Good post, Wynona! Having been homeless before AND having panhandled before, I can tell ya...for MOST, everything DOES help!I was disgusted with my own self because in the past I did this whole song and dance before considering helping someone I saw who God was clearly showing needed help.
You know how it goes...
Are they really homeless? Will they use the money for drugs? Are they taking advantage?
Unless you are feeling distincty unsafe, there should be no excuse. Jesus said give to those who ask. Go encourage that person, buy them a meal, or give them money if you don't have time.
Even if they're taking advantage somehow---thats on them. Chances are you are still in a better situation then they are. You do the right thing and display true biblical love. Biblical love does practical things to help those in need or it is not love.
Go ahead and get it done. Don't hide your eyes. You may impact their life and faith with your kindness.
Don't act like tithing and giving to some faceless charity takes away your perogative to give to your neighbors and those you come across that are in need either. You are right there in front of them. You do it.
Thing is, that many panhandlers panhandle for other things besides food. Not talking about drugs and/or alcohol. Bus fare...shoes...OTC products (Advil, etc.)...money to make copies of their resume, or to get a library card, so they have access to a computer to look for work...a cell phone charger, because theirs was stolen... Plus, all panhandlers aren't necessarily 'homeless'. They may even work, but they run short toward the end of the month, because whatever source of income they may receive isn't enough to cover EVERYTHING.
Every homeless person/poor person's situation is different. MOST aren't on drugs/alcoholics/scammers. Most don't want to be on the streets, begging for money.
I think someone mentioned upthread, that if we give money, we should let go of the outcome. Don't worry about what they may use it for. Simply give, and say a prayer that they use it for the right reasons. It's really between them and God, and YOU and God. Not you AND them AND God. YOU did your part. God isn't going to fault YOU if they use it for drugs, etc.