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SwampFox:Thank you again. I think I need to distance myself for a little while. While I am strong in my own beliefs, her constant whining really takes a toll on my health. Coupled with the fact that she keeps asking me to go with her to this Church, I wonder why anyone would want another person...

SwampFox:Thank you. Do you have any specific suggestions for how I should continue my friendship with her? After listening patiently for 5 hours nonstop, sometimes I want to strangle her for being such a whine, especially when I feel she has a choice. I dont know if I should just distance...

I dont think I should be naming names. Its a cultural/race Church where everyone is of the same race (and not Caucasian). I have my own opinions about this, but I feel since Im not "Christian" she doesnt listen to me. My gut feeling though is that Church isnt supposed to hurt, its a place to...

Dear Friends,Im hoping that you may give me some guidance in a situation with a friend of mine. To start off, I am a non-Christian, who has a really close family friend who is Christian. She constantly tells me how people at her Church hurt her and make her feel very badly about herself, but she...