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@Ritajanice I'm convinced arguing can worsen our spirits. In 1 Cor, I read that strife is a work of the flesh that can keep us from inheriting the Kingdom of God. 2 Timothy 2:24 King James Version 24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach...

I knew I wanted a masculine man before I got married. But in order to get that, I had to learn to be feminine. Life is full of trade offs. I had to give up insisting on my way in the marriage for my husband to lose his timidity and gain confidence in himself as a man.

No worries. Thank you so much @Ritajanice !

Less of me, more Christ

A husband is a covering. That's what my husband does for me. Specifically, he takes on the financial pressure and faces issues outside the home while I stay preserved and soft as a homemaker. I used to work and do a lot of things that competed with my husband. Back then, I wanted my husband...

Not feeling the need to argue anymore or wanting to. I think Ive learned all Im going to learn from the ones opposing me.

I think people realize already that feminism is a broken ideology. I really believe many are wishing to suppress truth, not that they don't know it. There's also lot of incentive to avoid reality, since people have sunk so many years into believing the feminist mythology.

Im illustrating my point with from my marriage. Its more than youve done to defend your point of view. Saying "not all x" is just a deflection to undermine what Im saying.

I said they tried, not that they succeeded

Nothing wrong with an example. Why not defend your view of marriage? An example in my marriage does more than what you are doing.

This is how we used to run our marriage. I expected my husband to help with the chores. I was expected to help with the bills since we were both working. A. This caused us to argue about chores and finances because we disagreed on how both should be run. B. We each were less efficient when...

I have a college Associates degree and a work history. I really gave myself a hard time years ago for not finishing my bachelors. But education was an idol for my family and I. The university environment was not good for me at all. Why was I going in the first place? Because I was taught...

I never said it's unbiblical for a woman to work. Ruth worked in the field. She was providing for herself and her mother in law. If a husband needs his wife to work, she should work. I did quote Titus 2:4-5 calling wives to be keepers at home. Feminism says women can have all their...

How has men helping their wives with careers helped marriage improve? Are marriages lasting longer than in the past? Are husbands and wives happier as a whole? Yes. For reasons Ive already explained.

This sounds great on paper but in reality, there are limits to each person's time, energy, and resources. Marriage takes a lot of work and the things I said were my dreams were definitely making my husband take a back seat. We've normalized a two person partnership but the divorce rate has...

Feminism used to feed into my selfishness and hypocrisy. Selfishness --- I thought it made perfect sense for my husband to support my "dreams" of education and going into the Internet Tech field even if I had no plans to support him with the income and these plans did not benefit the marriage...

Feminism is not just unbiblical, it's stupid. Submit to a husband who loves you? Oh no! Submit to a boss who doesn't care about you? You go, queen.

To be trusted in a marriage, you have to display trustworthiness. Women today are not taught how to display this in a marriage. Today, its all about women and what they want, not becoming one flesh. The Bible calls wives to submit because actions speak louder than words when it comes to being...

I don't need a village. I don't need more stuff. I don't need more me time. I don't need more hobby time. God has given me so many blessings including His precious Son. Contentment with Godliness is more than enough. True fulfillment comes from serving others and forgetting about yourself...