Some on here think they need to try to get God off the hook for his electing grace given to whose whom he chose by trying to blame it on man not doing something: choosing.
Read 1 Corinthians 1:26-31 slow, and carefully, for days if you need to. Months even. Nothing in there about you choosing. Read Matthew 11:25-30. Read it and weep. Nothing in there about God revealing himself to everyone, or the Son doing so either. But it does show he does this to whom he wills, THEN he calls them to take his yoke upon them, and ONLY them.
This trying to say you had nothing to do with salvation is contrary to what you actually teach. Sorry, that's a logical fallacy and a false dichotomy. You didn't choose God (if you're converted). He chose you.
God isn't on any hook for saving and choosing to save any whom he wills, and it isn't every single person ever that he wills to save. If it were, all would then be saved.
Instead of doing this trick to get God off the hook in your own minds because you deem this and HIM unfair, you all ought to open your Bibles and tremble before God for this fact.
He can, and does, exercise justice on whom he wills at his will. He exercises mercy on whom he wills, at his will and purpose.
NO ONE chooses themselves into heaven by their will or determination. Stop robbing God of his glory and trying to domesticate him, and get him off some proverbial hook because you think it, and he has to be "fair" in your own mind.