. My husband and i are both christians. Have been together for 18 years and married for 15 years .
I have numerous medical conditions which have caused me to gain alot of weight (CHF) being one.
My husband has not been intimate with me in about 8 YEARS!!
i used to work 40+ hours a week up until last 4 years so before did not have time to notice how distant this marriage was.
Now...i am on social security disability and have plenty of time to see a whole lot more.
I have talked to him about this and his comment...was...YOU...ARE. TOO BIG!
mY husband also has a issue with alcohol and dud say those words drinking.
To my specific....MAJOR PROBLEM...
FOR past YEAR...I cant sleep in bed becuz i would hear him rubbing himself and it made me sick. If i would come onto him he always did and does push me away.
I now sleep in a recliner...10-15 feet from a bedroom dooor where NOW...EVERY MORNING AND SOME NIGHTS I HAVE TO LISTEN TO THIS SROKUNG, HEAVY BREATHING AND MOANING!!!
makes me FURIOUS...I HAVE APPROACHED HIM ON THIS AND HE DENIES...ALL THIS..EVEN PUT HIS HAND ON BIBLE SWEARING IT IS NOT TRUE. AND STATES IT IS THE ADVERSARY PLAYING WITH MY MIND!!!
but wadded up tissue and hidden lotion bottles are not my imagination!!!
i have even suggested counseling...again...his response..
I DONT NEED HELP ...YOU DO !!
i Know God HATES divorce....BUT...
I CANT LIVE WITH THESE CONTINUAL SICK LIES!!!!
PLEASE....HELP!!!!
I have numerous medical conditions which have caused me to gain alot of weight (CHF) being one.
My husband has not been intimate with me in about 8 YEARS!!
i used to work 40+ hours a week up until last 4 years so before did not have time to notice how distant this marriage was.
Now...i am on social security disability and have plenty of time to see a whole lot more.
I have talked to him about this and his comment...was...YOU...ARE. TOO BIG!
mY husband also has a issue with alcohol and dud say those words drinking.
To my specific....MAJOR PROBLEM...
FOR past YEAR...I cant sleep in bed becuz i would hear him rubbing himself and it made me sick. If i would come onto him he always did and does push me away.
I now sleep in a recliner...10-15 feet from a bedroom dooor where NOW...EVERY MORNING AND SOME NIGHTS I HAVE TO LISTEN TO THIS SROKUNG, HEAVY BREATHING AND MOANING!!!
makes me FURIOUS...I HAVE APPROACHED HIM ON THIS AND HE DENIES...ALL THIS..EVEN PUT HIS HAND ON BIBLE SWEARING IT IS NOT TRUE. AND STATES IT IS THE ADVERSARY PLAYING WITH MY MIND!!!
but wadded up tissue and hidden lotion bottles are not my imagination!!!
i have even suggested counseling...again...his response..
I DONT NEED HELP ...YOU DO !!
i Know God HATES divorce....BUT...
I CANT LIVE WITH THESE CONTINUAL SICK LIES!!!!
PLEASE....HELP!!!!