Here is my problem: I love my wife - she loves me; we cannot stand living together. I am serious. We have been married for 20 years. I can moralize my position and she can moralize hers. We've been to a great counselor. The more we are apart, the happier we are. Neither one of us want a divorce. Neither one of us wants to live together. Furthermore, we have no dependents. I have moved out and given my wife everything and I am not bitter. I even shovel her driveway and will mow her lawn. We are just so different that we keep hurting each other - so what is the Christian response?