I was trying to explain you why celibacy is not always a better option.But this just brings us back to your OP. If you want to go with this just be prepared for the sharpening that marriage is to a man.
Your fears are not unfounded. Because you are educated about how people are at this time in human history you can make a more informed decision about who to marry. But don't think that's going to make marriage a calk walk because it's not. It will be far more delightful if you marry a woman who understands marital obligations as you do. Don't get married without literally asking God if it's okay to marry the one you've chosen.
It's not how well you get along that determines a good marriage. It's how well you don't get along that determines that. Understand what I'm saying?
And if anything yes, we should actually return to the OP.