Arnie Manitoba said:
I know .... it is all men's fault .... just ask any woman .... or ask williemac.
Sarcasm duly noted.
The truth is that both male and female are equal members of a fallen species. You saying that some men are not abusers? Some men are not violent? Rapists are not men in most cases? This does not excuse the women from their own versions of sin. All have sinned. But the fact is, if it were not for abuse, there would be no retaliation. If it were not for crime, there would be no jails. And why do you think every city has women's shelters? We are in a fallen and violent world, and it so happens that men are generally stronger than women. Men are hard wired to be more assertive, the downside of which is aggressiveness. The genders are not the same. Women are generally more attracted to men who they see as strong. There is a natural reason for this. But it can backfire and has backfired due to sin.
Both genders may be equal sinners in humanity, but the fact is, we have a general edge in the physical department. What recourse does a woman have when faced with a violent or abusive husband? Her weapons will be different than ours. Hence the feminist movement. I am not condoning it in any way, shape or form. I'm just sayng, there are no winners in this discussion as long as there is a standoff.
The feminist movement is a product of sinful humanity. Both genders are in it up to thier neck. But being a male, it is my place to own up to our part and to right the ship from our side. I can't jump into the other gender and fix them. I can only work on what I can relate to and identify with. You should think about that.
God made us different for a reason. He is the pursuer. We are the responders. Our human relationships are similar. Men pursue and women respond. We were hard wired in these roles to get an understanding of God's role over us. Therefore, husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. You know the rest. The point is that men are clearly in the better position to solve this issue. The solution is not to finger point or blame. It is simply to understand who we are, what is our role, and own up to it by example and commitment.
So yes, men are more responsible in this. We are the heads, the saviors of the body. The lifegivers to the body. The protectors of the body. Many men have no real idea just how gratifying it is when they realize and participate in their proper role towards women. Excuse me now. Its late and my wife is in bed. Its time to go and giver her a back massage, to help her relax and get a good sleep. And no, I'm not kidding.
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So it's morning now, and she slept well. Just want to say about things like feminism. Some things are understandable, but not necessarily acceptable. But blessed are the peacemakers.