Unequally Yoked

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Gary Mac

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I posted this in another forum, Apologetics, but found it worthy to apply here.

When I was a child in the 1950s, my grandpa had this old barn on the Land that he settle on a government land grant given for free to anyone who would farm it in the late 1800s. 280 acres best I remember . In this 100 year old barn he milked four Jersey cows and had a milk run delivery. An old man in his late eighties and early nineties.

He set up this galvanized horse troth where he could build a fire under it to boil water and rigged an old washing machine motor with a brush attached where he could scald and clean the inside of the glass milk bottles. My job, and I was about 8 years old was to run the separator, separating the cream from the milk and had this devise mounted to the wall where I would pull down this lever to insert this paper stopper in the top of those bottles.

One day I noticed this wooden object on the wall and asked him about it for what it was. He said that is an Oxen yoke. He began to tell me about how he made it from an oak tree and plowed those fields with Oxen, and took a vacation from Plainview Texas to Scott county Arkansas on an Ox driven cart, to him three months. He went to his tools and pulled out this draw knife. He took that yoke off the wall and begin to explain to me how it worked and said.

If the yoke does not fit the Ox and it hurts he will not pull the plow so I take this knife and fit it to the oxen shoulders to be comfortable on him. For if one of the ox does not fit the yoke there is no way that you can plow a straight furrow.

I never forgot that story and later in life in my late twenties when I gave my life over to God and read do not be unequally yoked with one Jesus or one another, for if you are there is no way that you can perform that perfect task that God instructs us to perform in Him, that you may take up that cross, that same cross as the one that Jesus took up all alone by those who could not be equally yoked with him in the Father. And not even one of his own disciples came to be identified with him at his trials and tribulation, not a single one.

And from what I read in this forum, I have not heard from one at alll who is equally yoked with Jesus to pull that same load from the Lord God of it that Jesus pulled of the One that he called Father of it.

Here is what they say about that. No one can be like Jesus, he was god, no one can be perfect even as your father in heaven is perfect as Jesus was. And they say that Jesus was the only child that God ever had, a son to pull that load by himself when it is you who is supposed to pick up that same load as Jesus picked up and carried it to his death by men who could not yoke themselves to the same.

These who only has a belief for a god, tha yoke that God makes hurts these pride for a belief instead of being the one who is suppose to be equal with Jesus in the same God as he was equal with that he called Father, and impossible to find in yourself to be equal with the very same One Jesus said he was equal with. That huts doesnt it?

Now I will hear how blasphemous that is won't we! It Hurts doesnt it when you read how you are suppose to pull that same load as Jesus did from God Himself as Jesus did, but actually refuse to.
 

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That is not proper usage of your message, nor is it a proper interpretation of Apostle Paul telling those in Christ to not be unequally yoked.

Paul's analogy is with being yoked to more than one, like a team of oxen, not just one.

And Paul's idea of being 'unequally' yoked is about what one follows, that being only about two possible choices, either following God, or following the devil.

In another verse of that Scripture, Paul said don't associate with the "infidel" (a non-believer).

2 Cor 6:14-18
14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?

16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.

17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
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That is not proper usage of your message, nor is it a proper interpretation of Apostle Paul telling those in Christ to not be unequally yoked.
It is not a proper interpretation for those who dont know what it is to be yoked to the Father and walk as He walks in His same light.

Those who are yoked to mans own ideas for a god is your interpretation of it. Are you yoked to Chathilc, Mormon, Jehovahs witness, Assembly of God, Baptists. Church of Christ, Muslims, which of these beliefs of man are you yoked to?

But we who has received from God the same mind, Spirit that He is, are yoked with Jesus, he was yoked to the same God as I am. We walk exactly as He walks in his same light of the Father who is in us. We are perfect even as our Father in heaven is perfect, same signs follow us.



Paul's analogy is with being yoked to more than one, like a team of oxen, not just one.
Yes and there are many who are yoked with God, well I say many actually only a few find His ways for you to be in Him and He be in you as one as Jesus prayed to his GHod for you to be in John :17.

And Paul's idea of being 'unequally' yoked is about what one follows,
Bingo -- Catholic, Mormon, Jehovahs witness, Assembly of God, Baptists. Church of Christ, Muslims,



that being only about two possible choices, either following God, or following the devil.
It isnt about following God. it is about being in His exact image, perfect even as your Father in heaven is perfect, walk as He walks in His same light.

In another verse of that Scripture, Paul said don't associate with the "infidel" (a non-believer).
I dont that is why I am of the same God as Jesus was of, who came to Jesus just as He did me and all who will receive Him. Matt 3:16. It is He who opens in us who He is and all of Hs heaven in us, and Jesus even prayed to his God that I be in the Father and the Father be in me as one, just as Jesus was in the Father and the Father was in Him as one in John 17.

In that I am yoked with the same God as Jesus was yoked to.

2 Cor 6:14-18
14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?

16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.

17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
KJV
You can make all the excuses that you like not to be yoked to Jesus in his ways in the Father all that you like, and he will continue to pull that plow without you, and pick someone who will take up that cross and pull it with Him.
 

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It is not a proper interpretation for those who dont know what it is to be yoked to the Father and walk as He walks in His same light.

Those who are yoked to mans own ideas for a god is your interpretation of it. Are you yoked to Chathilc, Mormon, Jehovahs witness, Assembly of God, Baptists. Church of Christ, Muslims, which of these beliefs of man are you yoked to?
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Therein exists one of the big problems in today's Churches. A person reads one single verse and then runs with it as if they know all about it, when they haven't even considered the verse 'within' the context of where it is written. Hey, but no surprise, because brethren learn that method of interpretation from their unqualified preachers that God did not call, as they slice-n'-dice God's written Word into fragments all the time.

What if a chemistry teacher did that kind of thing, omitting important steps in a documented chemistry method involving the ingredients to make gun powder?
 
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Therein exists one of the big problems in today's Churches. A person reads one single verse and then runs with it as if they know all about it, when they haven't even considered the verse 'within' the context of where it is written. Hey, but no surprise, because brethren learn that method of interpretation from their unqualified preachers that God did not call, as they slice-n'-dice God's written Word into fragments all the time.

What if a chemistry teacher did that kind of thing, omitting important steps in a documented chemistry method involving the ingredients to make gun powder?
Thank you, Good post!

Exactly and I was field engineer in refiners and chemical plants planning and scheduling procedures, and one little misinterpreting can take lives. Seen many killed by not following procedures, causing explosions, fires, and poisoned. Skip one little detail and disaster follows.

But the real truth is if one does not know the procedures and follow the instructions then their life is in their own hands and can cause the death of others.

I had meetings all the time with plant engineers and I would gather procedures from the actually operates of it and put into a schedule for repairs. In the meeting I would present the procedures to upper management, mostly engineers and sometimes they would balk and say no this is the procedure for that chemical contrary to the guy who was actually out there running it.

SO I would write up a form and say the operator said this is the way and include what the engineer said about it and have th, both sign this waver that stated what the operator said from what he said only from book learning instead out there operating it himself, so we will do as the boss of it says, the engineer, and if it blows up because of improper procedure then he, the engineer is held accountable. That way it left me without any faults. I would Hand it to them for them to sign and every time the engineer would refuse to sign it and we would go with the one who actually operated that unit.

We have that very same thing coming out from our pulpits. The guy in the field knows how God works, Jesus was in the filed. The guy with a book only has opinions about it and actually had the on in the field crucified because he didnt line up with their interpretations of the instruction manual that the Bible is.

I have been retired from refineries and chemical plants for over 10 years and even to this day I get calls from young men and plant managers that I worked with asking if I would come and make a schedule for the planet shut down for repairs. About every four years they shut down and replace everything they can as new. They call it a turnaround and I was freelancer for my own business and worked in plants all of the US and international.

And I can tell you that experience is worth more than ten thousand words about it.
 
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