Oh, I'm not saying it may be easy, although I don't think that is the core issue.
I'm not saying that God does not speak to us personally in His Word, having it mean to us whatever it is He wants to. I know He speaks with me that way.
John referred to these three levels of truth in these significant words:-
"I write unto you, little children, because your sins are forgiven you for His name's sake...I write unto you, young men, because ye have overcome the wicked one...I write unto you, fathers, because ye have known Him that is from the beginning" I Jn. 2:13.
It is the same word, but on different levels to each realm.
The word of God will meet you at a different place , depending upon where you are in the progression of your spiritual development from babes to young men ....to fathers.
This is an interesting example, let me tell you how I read it.
Little children, read this next part knowing your sins are forgiven you for His name's sake.
Young men, read this next part as overcomers of the wicked one.
Fathers, read this next part in mind of your relationship with the Eternal God.
And he writes the same to each, and each to be understood individually.
Yes, I'm really glad you brought up this part!
For me to know what God is saying to me, well, I'm a father, and I know Him that is from the beginning.
1 John 2
15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
17 And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.
I don't need to love the world, it passes away, but God remains forever. None of these things remain, But God, Who is from the beginning, remains forever. I can go on. And on, as you know! :)
To the little children, the proper understanding, I think, is by the little child, that is the one who can take these words and put it into their own life experience, as I did for myself.
The verses themself, 15-17, I think we can sort through them and come to a very clear and agreed upon understanding of what they mean, but there is a triple context to the single passage.
But at the same time, my main point is that words have meanings, and are meant to communicate. When we disregard the meaning of words to substitute with other words, then we can lose the meaning God wrote to reveal.
One other thing to add . . . I don't know that I think the same as the "spiritual meaning when we meet and touch God", I've known that to be in seeing how He wrote the plain text to me, and the delivered it to me so meaningfully so many times. Late nights in my room in desparate need, to find my life and my difficulties all anticipated, all met, as I just read my Bible.
But at the end of the day, I'll not be in any disagreement whatsoever that God is personal to each of us, and our relationship with His is ours and not any others!
Much love!!