I don't want to explain why but I found her online and I'm really praying she responds immediately
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I don't want to explain why but I found her online and I'm really praying she responds immediately
I don't want to explain why but I found her online and I'm really praying she responds immediately
Thanks @Jay Ross .Hi Fluffy/Lady of Fire and Lace,
It is good to see you pop up every now and then. It seems that there is a story behind your desire to reconnect with this particular woman which goes back a number of years now. People ebb and flow in and out of our lives over time, for a reason, as they move on, and we lose contact with them as they get on with living their own lives independently of ours.
You can bless this woman, by asking God to continue drawing her into His loving embrace, and that He will bless her with people around her who are helping her to develop her relationship with God into a much deeper relationship than she has experienced before. That God would protect her as she lives her life and give her the things that she needs to live life to the full with Him by her side.
Oh, Fluffy, I just realised that this prayer is for you also.
Keep your focus on God as you walk daily with Him into His purposes for your life. Keep blessing those around you with whom you are rubbing shoulders with daily. A smile here, a kind word there that speaks into their lives, a building up through encouragement, etc., etc.
May you and she keep on keeping on with Christ for the rest of your days.
Shalom
And would it matter if you never found out for sure?I'm okay if I'm right and I'm not okay with everything I'm thinking if I'm not.
Not so much for my sake, but the boys played together when they were toddlers. They were only a couple of months apart.And would it matter if you never found out for sure?
Yeah, but what I'm talking about is not knowing whether a trusted friend betrayed you by engaging in an affair with your husband. You sound like you're willing to forgive her if the worst is true; can you still be friends if you don't know for sure?Not so much for my sake, but the boys played together when they were toddlers. They were only a couple of months apart.
If they were brothers, I personally would feel like I'm holding back something.
As for any closure regarding infidelity in my previous marriage, I don't really care. It really wouldn't have been anything new or surprising.
Yes, because we were very young and all drinking at the time.Yeah, but what I'm talking about is not knowing whether a trusted friend betrayed you by engaging in an affair with your husband. You sound like you're willing to forgive her if the worst is true; can you still be friends if you don't know for sure?
Do you even want to still be friends with her?
Yes, because we were very young and all drinking at the time.
I know she was seriously dealing with loneliness and complaining about it a lot, to everyone. And I have no idea what he was thinking except unfaithfulness was rampant and his friends were not good.
I can forgive and I would like to be friend but I also have something in the back of my mind that thinks, well, even though I trust @SERVANTedu, I still don't like the idea.
Those insecurities derive from your previous experiences with the men in your life. The insecurity will fade with experience in a loving, stable, and faithful relationship. Time and love really can heal.I can forgive and I would like to be friend but I also have something in the back of my mind that thinks, well, even though I trust @SERVANTedu, I still don't like the idea.