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Way to take what I said and completely misconstrue it. Oh and why don’t you address my posts to me and not come at it through another person’s post.

I think we’re arguing semantics at this point. I am not saying only. I am using typically as a most of the time. I have said twice that there are crossovers and overlaps. I agree there are men that can do it as well. I may be one of them soon. My ex-wife’s health is deteriorating and she is...

I have my faults and I am flawed, but for my flaws, my fiance loves me and wants to do life together, alongside each other, and never alone, neither one in front of the other. Her favorite saying to me is, we got this! I have found me a good one and that it has to be God’s hand alone that I did!

I did say there are overlaps and crossovers. I never discounted it, but typically, it is the woman who keeps families together.

As a man, I can somewhat agree with that. As a man, I can honestly say that women have strength in many things that I don’t. Typically, women are the ones that can keep a family together as an example. There are overlaps and crossovers. I’m not saying that there isn’t, but I can somewhat agree...

We don’t have a contentious spirit, not in the least. Just because we don’t agree with you, doesn’t make us contentious. We just disagree with you. I am not a feminist. I didn’t even know what it was till I joined Christian forums. I have always been how I have described. I have never changed...

Which is my exact plan, which includes married couples here. You do marriage your way and I will do it mine. I have no issues with that and believe I have said as much throughout this thread.

Yes, and so want to please my future wife more than myself and her me, but she doesn’t need to submit to me for me to feel pleased. That was my opinion. Which can be done without the woman submitting. Again, my opinion based of the thinking that only a woman has to submit.

Obeying God is not childish. I’m not God. I am an adult flawed man. I agree. I have her best interests at heart and she mine. I wouldn’t marry her if she didn’t. Marriage is give and take, by both spouses and it isn’t one-sided. Which is fine, but I don’t have to have final say to be shown...

And that’s fine. I have no issues with that, if that is how you want your marriage to be. I happen to disagree with the interpretation that the woman has to submit and the man doesn’t. I am also not someone that needs submission from my wife. She’s a grown adult woman. If I have to have a woman...

That’s pretty much how my marriage with my fiance will be, but she will not need to submit to me and can consult me about serious choices, but I will not have final say. I trust her to make the decision. If it is wrong, it is wrong. We’ll deal with it and move forward. I won’t make right choices...

Per usual, you have missed the point. No one is denying that poor choices or wrong choices cannot make them unhappy. Men and women are subject to that. To me, what you have implied is that women cannot make choices all together and that men should make all their choices for them.

That goes for men as well.

Exactly!

She’s not agreeing with feminism, but it’s telling that you agree with what essentially amounts to wanting to take choices away from women. You and others like you are why there is feminism! I’m not a feminist, but I believe that women should be equally considered and should have the same...

I can make a video and show that God makes women unhappy, it doesn’t make it real. You have a habit of taking these videos and expanding them to all women that don’t fit your ideal of a woman. Taking choices away from women puts them at the mercy of men. They have their own wants, needs and...

That is our wish too for our marriage.

Seems reasonable and not a feminist way of doing things.

If you asked that before, I didn’t see the question. That is essentially what you seem to be pushing. Everyone should do marriage the way you say it should be done and that is what I call a cookie cutter marriage, every marriage is the same. If that is not what you’re saying, l apologize.

And you would be sorely mistaken to think that men don't have pride or ego. It is not a one-gender issue.