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Sunday 10-24-21 Cheshvan 17, 5782 1st. day of the weekly cycle, 33rd. Fall Day

Our Daily Bread Today 24 October 2021 Devotional | Talk, Trust, Feel

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Our Daily Bread Today 24 October 2021 Devotional | Message By Monica La Rose (Our Daily Bread Ministries)

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TOPIC: Talk, Trust, Feel

TODAY’S SCRIPTURE: Romans 8:14–21

KEY VERSE: The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear. – Romans 8:15

BIBLE IN A YEAR: Jeremiah 3–5; 1 Timothy 4

TODAY’S INSIGHT: Romans 7 deals with the conflict we face with sin and concludes by Paul saying, “I myself . . . am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature a slave to the law of sin” (v. 25). In contrast, Romans 8 begins with this magnificent assurance: “Therefore, there is no now condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (v. 1). Believers in Jesus are now free to live out the joyous victory found by following Him.

Verse 5 provides the key: “Those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.” The work of the Holy Spirit in our lives is absolutely crucial. And so verse 14 appropriately says, “Those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.” It’s this Spirit that “testifies with our spirit that we’re God’s children” (v. 16).

Our Daily Bread Today 24 October 2021 Devotional | Message
“Don’t talk, don’t trust, don’t feel was the law we lived by,” says Frederick Buechner in his powerful memoir Telling Secrets, “and woe to the one who broke it.” Buechner is describing his experience of what he calls the “unwritten law of families who for one reason or another have gone out of whack.” In his own family, that “law” meant Buechner was not allowed to talk about or grieve his father’s suicide, leaving him with no one he could trust with his pain.

Can you relate? Many of us in one way or another have learned to live with a warped version of love, one that demands dishonesty or silence about what’s harmed us. That kind of “love” relies on fear for control—and is a kind of slavery.

We can’t afford to forget just how different Jesus’ invitation to love is from the kind of conditional love we often experience—a kind of love we’re always afraid we could lose. As Paul explains, through Christ’s love we can finally understand what it means to not live in fear (Romans 8:15) and start to understand the kind of glorious freedom (v. 21) that’s possible when we know we’re deeply, truly, and unconditionally loved. We’re free to talk, to trust, and to feel once more—to learn what it means to live unafraid.

REFLECT: Are there any unspoken “rules” you’ve learned as conditions for acceptance and love? How might you live differently if you believed you didn’t have to follow those rules to be loved?

PRAY: Loving God, at times I’m afraid to live honestly with myself and with others—thinking that by doing so I’ll no longer be loved. Heal my heart, and help me believe in and live for the glory, freedom, and joy Your love makes possible.

Our Daily Bread Today 24 October 2021 Devotional | Message. Our Daily Bread Ministries (ODB) is a Christian organization founded by Dr. Martin De Haan in 1938. It is based in Grand Rapids, Michigan, with over 600 employees. It produces several devotional publications, including Our Daily Bread.

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I feel like I've had some anger towards the ideal of love, in that all of my experiences with men since my third stepfather have been angry and unreliable.

I remember my ex-husband saying he would mess with my mind so bad that I couldn't even look at another man again and I was angry with God last night because I felt like he finished the job- like maybe that's what he actually intended for my life was to completely wipe out the desire and have me alone forever. And so now I feel like the times I waited and trusted him were just cruel.

This is an interesting read but I'm still trying to wrap my head around it.
 

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I feel like I've had some anger towards the ideal of love, in that all of my experiences with men since my third stepfather have been angry and unreliable.

I remember my ex-husband saying he would mess with my mind so bad that I couldn't even look at another man again and I was angry with God last night because I felt like he finished the job- like maybe that's what he actually intended for my life was to completely wipe out the desire and have me alone forever. And so now I feel like the times I waited and trusted him were just cruel.

This is an interesting read but I'm still trying to wrap my head around it.
We will be in prayer for you.

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I feel like I've had some anger towards the ideal of love, in that all of my experiences with men since my third stepfather have been angry and unreliable.

I remember my ex-husband saying he would mess with my mind so bad that I couldn't even look at another man again and I was angry with God last night because I felt like he finished the job- like maybe that's what he actually intended for my life was to completely wipe out the desire and have me alone forever. And so now I feel like the times I waited and trusted him were just cruel.

This is an interesting read but I'm still trying to wrap my head around it.
@FluffyYellowDuck At times of painful and intense introspection and sad memories, I do think Isaiah 48.10 and Isaiah 53 are good to read.
 

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Sunday 10-24-21 Cheshvan 17, 5782 1st. day of the weekly cycle, 33rd. Fall Day

Our Daily Bread Today 24 October 2021 Devotional | Talk, Trust, Feel

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Our Daily Bread Today 24 October 2021 Devotional | Message By Monica La Rose (Our Daily Bread Ministries)

Click To Read Previous ODB Devotional Message

TOPIC: Talk, Trust, Feel

TODAY’S SCRIPTURE: Romans 8:14–21

KEY VERSE: The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear. – Romans 8:15

BIBLE IN A YEAR: Jeremiah 3–5; 1 Timothy 4

TODAY’S INSIGHT: Romans 7 deals with the conflict we face with sin and concludes by Paul saying, “I myself . . . am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature a slave to the law of sin” (v. 25). In contrast, Romans 8 begins with this magnificent assurance: “Therefore, there is no now condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (v. 1). Believers in Jesus are now free to live out the joyous victory found by following Him.

Verse 5 provides the key: “Those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.” The work of the Holy Spirit in our lives is absolutely crucial. And so verse 14 appropriately says, “Those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.” It’s this Spirit that “testifies with our spirit that we’re God’s children” (v. 16).

Our Daily Bread Today 24 October 2021 Devotional | Message
“Don’t talk, don’t trust, don’t feel was the law we lived by,” says Frederick Buechner in his powerful memoir Telling Secrets, “and woe to the one who broke it.” Buechner is describing his experience of what he calls the “unwritten law of families who for one reason or another have gone out of whack.” In his own family, that “law” meant Buechner was not allowed to talk about or grieve his father’s suicide, leaving him with no one he could trust with his pain.

Can you relate? Many of us in one way or another have learned to live with a warped version of love, one that demands dishonesty or silence about what’s harmed us. That kind of “love” relies on fear for control—and is a kind of slavery.

We can’t afford to forget just how different Jesus’ invitation to love is from the kind of conditional love we often experience—a kind of love we’re always afraid we could lose. As Paul explains, through Christ’s love we can finally understand what it means to not live in fear (Romans 8:15) and start to understand the kind of glorious freedom (v. 21) that’s possible when we know we’re deeply, truly, and unconditionally loved. We’re free to talk, to trust, and to feel once more—to learn what it means to live unafraid.

REFLECT: Are there any unspoken “rules” you’ve learned as conditions for acceptance and love? How might you live differently if you believed you didn’t have to follow those rules to be loved?

PRAY: Loving God, at times I’m afraid to live honestly with myself and with others—thinking that by doing so I’ll no longer be loved. Heal my heart, and help me believe in and live for the glory, freedom, and joy Your love makes possible.

Our Daily Bread Today 24 October 2021 Devotional | Message. Our Daily Bread Ministries (ODB) is a Christian organization founded by Dr. Martin De Haan in 1938. It is based in Grand Rapids, Michigan, with over 600 employees. It produces several devotional publications, including Our Daily Bread.

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@WalterandDebbie What a tremendous chapter is Romans 8! :)
 
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