Vale said:
Well, I disagree that we can't really know for sure. The passage I quoted above (Eph 1:3-14) tells us outright that God is for his own glory....that "he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace".
That "In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will, so that we who were the first to hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory.
And finally: "when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory."
That's three times Paul says it in one passage. So I think that perhaps the correct response is more: we can never know the full extent of God's plans and purposes, but we can know what he chooses to tell us. And what I read in Ephesians 1 is that God predestined us before he even created us...chose to bring us to salvation to showcase his glory, and to recieve just praise for his grace.
This is a good point and a very important one to discuss. I think too many people cannot distinguish between the idea of 'free will'...or lack there of...and having no will, personality, drive or purpose at all. For all intents and purpose, being mechanical and our thoughts and actions having no bearing on ourselves, others, or history and life in general.
Clearly this is not the case. Our actions do have consequences, we do have choices...millions of them. But does that necessarily mean that our status of elect or not, was chosen solely by our own will? You've already pointed out that we, by ourselves, cannot seek God out, and the bible confirms that.
So what are we to make of the seeming contradictions? Well....I don't believe they are. Firstly, we must trust in what scripture says: that man is fallen and cannot even seek, let alone find God by himself. We must trust in scripture when it tells us that God 'predestined' us...'chose us'....'adopted us'. HE did that, not us.
But as far as our choices....we can see...daily...that within this earthly realm, and amongst those of flesh and blood, we indeed have free will and choices. Should we choose poorly...sinfully...then it results in pain, confusion and heartbreak. When we daily take up our cross and choose guided by the Spirit...that voice within guiding us towards making the correct choice in the circumstances, then we find edification, unity and praise.
So you see, I do not believe it is, or scripture calls it to be, an either/or situation. God predestined us for salvation, but we daily make choices that see cause and effect happening in our lives.....
I'm sorry, but I honestly can't see how you can think that! I'm shaking my head in wonderment! You're right...clearly we see things differently! For me, OSAS isn't any of the things you just said above. I'm not feeling like you're attacking me, by the way; you're just describing it like you see it, as I am.
Sometimes I wonder....I wonder if perhaps God has deliberately spoken to people differently. Clearly people are all different...not only are their life experiences different, but we have different ways of thinking (I have two autistic people in my family...trust me, they think differently! Wonderfully, but differently!). Does God choose to speak to us in ways that will touch and move us best? Is that why when someone sees something being said so clearly in scripture...others cannot see it? Maybe, maybe not....maybe God is only after the honest seeking that goes on in such conversations. I don't know. What I do know is that you seem to genuinely love God, as do I...and as we touched on some posts back....he is indeed both author and perfector of our faith, so I know we will both continue to grow and learn as he would lead us.
Thanks for the honest chat!