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So if the husband actually leaves his wife, over and over ....into the hands of abusers ....would you see this as a man leaving his wife?

I hear what you're saying. Oftentimes, she still loves him and shooting him isn't in her heart and it may be an even worse grief to take his life. The reason I pose these questions is because I know women (like myself) who are survivors of SRA/MK whose marriages were set up and arranged by...

Do you have scripture for her right to move out? I happen to agree, but where is it in scripture? Let me ask you this. What is a man's abuse of his wife involves forcefully prostituting her (against her will)? Or rape ....as in unwanted sex in the presence of another person? Does that fall...

So, as she is still married to an abuser, what do you suggest she should do?

I'm glad you said this, because you were sounding like a man who condones beating his wife and that she should submit to his "harshness" and endure it .... Where does scripture say that spousal abuse ends a marriage relationship, please?

That same "likewise" is applied to husbands. What is your obsession with only pointing out what wives are to do in a marriage and not the husband's obligation? lol 1 Peter 3:6-8 [6]Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid...

He (Paul) gave direct reference to Sarah and Abraham.

Honestly, any man with such poor views of women with a need to suppress and control them, is very insecure and should get some healing and guidance from the Lord before he gets a wife. Otherwise, things will go south quickly.

I have no problem with it as long as it is placed within God's intended context. A man who loves his wife as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself for it is not going to be beating his wife for talking or for accidentally burning the toast. Edit... we also never read of Abraham being brutal...

I added an edit to my previous post....

I believe we need to look at Christ and the Church to see an accurate picture. He loves the Church so much that He gave is life for her. That's a great love ....the greatest of all. And if we love Him, we will keep His commandments. When we look at the scripture that says, "God is love" ...

I have no idea what you're trying to say or what your question is.

A woman shouldn't be fearful. That indicates unhealthy familial attachments. It's proven that when an infant has strong healthy attachments to their parents, they grow into less afraid and more stable adults. They have an emotional and (hopefully) spiritual footing and a foundation that has been...

A woman who is afraid/fearful of strangers and introvert ....sounds like a woman with a traumatic past.

Thank you, sister❤️

I appreciate so much, brother.

I don't post publicly about my daily life very often, but this has been ongoing and it doesn't just affect me, it affects my elderly neighbors. My family moved into our current home 4 years ago. We are purchasing. We have had neighbor issues pretty much from the get go... from nosy neighbors...

Are you able to see the game they've played, sis? They have taken every opportunity to press you down. If your mother kills herself, it's her own fault. How any parent can blame a child is beyond me. They're the parent. If something goes wrong it's on the parents. But this too is more mind game...

What you're saying makes perfect sense to me. And sad to say, these dynamics within your family were orchestrated and planned. Your parents would have handlers who dictate to them how each child should be treated (abused). The purpose is to build a wedge between you and other family members...

Thank you, @Mayflower. In my beginning years, I had a really well-trained and God sent TPM (theophostic prayer minister). She was diligent to study and learn and was very God-led. She did eventually succumb to cult pressure and tactics. She came under severe attack and then became weary. We did...