I have given this issue a little thought...
Fantastic post. Thanks for your thoughtful and detailed explanation. I hope my response doesn't anger you. But, I suppose that's godly behavior. (in the common view) We call it righteous indignation.
The problem we have in classifying God - is that He is Holy 'other'
Granted... However, he did create us in his image, his likeness. We are his children, he is Father God. While he is, as you say: "He is Holy 'other'", we are much like him.
It seems to me that this idea that "his ways are above knowing" is used to white-wash some very bad doctrine. IMHO
We cant expect Him to align with human morality - vengence is mine is a good example - it is OK for Him to have it but not us.
The anger of man will not accomplish the purposes of God but the anger of God will...
I go the opposite direction on this one. Interesting how a preconception reverses the conclusion. It is assumed that God is vengeful when we read "vengeance is mine, I will repay." But if revenge is a sin, is it not also a sin for God? Does God have carte blanche to misbehave in ways we are not allowed to? What then is godly behavior? Wouldn't we be demonstrating godly behavior to take revenge? (nope)
I think to assume that God operates under a lower standard of morality than he hold us to is the wrong compass on the matter.
Jesus taught us to love our enemies because this is godly behavior. What then will God do with his enemies?
Matthew 5:44, 48 NIV
44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, ...
48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
And the whole idea of Holiness is woefully understood.
I'm guessing you meant woefully MISunderstood?
An encounter with His Holiness renders one prostrate and mute.
We are light years away from His perfect view of matters.
We know that when Jesus returns in Glory folks will shrink away and hide in caves to avoid His gaze.
He lives in inapproachable light. But does this mean he is made of blazing fury? Why is so angry with the way he created us? Are we really to blame for that? Reminds me of a bumper sticker I saw.
JESUS IS COMING
And is he ever angry!
I am not inclined to believe in an imperfect God, so His Actions must be accepted regardless of our assessment of acceptability.
To be fair I have encountered His Holy presence more than once so I am biased - we are so privileged to know anything about Him.
There it is again. The carte blanche latitude that we give God. He can do no wrong. Genocide for the Canaanites? No problem. Non-Christians burning in hell forever? Who cares? Just be glad it's not you.
Therefore, all the bad things the church says that he will do... who will be able stop him? Best to just roll with the punches.
Sinfulness and Holiness don't mix - reject Him and He seals your choice - thereafter. He is the potter and we are the clay - we deserve zero - but He wanted to fellowship with some of the people He had made and Jesus came to make that possible - the Gift - the invitation to co-habit in Holiness - we are so so blessed. Be thankful and honour the One on the throne - most of your questions will evaporate - so chill....
If "Sinfulness and Holiness don't mix" how could anyone meet him, or have fellowship? Didn't Satan talk to God in the book of Job?
How come "we deserve zero"? (or worse) Are we not his children. Does God make broken pottery? Or some to be on a vase on a pedestal and others to be a toilet? That's quite a view. If I am understanding you. (hopefully not)
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