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Arenyeager

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New here... things have been really difficult for me... family problems, work problems and friends' problems. All coming at once. I don't have anyone to talk to or cry to. I'm facing a lot of insults and disrespect from the family and people around me. My work is hectic, and Im loosing on my mind. I have been searching for jobs, and I haven't gotten any interviews. I'm into music, and I'm not getting any opportunities to play music. I feel really stuck. I feel like God doesn't have a plan for me. I can see what He has done in my past, but honestly, right now I feel like it's over, and I am going to live a pathetic life. I have no support whatsoever, none from my so-called friends and family. I am alone, no one to hang out with. I feel like God made a mistkae that putting me here on this planet. I don't like this mindset. If I get some encouragement from you all. I'll be happy. I don't have the strength to fight.
 

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New here... things have been really difficult for me... family problems, work problems and friends' problems. All coming at once. I don't have anyone to talk to or cry to. I'm facing a lot of insults and disrespect from the family and people around me. My work is hectic, and Im loosing on my mind. I have been searching for jobs, and I haven't gotten any interviews. I'm into music, and I'm not getting any opportunities to play music. I feel really stuck. I feel like God doesn't have a plan for me. I can see what He has done in my past, but honestly, right now I feel like it's over, and I am going to live a pathetic life. I have no support whatsoever, none from my so-called friends and family. I am alone, no one to hang out with. I feel like God made a mistkae that putting me here on this planet. I don't like this mindset. If I get some encouragement from you all. I'll be happy. I don't have the strength to fight.
""I feel like God doesn't have a plan for me""
Hang out here and talk with others about your faith in Christ & what you can do for Him :)
 

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New here... things have been really difficult for me... family problems, work problems and friends' problems. All coming at once. I don't have anyone to talk to or cry to. I'm facing a lot of insults and disrespect from the family and people around me. My work is hectic, and Im loosing on my mind. I have been searching for jobs, and I haven't gotten any interviews. I'm into music, and I'm not getting any opportunities to play music. I feel really stuck. I feel like God doesn't have a plan for me. I can see what He has done in my past, but honestly, right now I feel like it's over, and I am going to live a pathetic life. I have no support whatsoever, none from my so-called friends and family. I am alone, no one to hang out with. I feel like God made a mistkae that putting me here on this planet. I don't like this mindset. If I get some encouragement from you all. I'll be happy. I don't have the strength to fight.
Hi, a warm welcome to you. First before I answer you, please introduce yourself in the welcome center forum. So members can all greet you.

I'm sorry you are going through so many trials all at once. Do you have a good home church? If not, please try to find one where you will be supported and encouraged.

Whenever we are under a lot of stress I think that's when we especially have to lean on God's promises in His Word the Bible. Find verses to help you in your situation, meditate on them, and keep trusting the Lord.

Also it's important to take each day, one day at a time with the Lord's help.

We cannot help how others treat us, but we should always treat others as we would like to be treated. Perhaps your love towards them will cause them to have a change in their actions towards you?

Also be sure to count your blessings...even being able to see, walk and hear are blessings.
 

Arenyeager

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Hi, a warm welcome to you. First before I answer you, please introduce yourself in the welcome center forum. So members can all greet you.

I'm sorry you are going through so many trials all at once. Do you have a good home church? If not, please try to find one where you will be supported and encouraged.

Whenever we are under a lot of stress I think that's when we especially have to lean on God's promises in His Word the Bible. Find verses to help you in your situation, meditate on them, and keep trusting the Lord.

Also it's important to take each day, one day at a time with the Lord's help.

We cannot help how others treat us, but we should always treat others as we would like to be treated. Perhaps your love towards them will cause them to have a change in their actions towards you?

Also be sure to count your blessings...even being able to see, walk and hear are blessings.
Thank you, I always try to compromise with other people. Most of the time, I don't do anything. Only when it goes over my tolerance level do I snap. I'm not able to see any direction in my life.
 
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Debp

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Thank you, I always try to compromise with other people. Most of the time, I don't do anything. Only when it goes over my tolerance level do I snap. I'm not able to see any direction in my life.

Remember just because you are a Christian does not mean you need to be a doormat. If you don't agree with some things others do, just explain your position respectfully.
 
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New here... things have been really difficult for me... family problems, work problems and friends' problems. All coming at once. I don't have anyone to talk to or cry to. I'm facing a lot of insults and disrespect from the family and people around me. My work is hectic, and Im loosing on my mind. I have been searching for jobs, and I haven't gotten any interviews. I'm into music, and I'm not getting any opportunities to play music. I feel really stuck. I feel like God doesn't have a plan for me. I can see what He has done in my past, but honestly, right now I feel like it's over, and I am going to live a pathetic life. I have no support whatsoever, none from my so-called friends and family. I am alone, no one to hang out with. I feel like God made a mistkae that putting me here on this planet. I don't like this mindset. If I get some encouragement from you all. I'll be happy. I don't have the strength to fight.
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted :/
 
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In Christ JESUS is our hope and our salvation . let us cling to HIM and hold dear all things He did say and teach .
Remember the great gift that has been given us IN Christ . Eternal life .
Many in this w orld can seem to have it much easier . Some can even seem to have great abundance
of earthern possesions .
Let our focus be upon the heavenly treasure Christ Jesus . T his life is but a vapor that appears for a time and then
vanishes away , but ETERNAL LIFE is forever . Thanks b e to GOD and His Glorious Christ
we have been given the gift of life eternal . Let us remember all that HE did for us so as all who do beleive
would have eternal life . The Lord is our hope and our salvation .
 
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Remember just because you are a Christian does not mean you need to be a doormat. If you don't agree with some things others do, just explain your position respectfully.
Yes we sure were to have corrected our neighbor and now have allowed sin , UNBLEIF upon them .
Guess what ol amigo spotted . an ecumeincal h arlot , her inclusive father who is satan
and a big ol PEACE plan they beleive is gonna usher in world peace n safety .
GUESS what is in their peace plan and guess what got totally denied .
A FAT LIE is in that peace plan and THE GOSPEL OF JESUS TOTALLY DENIED
and yet this ecmeincal pro israel or pro palestine plan AND THE SAME LIE
will merge all religoins and all will believe HEY this is how we get WORLD PEACE N SAFETY .
Now it sure does make sense what paul wrote long long ago .
FOR WHEN THEY SHALL SAY PEACE N SAFETY , SUDDEN DESTRUCTION BEFALLS THEM ALL .
And do i need to say WHY that was . CAUSE read again what i just wrote.
THEIR BELOVED PEACE PLAN DENIED THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST . SO AINT NO WAY ITS THE PEACE PLAN OF GOD .
IT OF the dark one . And HE SURE DO LIe dont he . OH he sure does lie .
 

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New here... things have been really difficult for me... family problems, work problems and friends' problems. All coming at once. I don't have anyone to talk to or cry to. I'm facing a lot of insults and disrespect from the family and people around me. My work is hectic, and Im loosing on my mind. I have been searching for jobs, and I haven't gotten any interviews. I'm into music, and I'm not getting any opportunities to play music. I feel really stuck. I feel like God doesn't have a plan for me. I can see what He has done in my past, but honestly, right now I feel like it's over, and I am going to live a pathetic life. I have no support whatsoever, none from my so-called friends and family. I am alone, no one to hang out with. I feel like God made a mistkae that putting me here on this planet. I don't like this mindset. If I get some encouragement from you all. I'll be happy. I don't have the strength to fight.
When the direction we are going is sh.t it becomes a motivation for change.....change in HOW one sees.....and that is primarily what God's Spirit wants to achieve.
 

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New here... things have been really difficult for me... family problems, work problems and friends' problems. All coming at once. I don't have anyone to talk to or cry to. I'm facing a lot of insults and disrespect from the family and people around me. My work is hectic, and Im loosing on my mind. I have been searching for jobs, and I haven't gotten any interviews. I'm into music, and I'm not getting any opportunities to play music. I feel really stuck. I feel like God doesn't have a plan for me. I can see what He has done in my past, but honestly, right now I feel like it's over, and I am going to live a pathetic life. I have no support whatsoever, none from my so-called friends and family. I am alone, no one to hang out with. I feel like God made a mistkae that putting me here on this planet. I don't like this mindset. If I get some encouragement from you all. I'll be happy. I don't have the strength to fight.

A warm welcome for the gale from India! HUGS!
Can't comment on the Job thing, cause I do not know the job market in India.
This is a good site....conversations in general and religious discussion.
I do recommend going to church and getting involved in church activities and community. Good way to meet friends.
Take the time to find a good church. I do not know how much selection you have for Christian churches in India?
Don't forget to pray. If you are alone talk to God out loud. Sounds like you are talking to yourself. But I tell people to walk with Christ everyday and talking to Him is a good way to do it.