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The problem is that this world is so cruel and sadistic that there are things I simply can't risk. Marriage is a very serious decision that will completely change my own life, as I basically lose my individuality and give up myself to another person. I give another person access to my money...

Not necessarily. Some are simply afraid of losing the security they are provided at home. If a woman has been raised to be very attached to her family, there's a good chance that she may feel hesitant to explore the outer world.

If you had read enough through the Gospels you would have realized than even Jesus himself felt awkwardness at times and had introverted tendencies: Mark 3:7-9 7 And Jesus with his disciples withdrew to the sea: and a great multitude from Galilee followed; and from Judaea, 8 and from...

Not even that. I don't bother meeting them, because all the ones I see in my around fail to meet not some but the VAST majority of my expectations. Beginning with religion. Quite the opposite, the closer you get to God, the less attractive you become to society. And the more wicked and Godless...

Move WHERE? To the remotest village in Lapland? Everything that I see from people in my around. And if anything, my "estimation" is more on the optimistic side, as I don't actually know anyone in real life who deviates from that 99% (aside from my family lol, some don't even have that). It...

Nah, I mean the ones I know in real life.

Very true. It's the NWO what has brought feminism, marxism and all the kind of things that are destroying our world and turning it into a softcore hell.

And where are all those people with strong morals, kindness, compassion, empathy, fairness and forgiveness you talk about? Maybe they are isolated in their homes avoiding this evil wicked society? So you are saying the Bible is unfair. Wow.

Accept what people? The ones that want to bring me into hell with them? And sure I will be patient. I'm not in a rush to get married. There's anyway a big chance that I will die without having ever had the experience of a date, as nobody here seems to be anything close to either my standards or...

From what I can see, most people here are hideous in both the outside and the inside.

And haven't you considered that your introversion and lack of social skills may be a blessing from God intended to save you from the deadly pain of being surrounded by wicked bullies who are constantly tempting and leading you astray from God, and to let you focus and develop a deeper faith in Him?

Talk what you want, but this is all I can see in my around. Depravity, zero moral values, and hate towards anything that makes them "feel bad". I just noticed that most commenters here come from way older generations. So maybe you just aren't that aware of the generations that have come, and...

The problem is that pretty much everyone is so lost that they will simply not listen anything different from what the society tells them.

I understand all of what you say about having godly friends aside from a spouse, but the reality (or if you prefer me to put it this way, my reality) is much more complicated than that. Where I live godly people are extremely scarce and difficult to find, even in church. I estimate that right...

Why?

Then I guess they have double standards on how can they and the man talk about another woman. And anyways, I don't know why do you think that I think so little of women. I was just describing what I had seen in my around.

Quite of an ironic question considering that (most) women hate each other even more than men...

I think rather than just "opposites attract" the catchphrase should be "opposites attract until the honeymoon". And, there's also the saying that "birds of the same feather flock together". It's already several of you who have repeated this, but then again. God DOESN'T pick the spouse we will...

Just asking. What kind of man is an absolute beginner in relationships like myself in front of a woman already with 3 stable lifetime sex partners, plus the many more casual ones? Seriously do you hope that a relationship like this may end any well?

It's a good story of yours. Happy for your anniversary. The problem is that I know of more stories that have ended up the opposite way. Infidelities, illegitimate children, divorces, financial oppression etc, regardless of whether Christian or not. Women are especially shallow as they gain...