new age and watching tarot readings. Trying to do thos readings on my own as well, but I don't ever remember having a dream about getting married so I might be wrong about this.
Have you repented of the occult involvement, and gotten rid of all things related to the occult from your home?

Is there anything related to the occult in your family history? Would you ask the Lord if there's anything that you need to know about what's given the open door to being spiritually attacked?
 

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@Destroyevil98, I have heard of a spirit spouse, but it is really a succubus spirit. This may not be what this is, so you need to spend time with the Lord to ask him what this may be. Sometimes the enemy can get in your dreams, and it could quite possibly be a spirit of seduction, which can be cast out in Jesus' name. Without knowing your full story, it's difficult to know where this entity has come in or why it is harrassing you. This might mean you have some door open in your life somewhere. Have you been saved, brother?
 

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Why are you referring to this entity as a "spirit spouse"? I've never heard of such, and you cannot have a spouse that you didn't marry. Is there any occult involvement in your history, or your family's history?
There is something some do not realize . New age has infiltrated christendome.
Rituals of new age can be seen all over the place . Walks often called Emmaus , in the pratice and method
of worship , even prayer , in circle makers , destiny cards
Seances , focusing prayer , centering prayer , and meditation . ITs just been christianized sister .
ONLY TRUTH does save . And many have rejected The bringer of and giver of THE TRUTH , WHO IS THE TRUTH
and all in favor of , another jesus .
 
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That's what I've heard it called.
oh there be a sucubus at work all right . And all on that interfaith ecumeincal inclusive bus
IS GONNA SUCK them all down to perdition . It a black hole sister from whence there be NO LIGHT at all .
Remember no being unequally yoked together with unbelivers PEROID . that be a train ride to fall right there .
A harlot can seduce and will do so by means of her love . And a harlot WILL LIE SISTER and can surely
claim SHE IS NO WIDOW , that GOD INDEED is her FATHER and HER HUSBAND
but her father is none other than satan . Just a reminder for us all . Just a dire necessary one .
 

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Have you repented of the occult involvement, and gotten rid of all things related to the occult from your home?

Is there anything related to the occult in your family history? Would you ask the Lord if there's anything that you need to know about what's given the open door to being spiritually attacked?
This is a good idea. I have stopped tarot readings at that point in time. Kind of went back to them recently.
 
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@Destroyevil98, I have heard of a spirit spouse, but it is really a succubus spirit. This may not be what this is, so you need to spend time with the Lord to ask him what this may be. Sometimes the enemy can get in your dreams, and it could quite possibly be a spirit of seduction, which can be cast out in Jesus' name. Without knowing your full story, it's difficult to know where this entity has come in or why it is harrassing you. This might mean you have some door open in your life somewhere. Have you been saved, brother?
I have asked god to come into my heart, but have been going back to my old ways recently and my life seems to be falling apart again. I stopped tarot and started watching it again recently. I do know I was watching paranormal videos though.
 

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I have asked god to come into my heart, but have been going back to my old ways recently and my life seems to be falling apart again. I stopped tarot and started watching it again recently. I do know I was watching paranormal videos though.
When you focus on and build your relationship with Jesus Christ, the desires for the darkness will fall off. You'll find yourself looking forward to your times of fellowship with God. You need to KNOW Him ...experience Him ....taste, and see.

Psalm 34:8
“O taste and see that the LORD is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him.”
 

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I think I have a spirit spouse attached to me as I'm having s*xual dreams despite not being that way in real life. I know I need to fast. The problem is I have to eat with my meds in the morning or I get sick. I might have to eat at night as well because I take them then too. Does anyone know how to get rid of these types of spirits? I'm really bad at coming up with prayers. I keep getting signs and thinking that this spirit is talking to me in waking life or i'm just crazy idk.
I remember this isn’t the first time you have dealt with the occult; it was in April.
I posted a powerful deliverance prayer led by Derek Prince. Did you pray it?
In any event, I suggest you renounce everything concerning your involvement with the occult.
Find a Full Gospel church that believes in healing and deliverance, attend regularly, get prayed over, and have follow up counseling.
Seems to me you‘re still playing around with something that is not a game.
Get serious face to face help. IMO, you need it, ASAP.
 

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I think I have a spirit spouse attached to me as I'm having s*xual dreams despite not being that way in real life. I know I need to fast. The problem is I have to eat with my meds in the morning or I get sick. I might have to eat at night as well because I take them then too. Does anyone know how to get rid of these types of spirits? I'm really bad at coming up with prayers. I keep getting signs and thinking that this spirit is talking to me in waking life or i'm just crazy idk.
Are your "meds" psychotrophic? If yes, how long have you been on them?
Your 'info' says you are female. Are the dreams hetero or homo sexual partners?
 

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@Hillsage, I am disappointed in your reply. Just because you have not been involved in counseling and deliverance, it does not mean that these issues that members struggle with are not real. I am sorry you have to feel better by attacking others personally. I always thought you were a man of God who moves in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Unfortunately, that may not be the case.
 

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@Hillsage, I am disappointed in your reply. Just because you have not been involved in counseling and deliverance, it does not mean that these issues that members struggle with are not real. I am sorry you have to feel better by attacking others personally. I always thought you were a man of God who moves in the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Unfortunately, that may not be the case.
I felt like asking those questions for medical as well as spiritual reasons. I noticed @TLHKAJ mentioned hearing of a "spouse spirit". I had not. But I have heard of the Sucubus/Sucubi spirit she also mentioned. But I have also heard of a Incubus/Incubi spirit, which no one else has mentioned.

I am of the understanding that the Sucubus/Sucubi spirit is a 'feminine' natured spirit, and the Incubus/Incubi are 'masculine'. And if @Destroyevil98 is truly female then a homosexual experience in the dream is well worth knowing for the correct name of the spirit being dealt with IMO. If she did not have a homosexual dream I would lean toward dealing with an Incubus/Incubi name.

Hopefullly this explanation helps you understand my question better. @Angelina
 

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The succubus spirit is indeed a female spirit, which makes me believe that he is a male being spiritually attacked by a female spirit. It may be just that demons have entered, i.e., lust, deception, etc., but it is hard to tell. I asked that he ask the Lord if he would like me to talk with him and perhaps he would like deliverance, and he is thinking this over. If he does, I would like you to join me as I do not like dealing with these kinds of demonic forces without having a male college for accountability and support in dealing with it. It would be different if this were a female, but my observation was that he was male?
 
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I have asked god to come into my heart, but have been going back to my old ways recently and my life seems to be falling apart again. I stopped tarot and started watching it again recently. I do know I was watching paranormal videos though.
You need to repent and renounce all involvement with the occult. Get rid of tarot cards, sorcery books, and everything related to the paranormal, including demonic music and videos. Stay away from people who are into darkness and evil practices.

Trust in the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross for your sins. Confess Jesus as your Lord and Master. Believe God the Father raised Christ from the dead. Receive the Holy Spirit in the new birth.

Listen to sermons on Christian radio and YouTube. Charles Stanley, Chuck Swindoll, Erwin Lutzer, David Jeremiah are recommended. Audio books on prayer on YouTube would help you.

Read your Bible often. Focus on the gospel of John. Pray constantly.
 
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