farouk
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:)Or act wise and say up front, with the hand open palm up a must-
"I know nothing".
Helen
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:)Or act wise and say up front, with the hand open palm up a must-
"I know nothing".
Helen
2 famous quotes come to mind as relevant to the topic of this thread:
(1) Luther said, "Sin boldly." He meant this: we will all inevitably sin; so the key question is how we respond to our need for forgiveness. We basically have 2 choices: we can wallow on guilt with a poor self-image and just accept our 2nd-rate spirituality.
Or we can sin with gusto, not deliberately, but with the knowledge that God always knew we would still sin, but will still accept us if we gratefully repent with a renewed expectation of a victorious Christian life and a resolve to learn from our errors. Jesus' atoning death means that He buries our sins in the sea of His forgetfulness and puts up a sign that says "No fishing!" So when we continue to wallow in guilt after repenting, we are fishing in a No fishing zone and acting as if Jesus didn't do an adequate job on the cross.
(2) St. Augustine taught: "Love God and do whatever you please." His point is that Christians need not live a life enslaved to long list of burdensome duties or "oughts" that tax our willpower. If we truly understand and embody agape love, when doing whatever please will naturally be in harmony with God's will.
2 famous quotes come to mind as relevant to the topic of this thread:
(1) Luther said, "Sin boldly." He meant this: we will all inevitably sin; so the key question is how we respond to our need for forgiveness. We basically have 2 choices: we can wallow on guilt with a poor self-image and just accept our 2nd-rate spirituality.
Or we can sin with gusto, not deliberately, but with the knowledge that God always knew we would still sin, but will still accept us if we gratefully repent with a renewed expectation of a victorious Christian life and a resolve to learn from our errors. Jesus' atoning death means that He buries our sins in the sea of His forgetfulness and puts up a sign that says "No fishing!" So when we continue to wallow in guilt after repenting, we are fishing in a No fishing zone and acting as if Jesus didn't do an adequate job on the cross.
(2) St. Augustine taught: "Love God and do whatever you please." His point is that Christians need not live a life enslaved to long list of burdensome duties or "oughts" that tax our willpower. If we truly understand and embody agape love, when doing whatever please will naturally be in harmony with God's will.
You won't find any support for this in the Bible. Luther said a lot of stupid things in his lifetime.Or we can sin with gusto, not deliberately, but with the knowledge that God always knew we would still sin, but will still accept us if we gratefully repent
I think that is part of the cage building, and they aren't free to be themselves.There's a certain "at risk" feeling to being genuine with people. Because you are right, in my view, everyone is the same inside, we all have some sort of issue or issues, and so many have learned to hide who they are, or who they feel like they are.
And then people get so used to hiding, they forget who they are. And they construct false images of themselves, which they feel portrays someone better than they really are, and then get invested in propping up that image.
And as anyone on this forum knows . . . show any weakness, prepare to be eaten alive!
Much love!
Mark
Just thinking about some recent 'conversations' I have had on this site, I think some people can get 'caged' by doctrinal issues and bind themselves in knots trying to prove their point to others.
I agree Pearl, those issues just go round and round in circles, and nobody as far as I can tell, has been "converted" to the others doctrine. I think they just like to argue and disagree, lol. They would never get away with, or even talk like they do on here if it were a true and civil debate with a moderator.
Having a moderator does not increase our abilities to express ourselves honestly as a moderator can be used dishonestly to force the members' desired outcomes upon other people.
One Prophecy forum I used to frequent was forced to close because of the attitude of just one or two members who demanded that certain action was implemented. The owner of the forum had had enough of being the judge and enforcer of form rules etc., and simply decided that the forum was not meeting its goals of being a forum where bible prophecy could be discussed "nicely." I noticed that one of those "problem "members was a poster on this forum for a time.
On another forum I frequented, the moderator had lost interest in interacting on his forum, so the members themselves had to moderate themselves and this worked for a while until a belligerent member arrived who was very aggressive and demanded that the moderator act at that members direction. After a few months of the member's ranting on the forum, two long term members approached the owner of the forum to seek out a solution. They discovered that the owner was no longer interested in a forum where he could not control the contents of the posts and so he adopted the Blogger format where he could simply delete any comments which were not in line with his POV or questioned his POV. The owner is an often sort after conference speaker who has written many book on the End Times.
However, the own of that forum was interested to ditch his forum as long as the forum changed it name so that he was not longer associated with the forum. This was done and the two longer term members of the forum took over the responsibilities of looking after the forum. The problem member was blocked but that member came back a number of times and continued in their usual belligerent manner until they were able to permanently block the members access to the forum.
The issue of having a moderator to control civil debate is not the answer. The answer is that the members understand and practice the conventions of enduring peace were the members are as responsible for maintaining the niceties of "civil" debate as is a good moderator.
Sadly, not everybody understand the responsibilities of the process of establishing peace and of maintaining that peace.
Just as true freedom has boundary conditions that helps keep us within bounds of freedom, it to relies of the peace processes of giving and taking.
Helping people to understand how peace works and the members responsibilities in this process would go a long way in resolving many of the problems faced here.
Shalom
"Having a moderator does not increase our abilities to express ourselves honestly as a moderator can be used dishonestly to force the members' desired outcomes upon other people......"
Hi Jay,
You are referring to an "online" forum, I was speaking about the difference between that and the "forum" being public, with moderator and many times, an audience who get to ask questions after the debates. I find people will behave much differently when debating online as opposed to the "live" ones. :)