Exactly. God's will is different than our own. And what is the difference? He has free will. We do not.
Our will does not necessarily mean 'want'. It can, but it doesn't always. Let's say someone kidnaps you and your two children. They decide to kill one of your children. They make you choose which one. If you don't choose in 10 seconds, they will kill both. What is your will? It is not a question of 'want'. It is a question of being in position beyond your control and things bear upon your will and force you to come to a decision. Just because you have a will doesn't mean it is free. God is never in that situation. His will is free. Nothing bears upon His will. Nothing forces His will in any way.
Just because we can choose doesn't mean our will is free. It means we have a will. Of course we have a will, and God expects us to use that will. (2 Thess. 2:13) But because it is affected by outside forces, then our will is not free.
You say if we do not have free will then God has created a stage that He controls. Well, doesn't He? Do you believe God is not in control of the stage? (Rom. 9:20-22) "Nay but,O man,who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour? What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction: And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory."
The wrath of God against the vessels of dishonour bring glory to God just as the mercy of God towards the vessels of honour bring glory to Him.
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